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Not interested in girls anymore

ap426 · 2017-07-20T07:13:38+00:00

I used to be interested in girls then I got oneitis. Now idgaf anymore. It's like I'm not bothered. Wtf is happening?...

ap426

July 20, 2017

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Title	Not interested in girls anymore
Author	ap426
Upvotes	3
Comments	37
Date	July 20, 2017 7:13 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6oeo14/not_interested_in_girls_anymore/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/not-interested-in-girls-anymore.94421 https://theredarchive.com/post/94421

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[–]savagedealer1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If all you care about is sex then sleeping with escorts could be a nice band aid fix but I'm gonna go with you want both sex and emotional relationship . The only way To get both is to read more side bar man . You have to have faith and know the day will come when shit will be good . Right now you feel like shit and having someone you want to pour all your love into even when they hurt you just because your tired of being hurt and alone is a very bad mix for your soul . You can't let people emotionally shit on you cause your emotionally lonely or feel unloved . Women are the first to sense this type of thing and friend zone the worst of us in a heartbeat for this very reason . To love yourself and be able to sustain that alone and with purpose and to share yourself when it is right and justified is what women crave more than anything it shouldn't be your life mission to build yourself up only to worship at the pussy alter to be humiliated and cast aside and treated worse than trash . Love yourself be true to yourself and lead those women around you to a better way of thinking and living and they will pay 100 fold in pussy love and admiration . Never forget though to not be someone's emotional punching bag you are not a slave you are not trash to be thrown away once they have drained you of your love and attention whoever does this to you should be treated as potential threat never hate them but be very in tune with your emotions around them and the vibes they bring with you for they could be psychic vampires or thieves and hurt you in ways you can completely avoid if you just learn to love yourself first and again most importantly sustain that love internally and eternally . Good luck brother I know you'll find your way and never drown out what is good inside you because it's kept you alive this long and will continue to do so if you trust in yourself

[–]ap4261 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks savagedealer, you have a great answer.

I fought with my gf for a couple of months because she was a spoilt brat. She admitted it herself and she called herself "independent."

She used to live off daddy's money and go out eating and buying random shit. She also used to eat on plastic coated paper plates (causes all other health problems). I argued with her to make her a better person and she resented me for it. I wanted her to become independent by telling her she's not independent etc and saying that she really needs to look after her health. As I cared for her. Ask anyone of my friends, and they'll tell you I have your best interest at heart.

She wanted big things like a mansion, maid, nanny and a tennis court in Texas. Now she is doing another degree and will graduate in 2020. Lots of shit tests like "Will you protect me", just said "I don't believe in violence, stand your own ground"

I dodged a bullet.

Will definitely read more side bar and start loving myself. I've realized nobody gives a shit about you, so you have to love yourself.

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