So i do think i have a bit of social anxiety, but i don't act on it i have control over it for the most part when im interacting, it does change me slightly and cause me to become unreactive but that's different from defensive which isnt what i am, since i do have confidence. I think it's simply excitement from not getting out often.

Anyway, i have trouble knowing what to do when hanging out with others. I'm free and this girl is free but i can't chill for long, she's someone i could fuck and shes been flirting a bit with me and it seems to suggest shes down. I just have no clue what to do.

Do you ever hang out with potential fwbs just to get a feel for them irl better instead of texting? or should i just set up a day to chill that will have actual activities to do and not be so uneventful.

If you can't tell i don't hang out with anyone, it's just hasn't been a desire and i don't think i have the skills anymore to be entertaining in those contexts, i have no clue what to even do lol.

Sure i could get lit with them but it's just not practical and it breaks my frame, i can get pretty anxious sometimes or fuckin rediculous.

Any ideas?

Tl;dr

Don't like doin drugs Don't have much experience with casually chilling with people Slight anxiety causing me to be unreactive but not defensive I'm boring if there is no planned activity or anything.

Maybe i'm not that boring and it's simply a bad way to chill with someone. Don't know. im pretty fucked though if i have to ask this lmao.