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Should i drop a girl if i notice shes beginning to control my life

QuantumSpecter
August 3, 2017
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Title Should i drop a girl if i notice shes beginning to control my life
Author

QuantumSpecter
Upvotes 2
Comments 10
Date August 3, 2017 12:21 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6r8lwf/should_i_drop_a_girl_if_i_notice_shes_beginning/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/should-i-drop-a-girl-if-i-notice-shes-beginning-to.95168
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Comments

[–]MusicSports11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You should drop anything if that thought even slightly enters your mind in relation to that thing.

It's like asking if you should stop pushing a knife into your chest because the tip hurt but it might get better if you keep pushing.

[–]QuantumSpecter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What about people that became whipped? Are those people being controlled by their lady?

[–]MusicSports0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well since becoming 'whipped' is directly derived from how slave masters violently lashed their slaves into submission to break their free will and force them to obey their every command, I think there might be some similarity in how those things are related. Not sure though I'd have to run some tests.

[–]RPStone4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Should I drink water if I'm thirsty?

[–]QuantumSpecter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Everyones going to start giving me analogies arent they?

[–]1oldredder4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No but they might start to walk like a duck and quack like a duck and possibly read the sidebar like a duck

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is she actively controlling your life or are you allowing her to through supplication

[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What you should do is make yourself immune to being controlled. You won't solve that by getting rid of the girl.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fight back. Stop giving in. Objectively looking at this, she's not the problem, you are. All women try to control their men.

[–]quicklogaccount0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can't handle her game and is uninterested in undergoing the process of forging yourself after her and having her doing the same for you, which happens in LTRs, yes, you should drop her.

Ideally though you should look into making yourself insensitive to whatever tools she uses to try and control you. Hotter/experienced chicks have seriously strong game to get you to commit, feel like that is in your best interests. You need to grow over that.

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