"Just wanted to be polite"

abdada · 2018-04-30T13:01:10+00:00

The woman's mind path isn't that tricky:

She sends you a text, you ignore it.
She first things you're butthurt for maybe a few hours but then she realizes you didn't reply yet.
You waited 2 days, solid. She writes back and wants to act like it was nothing, she was just being polite (lol)
You don't respond to this again -- she didn't engage you, no need to engage her
She thinks you're butthurt but she's the hottest thing ever in her mind so she knows you'll reply
Eventually you won't reply so she will realize "holy shit this guy is different".

Maybe she will re-engage you, maybe she won't. I wouldn't reply. If she re-engages you, flip the script and say something like "I am really busy right now but let's catch up, come by my place tonight at 7, I'm making mahi-mahi and will have an hour or so to hang, but I have to get up really early tomorrow so it has to be an early night."

Then do what needs to be done. But kick her out early tomorrow. And if she bores you tonight, kick her out early and next her.

redhawkes · 2018-04-30T12:57:39+00:00

Why you need to reply anyways? Text is for logistics. She's not interested, game other chicks.

bluefingerblue · 2018-04-30T14:05:51+00:00

If you want to see her, “No I was just busy. Forgot to respond. You should come over at blah blah blah”

And if you don’t want to see her, ghost, block, delete.

fnordsnord · 2018-04-30T14:28:52+00:00

Wait at least 20 mins. Then "Why? Have you done something I should be mad about?"

This will make HER justify blowing you off with an excuse, rather than YOU justify being butthurt.

She will probably say something about not hearing back from you. "Just busy. Forgot 2 respond."

Title	"Just wanted to be polite"
Author	leCuri123456
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	April 30, 2018 12:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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