So my mom passed away during Covid right after I married I was hurt from losing my
Mom her mom planned everything I gave her a ring that was it I didn’t say let’s get married in six months but three years ago now we dated I never lived with her that was my mistake.So I moved into a in laws we got married three months later we got a house we rented so I always assumed she had beautiful teeth. Come to find out after confronting her her family dropped like 40,000 on implants for her years ago. So I always bought the cleaning stuff HYGINE stuff etc.. she bought her girly stuff that’s about it, so I noticed my toothpaste never got moved and there was poligrip on the sink. So I noticed when we ate her jaw would click and click like when she chewed tmj guessing not sure but it was cringe it bothered me then I confronted her about the toothpaste not being moved she said I use polygrip I have fake teeth maybe if you asked you would know I said I just did and now I know you don’t brush your teeth. I never kissed her again that was a year and half ago I still tried cause i loved her but it just led to intimacy like I was turned off completely, now the divorce and it’s crazy like she has her masters makes great money I knew she had former drug issues but I never thought her hygiene was this bad. Am I a bad person she hates me now cause I called her out on that and I did the laundry cleaned she worked from home she’s a dcyf social worker but she would not reciprocate my efforts at all. Her little dog would piss everywhere there was mold I was sick living there. After all of it I still cared about this girl a lot and I loved her at the beginning