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Finding Peace

ENFJSingle

June 15, 2023
6 upvotes
/r/Divorce_Men

I wanted to share a post I wrote in case it could help others:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/149b4cl/looking_for_wisdomencouragement/jo4eehf?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

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Title Finding Peace
Author

ENFJSingle

Upvotes 6
Comments 1
Date June 15, 2023 3:17 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/14a52he/finding_peace/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/finding-peace.1222367
https://theredarchive.com/post/1222367
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[–]throwaway377383838461 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I saw this comment and wanted to reply to it bc I saw you put effort into it and wanted to acknowledge it.

No offense, but I think your analysis is over complicated using some kind of pop-psych concepts.

Fundamentally, the issue is just being a nice guy with no boundaries. Every man is wired to seek female validation. This isn’t even limited to humans. Lots of animals put on ostentatious displays to attract females bc we are wired that way (I.e- see pufferfish and peacocks). There is hope though and that’s that you gain awareness.

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