Hey guys, Just started implementing TRP about two months ago. It's been going pretty good; I got over really bad social anxiety, I can go out normally, feel a lot more confident etc. So next, I'm working on my social interactions. There's this one girl I met a few months back, and turns out we share a couple courses this semester. I've been basically practising my socializing/TRP reading with her thus far since every other girl I know, knows me as a bluepill. A couple of times while I was talking to this girl, some topic came up about a place, and I'd tell her "yeah we should go sometime" and she always seems really interested, but I never really plan it/move forward with it. A couple of times, she even brought up some topic about some place randomly, and it was obvious she was waiting for me to ask her to go. I never proceed because everytime I'm about to ask, my old instincts pop up, my heart starts racing for no reason, and I basically freeze and get awkward.
Now, she doesn't really bring those topics up anymore, and I'm pretty sure she either thinks I don't want to go anywhere with her or (more likey) that I'm a pussy. I think I'm ready to bite the bullet next time I see her, but I'm not sure if I should do it, because if she thinks I'm a blue pill, there's no point.
She doesn't know me that well (afterall, I've only been in class with her thus far), so what do you guys think? Should I find another p erson, or keep trying with this one?
Thanks!
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