I’ve had my daughter fulltime for coming on 6 months. Its been an extremely high conflict divorce and custody. To the point I was falsely accused of sexual abuse, she tried to get me fired and arrested. And violated about every part of the divorce decree which left her found guilty of contempt. Today was my daughter’s 3rd birthday and there was no call or text on this day. She is suppose to get supervised visits every Saturday which she hasn’t taken since December 9th. We initially had 50/50 she was found in contempt. And all legal action is suspended depending on her behavior during this time. No calls or texts for xmas. I’m trying not to get upset. But someone who has fought me the whole step of the way is just gone. Doesn’t seem to care until she gets bored or breaks up with a boyfriend. Then wants to cause problems. In 6 months has never asked how our daughter is doing or if she can FaceTime her or talk on the phone. My daughter is on the spectrum and mother doesn’t attend any of her OT or speech sessions but then claims she knows what’s best. Or claims I’m abusing and neglecting our daughter. Meanwhile I’m the one that is attending and making arrangements. I even went as far to ask my mom to move in with me from another state to help out. At what point can I just let lose with my attorney and go for sole legal and physical and not feel like I’m going to hurt my daughter in the long run?