Hi, this sub has been incredibly eye opening. Thank you.

My question is in regards to extreme masculine polarity. The total badboy narcissistic asshole who only cares about himself.

Right now I am more of a newbie. I am by nature more of a mangina. I know that I must swing to the opposite polarity. Go full out. Immerse myself in self love totally and completely and not leave any room for anyone else. Just to experience it, just so that I have been to both sides.

But ideally, when I have been there and back, I see myself giving women a range of emotions and vibes as opposed to just a solid masculine force. I'd like being the jerk who points out her insecurities and doesn't tolerate her whining, but I also like being the kind person who points out their strengths and makes them feel competent and confident.

What do you find works best for you? Are you someone who is 100% macho man, or someone who can give women that masculine vibe but also show sensitivity, empathy and caring.