A little background - we have been married 10+ years, No kids, No house. In that 10 years, we have had a very toxic relationship, I was too busy with my work and she was too busy resenting me for it. During this time she became an alcoholic and then I started resenting her. Long story short, she is in recovery now and sober enough to realize we wasted the last 10 years of our marriage and neither of us can get over the baggage. So here we are arguing over stupid stuff and blaming each other for the last 10 years. Finally today she told me she wants a divorce. Strangely I was glad she is the one who said it.

So the question is - what is the next step? I find an apt and move out ? Do put half of my paycheck for to us in her account ? right now we have a joint account. We only have one car , should i buy a car for myself ?

I am in IL. No Children. She does not work.