Spinning plates: difficulty to remember specifics?

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-05-05T08:51:58+00:00

I usually tease em with the same things so I don’t mix up.

However if you mix up who cares, it’s just a sign of preselection that you can’t remember all the shit because there are too many of them.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2018-05-05T08:52:39+00:00

Don’t worry. Your previously BP brain is screaming at you not to offend her. To try and say the right thing at all times.

But your new RP self understands that you can say what’s on your mind without fear of judgement. If you talk about a date you went on with another girl, that’s not a critical error. In fact her hamster will spin and she will want to suck your dick twice as hard.

Embrace spinning plates. Don’t ram it down her throat that she is competing with others but it’s great to have options and let her know through subtle cues and unspoken language.

redhawkes · 2018-05-05T11:53:05+00:00

Forces you to be in the moment

This is the core. Tease her about something she wears, does, lowest common denominator etc. Focus on amused mastery.

Lots of guys here make the mistake thinking that they need to have some serious (boring) talk with girls, the talk to lead somewhere or fix something. No. That shit dries pussies up faster than Sahara. That works with men, but not with chicks.

Focus on amused mastery and self amusement, the thing is to not be boring. You need to practice more since you haven't been in the game for the last 4 years. Once you internalize this, it's easy mode.

Don't give a fuck if you mix them up, it works for you aka preselection, and again you can use this to tease her for being 'jealous'.

[deleted] · 2018-05-05T16:36:01+00:00

I still struggle with this. I just joke it off, if I forget I forget. For example one of my plates likes ketchup on her salad (I should hard next). I made a joke about this to my other plate. She said, "What are you talking about I don't eat salad with ketchup?" and I said, "Well you seem like a weirdo that would." and from then on it turned into banter.

I've had one of my plates say, "No, you didn't tell me that. Stop confusing me with one of your little girlfriends" I agreed and amplified, "I'll try...it's just that you all act a like." from then on we had a little back and forth on how she doesn't act like "all these other girls".

Just flow with it. And generally keep things light. The deeper your conversations go the more you have to remember.

Title	Spinning plates: difficulty to remember specifics?
Author	FranticlyFrank
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	May 5, 2018 8:14 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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