The unfairness of life and genetic lottery is shown by the fact that some people are born physically attractive AND NEUROTYPICAL where it is so easy to conform into society, meet social development milestones, have friends, stable employment and regular loving relationships that its almost involuntary and requires barely any effort.

Then there's the case of being unattractive and neurodiverse/mildly autistic where you are both physically unappealing to people and your social skills/ability to conform are taken away from you preventing you from being able to compensate for your lacking physical appeal. The physical unattractiveness would not have been so bad if you were neurotypical in this situation. But the mild autism makes it unbearable. I call these people "dual wielders"

It saddens me that me and many of my high functioning autistic friends fit into the "dual wielder" genetic phenotype. We get sucked into red pill, blue pill and black pill thinking, trying to self improve in order to catch up on yeras of missed social development, not knowing the extreme effort and difficulty this will require. If you missed out on the "flow" of life that is most involuntary for most people and does not require huge amounts of reserach, conscious effort and suppression of your true self, it is not your fault: you are probably just complete genetic sh*t based on neurotypicality genetics and lookism based genetics.

You werent supposed to reproduce