This is going to sound so immature and fucking dumb but I recently started dating a girl. She is awesome but is an feminist (in her words). I asked her about equal pay and stuff and we had a casual debate where I told her it was pretty much a myth and stuff but she was respectful , but stubborn. I really like her but ... I dunno... I don't want to be that guy who is like "Come watch this debunking video" or something.