Just an update! I had been in a really bad place when the wife walked out, then I got the news that all the melanoma had been cleared! Felt like 5000000 lbs had been lifted off my chest. So side note, my ex ran off in pure bpd fashion, the day I found out the diagnosis, I was crushed. 10 years, and no word, just gone. I realize now that I was being taken so for granted, belittled and treated like all around shit, this whole time. My point here is that I was so demolished by this, and once the good news about the cancer came back, I realized that yes, I miss her, but also, I don’t miss the constant craziness! I’m better off! My kids from previous marriage are better off! Life is all around BETTER! I’m sure that I’ll get killed with lawyer costs, and times will be tough for a bit, but my little guy is here every weekend, and when I see her, I just think of how pathetic she is, and feel sorry for the next victim of this black widow. Live your best lives brothers, we only get one. Be careful out there, and don’t let these broads sink their claws into you. I wasted 10 years being a punching bag for who I thought was the one. All that matters are the kids, and YOU!

Sorry for the rant, but really feeling good today👍