I lost my sex drive and my whole view of the world changed. It's back now, and I'm over life once again. However, life was nice for a while.

I'd see women my age and didn't care about the fact that they'd never date me. I didn't care that the cards were stacked against me for finding a partner who I found desirable. A relationship/dating/sex was something that felt like a "nice to have" experience rather than a "I feel like a failure" experience. The only things that mattered were my financial and physical goals. I wondered if this is how women in general felt.

I think discussions about gender dynamics and desire often ignore the role of testosterone.

What have been your experiences with low-libido? How'd did affect you viewed life?

Do you believe that the goal of decreasing men's libido would help solve a lot of societal sexual frustration?

Fyi, I'm a 25yr old 5'9 natty lifter and stronger than most people at commericial gyms. I get compliments about my strength and physique (from men lol). Unfortnately, I'm still black, mid-looking, and slightly autistic. I was able to maintain a 2x body bench and 3x bodyweight deadlift during a deficit and having low-T.