I'm not one for a lot of socialization. I have my bros and we always have a ton of fun, but I couldn't care less about parties and the like. The only social media I use is Snapchat, and that's just to send the occasional funny thing to my buddies. I never even post on my story.

I don't drink (couple of reasons), but 420 if it fits the situation.

I know girls really like to party, drink, and grind on guys in the nightclub. But I don't have much of an interest in those areas.

So my question is: If I'm a self confident, fit dude, but I just like to do my own thing... how unattractive is it to not be very social? How important is being very social in regard to an "Alpha"? Obviously girls want a guy they can "show off" to other women. "Look at what I have". So I imagine it doesn't help, but is it a big hit?

I'm no mysterious Ryan Gosling from the movie Driver, so idk. But maybe that's the angle I have to work towards. Cause I'm no life of the party lol.