In reality women just pick men.

This is the reddest of all red pills. They literally just see the man they want, and pick him. They will literally just tell you they want to fuck you. This happens as early as 12. Once past that point, you develop confidence that compounds on itself.

Oftentimes, this means multiple girls will pick the same guy. Sometimes it can work out, other times, girls will fight over the same guy. Some guys are so amazing that many girls will be fine sharing one man. This is independent of ethnicity or location.

If you have to even spent 1 second thinking about why you don't have a girlfriend, why you're not having sex, and wind up dwelling in 4chan / Reddit / incel subcultures and racism, etc., just get it through your head: you were not picked. If you were picked, it would have happened when you were around 12.

You will never be picked. You can do as many things as you want, get as much money as you want, post as much racism and "race pills" and other stupid shit on 4chan and Reddit.

But you were never, are not, and will never, be picked.