After recently revealing she wanted a separation, I decided I would divorce my wife. It’s been difficult. But one thing I just realized, after a month of pain and anxiety, is I’ve been wanting this for years. I learned about this co dependency concept. And I never realizes for 10 fucking years this relationship made me feel like shit about myself. I snapped out of it, Now I’m like fuck yea! Divorce is a good idea. Keep your heads up fellas. I’ve anguished over this, but I’m here and happy. Another chance to be a great dad.