age gaps: used to be somewhat encouraged in 90s to 00s, nowadays they are getting rarer and more stigmatized due to incel spaces making it sound misogynistic instead of the idea that you would be getting a more mature man

focus on n counts/virginity: this makes that women want to be more picky about who they are hooking up with since ''being easy'' makes them cheaper, this is also a thing due to america's weird combo of both sexually liberated culture but also weird purity focused or conservative culture.

bitter shit in general: makes em think relationships are unworthy when they are expoesd to such content non-stop