Personally, I can only think of one that did. I had a crush on her when I was 17 and she was 18/19) she laughed in my face and said I was a fucking idiot for having a crush on her. She also said (and these are her exact words) “NO ONE is going to want you until you drop 20 pounds, give up anime, and your personality does a complete 180”. Kinda rude but to be intellectually honest...she was absolutely right! And without that I probably wouldn’t be where I am today.