How transform look improvements into more hook ups?

abolish_the_divine · 2019-01-02T11:18:32+00:00

throw money at them

goodlookingrpiller · 2019-01-02T15:25:42+00:00

Thank you all for all the comments because if it hadn't been for your advice I couldn't have been able to sharpen my focus and goals because I have been thinking about this for several days but it didn't seem to have a solution

SophisticatedBean · 2019-01-02T13:55:01+00:00

I doubt there is science on this and even if there was, it's not relevant to this sub. You'll have better chances on /r/seduction or /r/TheRedPill. Please delete this.

BauBauser · 2019-01-02T15:29:20+00:00

So... you started looking better and are now realizing that the way you look isn't the only factor that people use in determining if they want to date you? Getting dangerously close to self-awareness, there...

goodlookingrpiller · 2019-01-02T18:19:00+00:00

Merry xmas all, and remember that what mainstream media and pickupartists tell you about women is a real as santa clause.

goodlookingrpiller · 2019-01-02T11:42:37+00:00

I want to clarify that I wrote this post because I loved to be black pilled but now I'm a little bit confused because black pill only focus on stating the truth and I think that it is pretty clear what is it already.

However black pill don't talk about how you can use that truth to become motherfuckinggod in all areas of my life.

So I think black pill should also touch this topic becouse if not why do you want to know the truth for

bbcbarbarossa · 2019-01-02T10:39:04+00:00

I'm going to get a nose job done pretty fucking soon. I'm also growing my beard out to hide my chin. Then I'll go full PUA. Let's see the power of the black pill.

Crazylikethatglue · 2019-01-02T14:59:45+00:00

Guess you already know it's your duty as a man to take every fall. So yes you will have to be the begger so wemin can be the choosers. I think once you do it more it kinda gets easier because you also find more ways and places to raise your sucess rate. Good luck from an Incel. Kinda jealous though.

goodlookingrpiller · 2019-01-02T18:15:23+00:00

Game is basically a way of tricking women into thinking you're successful or high value

eduardkoopman · 2019-01-02T14:06:00+00:00

I stopped watching pua videos and forums

Does pua not also teach at least to some extend: "that looks matter"?
Your looks, is the first hurdle that one needs to be jump. And therefore it's the most importants one. If you're really good looking, then you usually don't need to offer much if anything else. If you're not good looking; but also not unattractive. Then you might just about pass the first hurdle in like (random guess) 10% of the the women you meet. But since you then just about pass it (looks wise), they want more in return often. Because romantic love/encounters are an exchange, imo.

Here's some research about: "don't be unattractive", otherwise nothing will happen because there is not even entry level/1st hurdle passing.

Being moderately attractive, still gives you an occassional chance.
Here you can read about some reaearch about this: https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/8ayihx/just_dont_be_physically_unattractive_looks_are_a/

I started learning about the red pill since looks and status are what attract woman (20/80)

Here I read some research suggest it was more like 20/60. Still extremely very much in favour of the top 20%, but possibly a little bit less extreme. Although this was data from 2016, and with the recent huge increase on app/online dating I think it might have the effect that 20/60 has actually become 20/80.

... I'm naturally good looking ...
... there are more good looking guys than me .....

i don't really know how to transform this into more hook ups

My only guess is that here is when comes pua shit since women are to afraid to get rejected and to show interest.

What I mean is that despite that the gril don't clearly show too much interest or don't make a move if I should take the risk of facing rejection

Women will take the risk of rejection for extremely 9/10 or 10/10 looking men.
But as i read, you're not on that looks (or very high status) level. But still good looking, like above average, but below the top. Then ime, women don't feel enough motivation/urgency to take the risk of rejection. So then the guy, has to take that effort and risk. She probably still can get a hookup any time of the day, from average+ looking guy; so there isn't a reason for to do much.
So basically, you can't get by on looks alone, to get hookups/lays. So overall you have to put in more effort. be more proactive. Risk rejections. Innitiate and escalate. And provide other values/things before she will give a hookup. (Aka, all things that a 10/10 guy wouldn't have to do).

PUA, puts to much emphasis on personality expression, imo. It's not that important. As an average+ looking guy, you just need to use numbers game and innitiate and escalate. It's not going to be handed to you then, basically.

Title	How transform look improvements into more hook ups?
Author	goodlookingrpiller
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	January 2, 2019 9:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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