I'm finally getting the message that women love men who show confidence. Aside from lifting, here's some things I'm doing...

-Say things that push the envelope in a way that only a confident guy would say (IE: giving an edgy compliment to a girl like "OMG, your ass looked great in that bikini" or showing dominance over another guy ... in front of a girl.. like "Dude don't be such a fucking asswipe") Edit: but only if he deserves it.

-Do not apologize for anything you've said, even if it you feel you may have fucked up and gone slightly over the line.

-Do not ask FOLLOWER questions like "what do you want to do?" LEAD and say things like "we are going to (whatever) now"

-Negs: these show that you're not afraid of her retaliating if you put her down a little.

-Kino: you're not afraid of touching her.

That's a few things I'm doing. Any other suggestions?