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Playing to fantasies: why we excuse female rapists - "We not only have an existing tradition of holding males accountable for protecting themselves, but also a modern tradition of excusing women’s behavior by blaming it on men."

blueoak9

December 10, 2015
70 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2015/12/10/playing-to-fantasies-why-we-excuse-female-rapists/#more-10603
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Title Playing to fantasies: why we excuse female rapists - "We not only have an existing tradition of holding males accountable for protecting themselves, but also a modern tradition of excusing women’s behavior by blaming it on men."
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blueoak9

Upvotes 70
Comments 2
Date December 10, 2015 8:56 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3w9yk6/playing_to_fantasies_why_we_excuse_female_rapists/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/playing-to-fantasies-why-we-excuse-female-rapists.965413
https://theredarchive.com/post/965413
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Comments

[–]xynomaster 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think this article is okay, but I think the underlying article they're referencing is amazing.

Particularly, I think, important was this line:

we tell them to suppress their feelings because they are destroying the fantasy of somebody else

[–]Jacobtk 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That really is a fantastic point. So much of what we hear is "This is what I would've done if I were him." It has nothing to do with what actually happened to the victim. It is all about the adults justifying their fantasies. If that hurts boys who women preyed on, so be it.

These are the same people who would say they would love being raped by a woman as a man. They never factor in what happens when they do not want to have sex with their fantasy rapist.

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