Hey everyone. Just putting my thoughts down as I try to traverse this, and maybe someone has been in my shoes.

After a myriad of back and forth divorce threats, getting back together to work on it, to her asking for divorce again, rinse and repeat...we are at a place we agreed to separate. It isnt healthy what we have been doing.

We live under the same roof as I look for a new place to go. We still talk, and are cordial through this. The fact shes open to keep talking to me is whats messing with me. I know I am done, but it is nice I guess that we can be amicable. I dont know what this looks like once I am able to move into a new place. Its too tough to go no contact under the same roof. So is this small talk and doing shared responsibilities in the house okay? I do not plan to let me guard down. I am still sleeping in the guest room.