I can't help myself to escalate when I know there are two potential girls that seem to like me. Like, I feel bad that if I escalate on one of them, the other one will feel bad.

I don't care when the other girl is needy or I don't see her bangable, but both of these are extremely cute and "nice" (AWALT still applies though), and call me soft-hearted or whatever, but I genuinely feel bad.

Maybe the solution is to arrange 1 on 1's with either one or both, and hope the cat doesn't get out of the bag.