When I started my new job back in January of this year, I was aware of the TRP, but due to socially isolating myself and fucking 0 girls, I defaulted to blue pill behavior when introduced to a large training class of 25+ people. I won't go into detail, but I was very close to the bottom of the pecking order.

There was this girl who came off initially as being very sweet and conservative, but as more time passed, she showed her true colors, dressing more provocatively and just generally giving off more sexual vibes. I fell into a textbook beta trap, being her best buddy and briefly became an orbiter while she was fucking the AMOG of our training class.

I learned my lesson the hard way, and since being out of training for almost 3 months, have ceased all contact with her, not even acknowledging her if I saw her in passing, and she does the same. Additionally, I also recently unfriended her on Facebook, which I believe is playing a part in this.

In the past few months since training, I've improved my social skills due to my job, lost quite a bit of body fat while keeping muscle, started dressing better, and even fucked a few girls from Tinder. In the last week, I have become extra focused on learning to build and maintain my frame exclusively above all else, because this is where I have struggled the most. I have been focusing on my mission and my job, projecting true confidence in myself, generally learning to let go of my beta tendencies, and just generally giving less fucks about what people think of me and not letting my frame be disturbed. My job performance has increased, and I can tell a slight but noticeable difference in the way my peers have been treating me lately (they seem to genuinely respect me more).

So, the girl from earlier has not only already gained a reputation for sleeping around the office, but has moved on to one of the guys on my team; she has been stopping by his desk a lot in the past few days, which just so happens to be close to my desk. I have been ignoring her altogether, focusing on whatever I happen to be doing at the moment, and not giving her any attention whatsoever. I can see her watching me from my peripherals as I talk to other people, not giving a shit that she's there. Today, she skyped me, to ostensibly ask me a work related question, which was clearly bullshit (there is no real reason for co-workers at my job to ask one another the question she did. Due to our other resources, it's redundant and unnecessary). After I didn't respond for 40 minutes, she followed up, messaging, "I can come over there to ask you in person". Again, I saw the bait for what it was and deleted the message. She never followed up.

I can tell she's trying to feel me out to get my attention and will most likely stop by my desk soon to talk to me directly.

How do I respond when she inevitably makes a direct approach?

I know it's obvious that I should maintain my newly discovered frame, but it makes me nervous if I'm being quite frank, and the last thing I want to give this girl is any sort of validation. I truly just want to move on and focus on my job and self-improvement.

How should I treat things when she inevitably confronts me? She clearly knows I don't want to be friends, but I'm very much wanting to avoid showing any kind of weak emotion for obvious reasons. Is it really as simple as using amused mastery and treating it like it's no big deal/deflecting if she tries to pressure me or shame me for ignoring her?

I know I should read the side bar, and I am starting to make my way through it, but this is a critical situation for me as I learn to solidify my frame and some advice would be much appreciated.

TL;DR A girl I used to orbit at work, is trying to re-approach since I've developed redpill actions and frame. I've been ignoring her and she is clearly about to escalate and talk to me directly. How do I treat the situation when she inevitably talks to me and potentially tries to shame me for not talking to her? Do I own up to it directly and say "we're not friends" while not giving a fuck or do I deflect and go the amused mastery route?