I have developed this behaviour where, when I know for sure and tested myself through different means, whether a person or people are lookist or heavily, heavily are entrenched in this angle of looks over everything. With them Having shown that i am low on this valuation, I completely avoid them, i mean i dont look at them at all shun them, avoid any sharing of physical space with them.
This however is a huge problem, as i have seen this in my own family and am actively now avoiding a large majority of my own family as they have proven themselves to be in this lookism line. Eg they Halo anyone who is objectively better looking, underplaying anyone who is "ugly", and even undermines these people, I just find it utterly repulsive and am disgusted with this bankrupt angle.
My behaviour has become that of, just avoiding looking at these people or basically them even seeing me, as I know their valuation of me based on this lookism is very low, and immutable and cant be changed, so will always be low, whatever my action, even if i reinvented the wheel its not enough i still look the same, the problem still remains, their valuation unchanged as its leveraged on looks alone.I have tested this as am quite successful in one area, no change no quodos given, no status change nothing, treated like garbage low level, beneath.
I am very logical, so my summary is im never going to get jack, these dont like my appearance for sure, so the best recourse is avoidance, nothing good can come of them seeing me as they value me low, this could also be extrapolated to many social situations in the outside world. But it is very damaging if you are LIVING with these people.
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