Today my kids told me “mom said we’re gonna have two dads”. I found out last month they were dating. This month engaged. I have zero information about him. For the sake of who the kids will be with, I’d like to ask.

You guys tactfully ask for info about the new partner or just let it be and hope for the best.

Side note-She baited me into a vascectomy and asked for divorce before the cut healed. Part of me would be pissed if she gets pregnant but as many others have said. It’s not my problem anymore.