I requested parenting coordination because I found myself being disparaged by ex. To provide context: there was an incident she showed up to my house to bring gifts for my mom for mothers day to which I informed her she is not welcome to attend when there is no custody exchange scheduled and also called the cops to re-iterate the same thing so she takes it more serious. There is a long history of her randomly showing up at my house to bring gifts and such, and also showing up at a park I used to take child to during my access schedules, pretending to jog just to come in contact with child and I. So then child returns to me saying I always create problems and called the cops because they brought gifts to my house <--this is why I requested parenting coordination because we have a non disparagement clause.

Fast forward, child comes to me asking me if I want to buy gifts and presents for her and her moms boyfriend, they kissed in front of her, he is so amazing, etc. I email mom reminding her about our agreement that we are to inform each other before child is introduced to significant other. Mom denies it and accuses me that child told her I am watching underage porn, chatting with underage girls, setting up dates with underage girls, leaving child home alone with my mom to go meet with these underage girls, and that I get mad that they don't show up and grab my daughter's ass, watch her change, and go in the washroom when she is in there.... and bunch of other false allegations

I blasted an email back telling her I don't believe her.. to get over herself .. and that she is basically throwing in false allegations in to muddy the waters of what this is really about.

So I meet with the parenting coordinator, and she basically said she is hearing lot of great things from me but it is not inconsistent to the email I sent mom. That if I know child goes on moms phone why would I send mom such an email ? The parenting coordinator basically had me email mom back to apologize and take another approach and say to her if those are things child is saying then we have a serious parenting concern. we don't want a child laying. She mentioned some things about being able to use moms email to call out her bluff, and that I should remain myself and never sink down to her level.

Now I am getting mixed feelings. I hate false allegations. Have dealt with them last 8 years. Mom always does this in retaliation. and for me to have to apologize to mom was very condescending... There is a history of mom coaching child to make false allegations against me as well... some were made obvious others not so much.