It really baffles me how mean one can get after a divorce. I went from seeing my kids every other weekend Fri to Sunday, to every other weekend with supervised monitoring costing $300 for two hours. All this because she threw out my mental health diagnosis in the court room, which is public btw. I cannot sustain that amount in this economy right now so I’m left not being able to see my kids at all right now. I’ve seen other threads probably with worse experiences, but why do people get so nasty and selfish after a divorce. I’m straight as an arrow. Never late on child support, have a good paying job, never cheated, no addictions but just suffered seasonal depression. How do you see past this? The system is so rigged that some people are not self aware of what they are doing and hurts the kids the most.