Hi All,

Just wanted to get some feedback if I am handling things correctly.

I currently have supervised visits at my parents home every weekend from 11 to 7 on Saturdays. However I always end up keeping them for the night as it is deemed a favor to me and our children that she allows this.

We have fought for about a year over supervision as I have no record of any kind, nor any history of any abuse physically or with drugs. It was a tactic to get an increase in support as I pay a 20% increase because of my lack of time. It was an ugly divorce that has left me bankrupt and living with my 70 year old parents.

With the outbreak and the stay at home act I have been staying at a friends since this started as I am concerned for my parents health as they have documented immune issues.

I have no idea where the children have been or anyone they have been around. I been calling more than usually to stay in touch but the calls go unanswered, so where are they when we have been ordered to stay home. The kids are 9 and 5. I also set up a zoom room so we can at least see each other but she has not passed the link to my children so we can see each other during this time. When I did speak to the kids last week she was talking in the background and telling my one child to ask where I was staying, when am I getting them and I explained that I was not staying at my parents home.

At this point in my life my parents are truly my only option to keep a float and need them to be around.

I feel like passing our kids back and forth is only adding risk to them and my family, am I wrong?

I know she wants a break, the kids told me that they have been sleeping at her mother's and sisters without her and it adds more anxiety that they are around more people.

I'm sleeping on a friends couch again, living out of a suitcase while she and the children have a perfectly safe home to be in.

And to add more anxiety last month I lost my job and I immediately filled with the court as I was laid off and recieved a phone call from a collection agency that I owed 6k in support from last month, which is my monthly obligation. Luckily I did get another job, however since the court is not open nobody can sign anything to help get things corrected and I have a negative mark on my credit.