I'm considering an open relationship.. My partner and myself have been together for 5 months.. But we both get hit on a lot and she entertains these guys which I don't mind because I do the same.. we both care about each other But I do want more, I'm pushing for the ultimate goal and that's to have someone that's a 10 or at least a 9, but The plates I have are not Ltr material but my partner is, she an 8 but I know there's better out there.. So would it be safe to suggest this? This might make her up her game which I don't mind but she also be feeling low value after this suggestion..

My questions are.. Is there a good way of breaking it to her? And what would her mindset be after suggesting ?