Hi! I've been a lurker for quite some time now. I did'nt really jump on the whole mensrights thing. Though I was very sympathetic to it.
I have always been skeptical/suspicious of the feminist movement. It wasn't until I watched GirlWritesWhat's videos, until I realised what I knew in my heart. She have accurateley described alot of my experiences as a man engaging wíth women on rights.
The reason I write this is that I'm drunk and it is rare that I am. A few good friends I know from my former workplace invited me out for a couple drinks. Needless to say I was offered alot of drinks because the friends I have value friendship more than money and I am very grateful for having them as friends. It feels good man.
The reason I post (or shitpost, I'm not sure, feel free to downvote and tell me to fuck off) is that is met a woman on the street on the way home. I was walking home and happened upon her and she asked me for help.
The decent guy I am offered her all the help se needed; she was on the phone with a guy she had agreed to meet but didn't get the instructions to his dwelling. I know my way around the town (not a big town in Sweden) and she put her arm around my shoulder and I mine around hers. She is a beautiful person, perhaps taller than I am (5'7"), and she is very nice and all. I get her the help she needs and we arrive at the door. The guy she is going to see is no were to be seen so I stay awhile. She says she should pay me back so she offered me a kiss, and I said sure and offered my cheek. She said no, a real kiss on the mouth and I said again sure and got kissed (it was kind of nice).
She starts telling me about how the world is unsafe for women and how she is a target of all kinds of maliciousness in this society and I ask here, who told you that?
She answers society, and I quip; isn't it feminist who tells you that?
She continues that she is a feminist and I tell her that I am an anti-feminist. She made an argument that if you aren't a feminist your motives are immediately suspicous. I asked her, when I had showed her the right way and didn't ask anything in return that I had a righteous character "despite me being an anti-feminist". We didn't get much of a debate when the guy she was supposed to meet came around. I walked my merry way home and she went up to this guys apartment. I hope she remembers that she got help from a "dangerous, filthy MRA", who didn't ask or demand anything in return. It was a try to give her another viewpoint to consider, it didn't cost me anything...
I am beta as fuck, I know that. I am very sympathetic of MGTOW philosophy and I agree with a lot of their views. So I know what some people would say to this story. Maybe it is shitposting, what do I know? Delete it if it is. I just wanted to share.
EDIT: Some spelling....
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