Had a friend who is a girl, helped her a lot, she insulted/bantered me quite a lot, if I helped her she wouldn't just say thanks, she bought me food and shit.

I have just recently got familiar with TRP culture. I am completely blue-pilled, though. The thing is -- girl has been shit-testing me a lot, and I passed most of her tests without even being aware that they exist in the first place. I noticed that I took my friend's advice and it worked out well. For example, I asked her out thrice and then ignored her straightforwardly, and when she asked me why do I act strange I told that I am tired of playing games and it's either you reject me completely right now and we're done, and me ignoring her is childish, "you care so much, if you didn't, you would have made tons of jokes what a bitch i am". When she told me about her having sex at beach I joked around if any sand got inside, etc. Stupid, but worked well.

I have read some material already. Few months pass by, she flirts over text hard, but at the last moment, just two hours before we wanted to meet, denies sex. I ask what's wrong and get the shitstorm, then she goes cold shoulder, saying that there are lots of activities but sex. Said that she'll decide if she goes to my flat, or not. No answer. Honestly, I don't understand, if I should have taken it seriously or just confront and say that she'd better stop bitching, we could find a compromise. When I said about it, she goes "it's not what you want I know". I passed basic tests just well, but then she went on some sort of harder one, like push-pull, probably tried to make me jealous, mentioning other males, ignoring me and dropping in favor to hang out with her friends. I noticed that before she was always jealous of me, because I used to hangout with girl who is really good friend. (you could say it's dumb, but I respected the girl and did a lot of favors to her, but the best thing I could see is her bringing me the medicine and paying for it when I was at hospital, in spite of that fact she has BF).

The moment she dropped me was when I got jealous of supremely attractive friend of her. I remember when I followed my friend's advice, she started to act like a pure child. Also, there are far more things I am missed, one hundred percent. We helped each other A LOT, like, it wasn't one-sided for sure.

Then, the part comes where I could have handled everything really, really well. Sadly, this was my first experience and I did not know about RP thing. She breaks up with me, some bullshit excuse. When I initiated the relationship (that was bad, since I have gotten on the hook and she said we won't have anything if I won't be a man) she said she wanted to try, if everything fails, we'll remain friends. So, what was the reason for breaking up? I tried, I couldn't, it wasn't love, more like -- ardour. Then she asks to be my friend, I said, no. She asks again. No. Why? I ask we can, only if FWB.

"so you only cared about sex, you didn't care about communication and chatting", "i miss you", "you just want to forget everything we had", etc. I do miss these bookish long conversations, but I want to fuck as well. The only good response she pulled out and I bought into it when she said "you, actually, sound pathetic and act pathetic, over your lack of sex and your virginity you bother to chase me and play games". Alas, here comes the part where I fucked everything up. I got really mad, resenting her, telling some bullshit, it sounded like a fairy-tale crying. Blocked her. Ignored her then, week after, AGREED TO BE FRIENDS, then told her "sorry" for acting like a retard. She blocked me now, unblocked after ten minutes, however, she said sorry, too. She's on vacation now and I bet she has already hooked up with someone else. Basically, I also said I miss her and almost crawled back. She send me some kind of meme, and my worst response ever "I still want you, well, that's pathetic".

  1. I wouldn't have asked the question if I didn't have to meet her every day. How do I act now? (yes I shat where I ate, I think everyone knows now and she'll go for another man)
  2. What to do if girl gives me a cold shoulder and goes to other guys? Should I befriend guys who I am jealous to?
  3. I am really torn apart. I am seriously not sure where I should have confronted her, where I should have been humane and respectful.
  4. She said she feels unwanted if I don't answer immediately. What do I do in this case?

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