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| 2 | Will be two years divorced come April.My problem is that I can't trust women anymore. I get a lot of interest from women but shut it down due to trust issues. I totally get that. I really struggled with whether or not I'd be able to trust again. It bothered me that the ONE person I gave my trust to betrayed me. I'll just tell you that once I was healed from all that nonsense it's like I leveled up and attracted the right one. And you'll know that you are healed because the trust stuff won't be an issue anymore. The way I view it is … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 04:38 AM |
| 8 | You see what happens Larry........yes | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/11/22 06:24 PM |
| 32 | You see what happens Larry........They believe and are taught that they can beat them up. My buddy ran into this with his 13 year old daughter. She told him that if a robber broke in she would just kick him. She learned this from Tv shows and movies........commercials paint men as weak and bubbling fools. Why wouldn't a 13 year old think she could defender herself from someone 3 times her size? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!Right on......the DCT is just easy mode man. I love it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!If you do try to get the 1300.....you'll thank me later for the power. I don't mind my 700 but would like a little more power. Had a 94' Shadow that was 1200 and just loved the power band. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 01:28 AM |
| 7 | I’m (33M) an scared to actually fill out the papers, and my wife (33F) and I have been separated for going on 6 months…Your struggle is because when men marry we do it for life. We're not quitters. That is why it's so hard. But why live comfortably miserable? Far too many husbands live comfortably miserable because of what I stated above. I have been divorced a year and a half and I live by this statement and always will. My happiness is paramount. As the great Patrice O'Neal said "A happy man is a happy relationship. A happy woman is a miserable man" I have been happy since we finalized and continue to get bett… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 03:23 AM |
| 7 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustMen need respect and support. The other things are important details but not needed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 37 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustAs someone who has walked this journey for 7 years I'll give you the short quick answer. But nothing is short and nothing is easy. Get a lawyer and end it now. There's no way as a man even if she did come back crawling on her knees begging for forgiveness that you could look at yourself with any dignity or respect. You'd be lying to yourself if you think you can. Truly doing yourself dirty. Cut your losses and move on. That is my advice. That said.....the long hard answer for me is that I wanted… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 03:12 AM |
| 10 | This needs to happen *every single time*Good start at "equality". Long way to go. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.All the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Unfortunately the system and courts don't really care unless you have evidence of neglect. No they never change. I did see somewhere that in order for a narcissist to change they have to see someone see their behavior. The example they used was a man used to beat his wife....well the dog jumped on him to try and break it up. The husband saw that the dog saw he was abusing his wife. This realization made him see his behavior and as a result was able to change. How messed up is that. What helped m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.The silver lining in all of this is that we co parent well together. A year removed and am finally hitting the closure phase. None of which comes from her. It is pointless because they cannot see their wrong doing. However, I've had dreams where I confirm the things I speak about. I've also been able to reflect on things with long motorcycle rides. Thank you for asking! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.I'll have to look into BPD. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.That was the real son of a gun for me. I was made the enemy because she cheated. Of no doing of my own. Was I perfect? Heck no. I think the hardest thing for me was for 15 years I had butterflies for this woman. I'd speed home from work to be with her. When I'd get home before her and the garage door would go up my heart would jump. And then she cheated on me and all that went away. Of no doing of my own. I expected that because she did the worst thing to me that she would attempt to change and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.Gross isn't it? So gross.......and yet some how we become stronger through it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.Ya man....it's brutal. I call it being drug thru glass naked. Of no choice of my own. She cheated on me and made me the bad guy. When I put up boundaries that were focused around me being happy for once.....it was complete resistance and hell. While trying to figure out what was even going and sleep deprived while a stay at home father. I was not allowing her to disrespect me any longer she served me divorce papers. She locked me out of finances and that came with a restraining order. I mean wtf… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.I kinda got lucky I guess. Didn't know about June 1st. I also got lucky that the Depp case reached a verdict. Whatever works I guess. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.For sure. I blocked them on all social media. I always said "those that know, know and those that don't know have know idea." | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.Forever the victim. I have two friends that have 5 kids. And the story is similar. Three of their own and two adopted. Their wife cheated and cannot understand why the kids and ex can't stand her. BUT she's the victim. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.I hear ya. I'm honestly not sure if I didn't have my faith and my son where I'd be. He was the whole reason I stood up to her. There was no way I could tell him not to settle and then let him see me miserable. Kids know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I experienced depression for the first time at 43 years old. I know some of you are experiencing situational depression and I wanted to share my story.Thanks! Tyson Fury (current heavyweight champ) has a great podcast on Joe Rogan where he talks about this very thing. Great spokesman for the cause. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | I experienced depression for the first time at 43 years old. I know some of you are experiencing situational depression and I wanted to share my story.You're welcome! Onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Camille Vasquez is GHoly shit she's 36????? She's right on track. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/22 01:51 PM |
| 18 | Camille Vasquez is GThe wall is UNDEFEATED! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | At least he warned herThat her tik tok videos were not reality. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/04/22 06:37 PM |
| 273 | At least he warned her"if you try to hit me I will hit you too" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Listen fuckersAloha ʻoe. Ma luna a ma luna e kuʻu hoaaloha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Alone time with kidsEsssh.......some bullshit mate. You do you.....this is typical and you need to never apologize for what you do for your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Alone time with kidsThis. And for the love of God don't marry her! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | The Marrrage WheelOh Coach is amazing. He'll sort out the bullshit real fast. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Listen fuckersThere is no reason in 2022 to sign a contract that makes you at the bottom to make decisions to the woman and the state. None. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Listen fuckersDivorce was easier back int he 70's and 80's. I know a dude divorced 7 times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Listen fuckersNailed it. I lost many so called "friends and family". I always said......those that need to know, know. And those that think they know can go F themselves. Onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Listen fuckersI too have a 4 year old. It's one of the silver linings in all this that she doesn't try to keep him from me. Hang in there man. I heard a good quote I revisit from time to time. "Every day above dirt is a good day" Your son needs you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Listen fuckersOh wow thanks for sharing man. Much respect. Onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Listen fuckersAgreed on not having to agree. I'll tell you why I made this post. I log in and see a guy saying he's killing himself. I had a couple shots in me. And thus the reason why the tone. No way I'd made this sober. But now I'm glad I did and I'll explain why. No one is coming to save you. And I'm not trying to be some macho here. We ALL have thoughts of suicide and wanting to self delete but that is not the answer. The only way to make it thru is to push thru it and man the fuck up. Whether divorce or… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Listen fuckersYou hit the nail on the head. What we're ultimately healing from is a broken heart. And as men that's not something that comes naturally because we're taught to suppress our feelings and emotions. I'm convinced healing from a broken heart is one of the hardest things. In my research the top three traumas to happen in a marriage are (in no order) Loss of a spouse (death or divorce) Loss of a child Infidelity The important thing is to do like we are. We continue to move forward. To work on ourselv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 31 | Listen fuckersMy balls dropped when she cheated and we divorced. I'd kill the old me with my bare hands. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Wouldn't have surprised me at all. I had my suspicions. One day I hope at judgement the Lord lets me slap him like the bitch ass pussy he is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Well said! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)A must watch | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Just absolutely no dating of single moms - ever They would get mad at this statement.....but it became hip and cool to allow Chad\Tyrone to bust inside them to have a child.......suddenly when reality kicks in they can't take it. Seriously........women mimic one another and somehow being a single mother became trendy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Ya redpill = truth......not your truth but THE truth. Once you see it...it's a mother fer........but I'd rather live in reality than blindsided. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)I've heard unreal stories of deployed military. Good night. Just gross. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Yep. You have to remember sin is a slow leak....not a blow out. I recently heard a pastor say that if you are disinterested in people that in God's eyes you are hating. This was my response to his youtube video. Sometimes the best form of "love" is boundaries. I'm not going to be interested or show ANY interest in my ex wife that cheated on me and divorced me. If you want to call that hate then Jesus and I will discuss this when I meet him in heaven. This teaching can cause condemnation to the b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Spot on with the simps. But they are part of the system and brainwashed to be the savior\man of the relationship. Ask a woman to pay for half the bill or ask what her value outside her looks is and you get the three headed stare. It's okay and should be expected in the backwards society. The "church" is some of the worst in this regard to just "man up".........all the while very good men are being abused and taken advantage of thru the system\alimony\child support. And the church just takes care… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:04 PM |
| 5 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)I'm going to give a long answer here. Communication. Mainly, believe it or not her not listening. I made myself clear all the time. Either she didn't want to listen or didn't care. That was a huge red flag. Because of her narcissism she made it seems like I was the problem for a lot of years but the red flag was there in the beginning. The real mind bender is that I still have the letters we wrote each other before marriage and how she said she wanted to be a Godly wife and was actively seeking … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Oh tons of red flags and getting married me 23 and her 20. But what do you do when burning the candle at both ends in a Christian environment? The condemnation and judgment for living together out of wedlock wasn't an option. It took all that was in us not to have sex before marriage. But to answer your question. Yes tons of red flags but most are in hindsight. I was "in love" lust to see the forest from the trees. To be very honest it's a struggle right now in today's climate "modern femenised … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Good points and honestly that's good perspective. Irregardless, 2022 is a mine field like no other. The false bill of goods of feminism sold to modern day women is cancer. And they took the bait. You're absolutely correct though......from a trust stand point getting into another relationship. No one wants to be under scrutiny and it can lead to things. To be honest......I just cannot even see myself sharing my bed with another woman. I've had no back\neck pain in some time. I wake up refreshed a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)Ya man......so much great perspective. Bro I'm so redpilled now. I don't think I'll ever get married again. When you understand that when you sign a marriage contract and the wife\state have more say over you than you do......game over. Also, when you come to realize that you don't need validation from anyone it's a game changer. Source Source II | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 01:27 PM |
| 6 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)I think that they all do\did. If you're going to be honest and move forward you have to look at that. Take ownership where it applies. The cool thing with most of them is that I never even needed to bring this up. They were already doing self inventory. By and large the vast majority ran into discontent and nothing was ever good enough. I think that was due to their spouse having a side game. And once you get into that mode....it's game over. For myself, when we tried counseling and so forth....… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 6 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)If it were not for my relationship with Christ I would be in a jail cell and many people would be hurt and maimed. The system is so jacked. I had a lawyer screw me over. A pastor who took her side and never once reached out to me. Despite becoming a member of the church and meeting with him regularly for coffee and so forth. Really disappointing. But yes. I have a solid faith in Christ. As for your second part. We actually met in Bible College. So it wasn't like she didn't know my desire and cal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 01:15 PM |
| 12 | I have personally worked with over two dozen men since beginning my separation\divorce. The patterns are strikingly similar. (some observations and conclusions)To be honest, I am just spit balling. I bet Jordan Peterson type could give you better answers. I think when it comes to cheating there are so many factors involved. My wife came from two of the most Godly parents you'd ever meet. We were virgins when we married. I always thought that would keep us together. And I knew for sure if she ever cheated I'd be done. So there you go. Her father died in our 5th year of marriage and her mother had alzheimer's in the 15th. I believe she was cheating on me… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Was it all fake?Damn bro......you nailed it. Every single point is spot on. Onward and upward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Working on being grateful for our time together regardless of how it ended.I'm just going to enlighten you. She was planning things long before you became aware. And once that comes to light........all her projection\gas lighting\blame is just bullshit. Process that shit and move forward. I'm not trying to be harsh......look at my history......I get where you're coming from. But looking out for a fellow brother going thru this........you have to keep moving forward. I'd honestly treat her like a shit you took. Wipe and flush my friend. As men we're geared to think like… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Healing Post-DivorceYesterday while on my motorcycle trip a song from our wedding came on after 20 years of marriage. Then when I went to sleep last night it was like the whole night I dreamed out we used to hang out and stuff. I know that we're never getting back together. She is dead to me in that sense....she cheated on me and dragged me thru hell for a long time till we were finalized. The best way I can describe this process is that it's like a necessary purge or detox that must take place in order to move for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 02:52 AM |
| 7 | How long?Buddy, I am coming up on the one year mark. Yesterday while on my motorcycle trip a song from our wedding came on after 20 years of marriage. Then when I went to sleep last night it was like the whole night I dreamed out we used to hang out and stuff. I know that we're never getting back together. She is dead to me in that sense....she cheated on me and dragged me thru hell for a long time till we were finalized. The best way I can describe this process is that it's like a necessary purge or det… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I thought I passed the point of getting hurt againIt takes awhile man. I'm on the other side of 7 years total process. Those first few months were very very tough.......so don't beat yourself up in the process. You have to walk it out. The best advice I can give you is to set goals. Short\medium\long. In the process of setting goals make sure to take a good long look at yourself. See what you like and what you don't and what you need to work on or adjust. The goals can be anything from working out and weight loss to projects with your vehicle o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/22 05:22 PM |
| 13 | Is there really a 50% chance of this happening?Women want the wedding......not to be a wife. There is NO FUCKING reason in 2022 to marry. NONE. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I thought I passed the point of getting hurt againBeen divorced for almost a year. I look in on this couple from time to time as I'm grilling. (neighbors) They like to have their "talks" outside on their porch. While I can't hear the convo I am excellent at body language. The chick is never happy. The dude is chill and just shakes his head the whole time she's nagging and complaining about whatever. Then I go back to grilling my steak and having a couple drinks. I smile each and every morning I wake up. No back\neck pain. Well rested. No drama.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Good on the judge"no it would be more for the child if YOU got a job" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 6 | It's okay, she's a Piscis not a Leo.Woman trying to say what a real man is. Women | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 19 | It's okay, she's a Piscis not a Leo.It's always hilarious to hear the definition of a "real man" from someone lacking morals\ethics\values\principles. YAWN | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/03/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Message from the other sideCheers! Here you go man. Enjoy! https://youtu.be/qGN1a4fN2sg | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | The Struggle of being divorcedHang in there.......it gets better! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Your experience dating after divorce?It took me awhile too. It was hard at first. Now? Some sarcasm on the "struggle". | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The Struggle of being divorcedI missed this somehow.......worth every penny. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078XR29ZD?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Your experience dating after divorce?That's the kicker for me. And it just kills me.....I know me.....and I know that I won't ever be able to trust anyone else. Sucks but it's just the truth. There will always be a check from me no matter what. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Your experience dating after divorce?We're in the same boat my friend. I'm reminded of Brooks from The Shawshank Redemption when he got out of prison. Although, I'm happy to go at it alone. I don't need a female to complete me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Your experience dating after divorce?That's what I keep hearing too.....after about 6-9 months the true colors come out. This is a must listen. https://youtu.be/Vs6tb0D9qfg | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Your experience dating after divorce?Appreciate it. Ty | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Your experience dating after divorce?Met some amazing women getting back out there. Genuine question......what is your definition of "amazing women"? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Your experience dating after divorce?I haven't........this is just what I gather from friends and others. I'm genuinely content going at this thing alone while raising my son. I seriously cannot find any reason because of everything you describe. If you figure it out please let me know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Those are all fair and great points. Processing is a good thing. It helps us put into perspective our current feelings along with whether or not they are valid. One way or the other. That's for you to conclude. As a piggy back to your last point about being friends. I think this comes down to the individuals. I co parent well with my ex but if I heard an 18 wheeler T-Boned her and she died I wouldn't be phased in the least. This will be in effect for the remainder of my life. It's just who I am.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife says ex husband's a child molester, wants to "chop his coc* off" - polygraph shows she's a liarThis is called "The Atomic Bomb". Any Father going through a divorce should be aware that it can be dropped at any time. My buddy was married 20 years.........5 kids and had this happen to him. Luckily it didn't take children's services long to sniff out the bullshit. It was still gross for him to walk through. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Yup....it's all so gross. The other silver lining is that I have been able to share and help others. Even if it's just a little......I'm happy to share my scars if it will help someone or give them a heads up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Nah man......that's the thing......they are usually ahead of us in this game. Don't beat yourself up over it. It took me 7 years from beginning to the end of when I found out she cheated. I had to turn over every rock and explore every avenue. And the conclusion I came to.....it wasn't me. It was her. I had someone in another post trying to say I had to take ownership for the divorce in some way. That's just bullshit. She was broken......and no amount of love was going to change her bucket of ho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Just recently I found out it was another guy that she met in FL. Oh I'd venture to say the trip was because she had communicated with him long before that. Exactly what you explained happened to me. She came back from some business trip. Suddenly, I wasn't affectionate enough and didn't do this or that right. She's like you didn't even kiss me when you picked me up. I'm like ......uh are you dumb? I literally just kissed and hugged you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.You make solid points. Many shared memories. However, I was drug through hell and back for a 7 year period because she is a covert narcissist. The crazy thing is.......that had I not had my son.....I may have never fully became aware of her gas lighting\lies\blame shifting. I wish I would have gotten some closure from the marriage but all I got was someone that was selfish and remains in guilt and shame. I became a better person by far. It's crazy that someone can do the absolute worst things to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Wow this just nails it. Thank you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Ten months divorced. A healing moment of clarity.Oh for sure. I have heard the horror stories. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | War Appears OverI'll send you a pm | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 06:07 AM |
| 2 | The most outlandish\ridiculous lie or story you encountered in marriage or divorce?Yup.....seems to be a pattern. I'm guessing someone got in her ear or guess what? Suddenly she's not happy or doesn't "feel" loved. It's the same ole cliche. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 6 | The most outlandish\ridiculous lie or story you encountered in marriage or divorce?lol........I think that's what makes it even sweeter. They died of old age....long before this covid stuff. I hope God lets me slap them in the face when he's judging them. There are many many in that same boat. They have no idea the restraint that came into play. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The D Day of divorce. How did it go down for you?Oh ya....it was actually my 8 month old son that a light switch flipped. All the half truths....the gas lighting.....and projection became clear as day. I hammered every time and told her I would continue to do so until she changed or we got lawyers involved. I'm so much better now.......it was hell that I would gladly walk through for my son again. So crazy what I couldn't do for myself.....I was able to do for him. The best part? He's going to be 4 soon and every day I'm with him gets better a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 04:35 AM |
| 10 | The most outlandish\ridiculous lie or story you encountered in marriage or divorce?Oh it's been about 7 years now so I'm pretty much over it. Luckily, at the time there was no one coming to her defense. Funny story........she tried to whine to some of her co workers that I was angry all the time and unreasonable to be with. This was after the shit hit the fan. Well this couple she worked with went to my friends couples bible study. My buddy is a straight shooter and just speaks truth. He has a reputation for it. Anyway, they didn't know that he knew everything that was going o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Hate women after divorceNah, I'm fortunate to have enough good women in my life not to hate them. I'm thankful for that because if I didn't I'd probably feel differently. I have two sisters that have been married over 25 years and are good spouses.....my mom got shit on by every guy she ever tried to make it work with. She's older though......so it was like once they won the prize they changed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | The D Day of divorce. How did it go down for you?This is exactly how it was with me. (Not the couple affair). Her behavior began to change and it was like she nit picked me almost to death. I couldn't do anything right. Sounds like she did your son in some ways. Looking back the red flags were there for almost 8 years before it came to a head. Of course she was having an affair. She cried all the way to meet him because she didn't want to. PUKE! It's always "I don't love you" or "I didn't feel loved". See ya sweet heart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 03:00 AM |
| 9 | The D Day of divorce. How did it go down for you?One question... Why the hell did you wait for HER to decide she wanted a divorce? She was letting another guy stick his dick in her without your permission. You should have walked away when you found out. Oh my friend. I was so lost and blue pilled at the time. So so dumb and naive. She got me in the first half for sure.....but it all worked out and her and her lawyer failed miserably in the end. No one would walk my journey just like I wouldn't walk yours\theirs. We have to walk it out the best… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 04:35 PM |
| 14 | War Appears OverMine should have been over in 6 months tops.....but her lawyer convinced her that she could fleece me. Almost 2.5 years later...THEY FAILED. She's fucked and I love every second of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | The Struggle of being divorcedFor many years I did subscribe to that "if mama isn't happy nobody's happy" and the others cliche sayings. When she cheated on me it woke me up quick. I realized just how petty and immature I was. This was 7 years ago. I began the hard work of rebuilding. It came at a high cost. I kept my head up and emotions in check. And I fucking won.......now every day in life I wake up a smiling winner. I haven't even shared the motorcycle rides I take. Pure bliss. All the best good sir......onward and upwa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 3 | The Struggle of being divorcedNot knocking that. You should check out Kevin Samuels youtube channel.....he's always trying to help women become what you speak of. Best of luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 01:32 AM |
| 5 | The Struggle of being divorcedI got mine in the settlement. She got the queen in the spare room....winning :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | The Struggle of being divorcedI'm not sure about the living together or pre nup. Old Dr Dre's didn't work out so well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 5 | The Struggle of being divorcedNah you're not an asshole. You make good points. And I get it.....I think men in general want companionship......for me that juice isn't worth the effort. I'm fortunate that I have a 3 year old son so I don't have that aspect either....that of wanting to have children so I'm good on that front. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 7 | The Struggle of being divorcedYou're right. It was every bit of 7 years.......many nights in the fetal position thinking I was alone and crazy. My situation, I found (being cheated on and the system trying to screw me over) is pretty common amongst men though. I'm happy to report that I made it to the "promised land" and I'm raising my 3 year old son and living life to it's fullest. All the best friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 7 | The Struggle of being divorcedThat's the thing......the one person I was vulnerable with the one who cheated on me. What really bothers me is that say I do meet a nice woman.....that truly wants to go to the next level in life.....I just don't think I can shake being burned the way I was. It's not their fault and it really bothers me. I know me.....and I know that I'm not going to be able to shake the trust aspect regardless if there's another that comes along. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.That's called the wall my friend. They can only hide from it for so long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.Very good points. Just remember man......the Lord will lead you. You aren't alone and you aren't crazy. Those are the schemes of the devil. To make us think we're on this island and abandoned and no one cares. Check this out. Long story short......my wife cheated on me 7 years ago around this time we had a blow up. First one in 15 years. Anyway, I tried to reconcile with her but she continued the same belittling disrespectful behaviors (my post history goes into some of this) and we ended up get… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.I thought the same thing. I tell my Christian friends that it's the spirit of the age spoken about in the Bible.......our stories are all so similar. Basically this prideful spirit that plays the victim and questioned each and ever decision made. When held accountable they cannot take the truth. This has been literally with two dozen men I've helped in the last several years. Like a script. I think you're onto something. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.Even physically? Doubt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 2 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.K | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 4 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.Of course....but she won't have control of the truth which he will know and understand. It's cool though because it'll be a teachable moment that nothing is 100% and we all have flaws. His mother just really really fucked it up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 8 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.Don't blame yourself. You were conditioned. "Happy wife, happy life". "If mama ain't happy no one is happy" All bullshit. We bought into a bad sale of goods. It took me some time but I really like who I am now. It's her loss. What she doesn't see coming is a day of reckoning when our son asks her why we are divorced. From that day forward she will forever be looked at differently in his eyes. My son is me x100 at three years old.....cannot imagine what he'll do once he finds out his selfish moth… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/22 03:42 PM |
| 34 | The person you divorced isn't the person you married.Mine was the opposite. I grew and she became more and more spoiled and never took any ownership for anything. Deuces. I'm living in the land of milk and honey almost debt free.......her? LOL not so much! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Good for you. I've really been alone since she cheated on me about 7 years ago. But fully released to date and what not since last April. And you know what I have found? I just don't think the juice is worth the squeeze. Meaning that the time\effort\money you put into making a relationship work just isn't worth it. It's been nice.......the last few weeks I've gotten looks from women and know that I could pursue them. But the more I think about it......I'm just not interested. I have a 3 year old… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.It took almost 3 years. It was a nightmare. Probably because she was sleeping around while going through it. She had to keep up her victim perception on one hand......while sucking off her lover with the other. Then she would tell me I was stalling the process all the while doing everything to drag it out. What should have taken 6 months drug on for almost 3 years. My best advice is just to do your best. Work on you. It sucks not knowing what email or call or text will bring. It can cause PTSD i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | DeniedThis should be her walk to the jail | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Sending Love!meh | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withNo doubt......they have no idea how lucky they are that I was always able to keep in mind my son first. Without my son.....there would have been pain. Even more gross is the former in-laws that painted their beloved whore sister as the innocent one. All so gross. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withI've often had the conversation while in the shower of which will never take place but I go ahead anyway. I say things to the pastor like "how were you such a fool? did you not know she was fucking a guy while we were going through the divorce? you didn't even reach out to hear my side? Thanks for showing me WHAT I WILL NEVER BE." | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withOh yes.....and then she told me I WAS dragging it out. It was so gross. The whole system and experience was gross......but at the same time I have helped so many others going through it as far as what to do and what to expect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withYa no offense meant. I don't care what height he was....he coulda been 6'6 and built like Brock Lesner.........you don't mess with a married mans wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withThe thing I have learned through all this is that everyone has their own journey. Things that some are able to withstand would absolutely break others. And that is the key.....walking out our own journey and making the best of it. Although it's not easy at times. I'm so thankful I didn't act out when I wanted to and break them limb from limb. As a result......the best Christmas yet and I'm not in a cold cell somewhere. Hang in there man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withWe have 50/50 custody. It was 3 years of negotiating and we finally came to an agreement. Something that should have taken far less time and FAR less money. The problem for cheaters is that they are trying to save face with everyone even though they are pieces of shit. Through the whole process she was fucking this loser. Meanwhile she would go to church and post on social media that she was sister Christian. It was all gross. Even worse (not that is matters) I never really got along with her si… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withYup....my plan coming into the new year is to be done with this......like taking a shit.....you wipe and flush and move forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Ran into my ex with her troll lover she cheated withShhhhhh 2022 the year of health and fitness ;) | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | I'm tired of being told NOTreat them like a celebrity and they'll treat you like a fan. So gross.......this should never happen. But it's all too common. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/21 03:04 PM |
| 12 | I'm tired of being told NOYou have two options. Neither of which will be fun but one will end this. Option 1 - continue to live comfortably miserable. Option 2 - pull the cord and jump Sorry to be so brutally honest. I have been where you are at. While not exactly what you described.....what you are saying is that nothing you do is good enough. I was the most supportive of her goals and ambitions. I gave her everything. In my heart of hearts I loved her with all of me. It wasn't good enough. After 15 years she cheated on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | (Standard Operating Procedure) The initial phase of divorce.You know the saddest part of this? Her parents were absolutely the most awesome Godly couple. They adored me and I did them. They knew I loved their daughter. Her father passed in 2004.....my son is named after him. Her mother passed this last June and was in a nursing home with alzheimer's. When we got married....I just kind of figured that my EX would follow in their footsteps. NOPE.....she's the most evil selfish woman you'll find. Nothing I ever did was good enough for her. She always nit pi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?You aren't kidding. While I know my story is pretty common.....when I share it with other married men their eyes are big as saucers. "How did you do it?" But for my faith in Christ and my son. At year 4 when I had enough of her bs and not changing her ways......she told me "you've had 4 years to get over this".....to which I responded......"Maybe you're right, but in that 4 years when have you asked me what you can do to help me get over it?" Silence followed by "we're done with this conversatio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/21 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Finally done!FREEEEEEEEEEEEDOOOOOOOOOOOM! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?Tell me about it. The ONE person whom I was married to for 15 years with....we were virgins....met with some internet stranger from an online app game. When confronted, she "didn't feel loved". This December will be 7 years since she cheated on me. Absolute betrayal. I describe like the scene from Brave Heart when Robert The Bruce betrays William Wallace. That Look I don't think I'll ever trust anyone from the opposite sex relationship wise ever again. And it sux too because my mom and two siste… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?True.....but I wouldn't give them possession.....I'd show them on my phone while they are investigating who needs to leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 9 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?Same thing was tried on me. It's standard operating procedure with them. Filed divorce with order of protection. This was after she locked me out of all bank accounts. I was served papers with my 1 year old in my arms in my own home. While my wife was in the kitchen giddy. It was all so gross. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 16 | Why is my wife locking our bedroom door?I'm a little late to your post but can identify. My wife cheated on me after 15 years and then played the victim. Worst of all because she played the role so well....they ALL made me out to be the bad guy. I would get cameras up ASAP......because next she is going to build a case against you to get you out of the house. Record EVERYTHING.....have your phone recording any time you are around her. In most states when the police are called someone is going to have to leave the house. If you can rem… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship.This should be listened to by every man here who is in a relationship especially after divorce. SOURCE | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship.Below is a good talk on what is going on. You may be past the 90 day mark but at the same time.....understand women are hard wired to do this. If you said you'd walk......you know what to do. You're relationship or what is left of it....IS OVER. You have nothing to lose. SOURCE | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Wife told me not to come home.. whats my optionsSouthern Cali boy here.. not sure that matters in this case. Oh if you get served papers.....it's absolutely going to matter. I'd get cameras installed ASAP.....and until you get them installed I'd have your phone on recording any time she's around you. If the police get involved one of you is going to have to leave. Remain calm and show the officers the footage. Record everything. Yes you pay for the house. I wouldn't leave......if she has an issue then she can leave. REMAIN CALM and level head… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship.Sex, which was great initially, has ceased. The last time it happened she yelled at me and I haven’t been able to engage in it since. She’s given me an ultimatum to change how I am emotionally, and while I agree I have issues in this department, I don’t know that I can change. It's funny....NO ONE likes being put against the wall to make a decision. Yet that's what is happening. I'd get the fuck out of there as fast as possible. Here's the issue with men and women in regards to marriage. "Women … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 4 | I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship.Get the fuck out of there while you can! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Ex posting to social mediaForever the victim. It's just gross. My best advice......if someone reaches out to you don't overload with info. Be brief and honest. The less juicy details....the better. And that's all most are interested in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to do.No doubt.....no way in hell was I not going to fight. In the end 50\50. Her lawyer has no idea the pain that would have came had I not gotten 50\50. No fucking clue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to do.I was a stay at home father which we agreed upon. Her lawyer made me out to be a deadbeat who didn't want to get a job. A parasite. Which as I stated we agreed for me to stay with our newborn. Don't think for one second they won't try to give his wife full custody. He better be prepared to fight unless she agrees to 50\50. She's also 10 steps ahead of him.....he better catch up quick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Thank you for sharing. What I had to learn was that it wasn't about winning. It was about control. Control over the narrative. Control what people think. Control absolutely everything. The way to "win" is to walk away from the game. And don't drive looking at the rear view all the time. Thanks again for explaining your experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.People just don't know. That is why the suicide rate is 3 out every 4 are men in the US. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.No doubt. They are the most evil vile self centered snakes you'll ever cross paths with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.I've learned not to take offense to people that don't know. I've literally studied and watched all the traits. I've done the work. (7 years) I have friends that are professionals and have confirmed my findings by asking and getting the correct information. Again....I don't blame anyone that doesn't know. It's kind of like divorce.....until you walk through that......you really have no idea what you are talking about so far as advice or what you would or wouldn't do. It's just a journey. Also, wh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.You nailed it. Most people wouldn't cheat because kids are involved.....however cheaters are so selfish they only think in the here and now. No way they could possibly see that their own children will view them differently. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Ya the love bombing phase......that is a good time. That's how they try to suck you in. Then it all changes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.I hear ya. Once she cheated I was in the same boat. It was over.....but I wanted to turn over absolutely every stone in the process. There are no regrets when I look back. Just getting stronger and becoming a better person. Not only for myself....but my son who is modeling me. Onward and upward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Good to know. She continues to be the thorn in my side.....but I grow and get better despite it. If that makes sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 07:23 PM |
| 8 | Reflecting on the covert narcissist divorce early stage...6 months removed.Appreciate your take. I think "toxic" is used far more now than ever before. As for leaking over into males.....my experience with men in general is that they keep their stories and emotions close to the vest. I've spoken with more than 2 dozen men who have walked the same road and experienced the same things. They were almost enlightened that they weren't alone on their journey when I went first and was vulnerable. If men are expressing themselves more and seeing that "holy shit I'm not alone" … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/21 07:22 PM |
| 3 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**Lol and money. Good for you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**Hang in there. It won't last forever. It does get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 03:10 AM |
| 11 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**"When you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan" The sad truth for me.......is that the only person I would never see it coming from was her. I guess that's why they call it betrayal. And look, I don't even fault her......there's no reason to get mad over someones software. It's just built into them. One of the hardest pills I had to swallow during this thing was that at it's base she didn't like me. Period. It was a swift kick to the balls. I sat on that for a few days and the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 02:55 AM |
| 2 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**No doubt. Being cheated on woke me up like a champ. I've been red pilled for awhile. She woke an absolute unit when she cheated. I watch hammerhand and Enman67........along with replicant phish and others. Good times :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 4 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**Thank you. A lot of good people around me that supported and helped me. And I don't mean to sound negative in my post. I just have a standard by my mother and two sisters. All great and faithful women. I thought my ex would follow. NOPE. I keep saying it...."but for my son and my faith in Christ go I" | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**Good for you.......onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | **Six Months Removed Divorce Update.**No doubt....I remember my mom telling me awhile back "you'll find someone". That was my response.......she was floored. :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Saw this video here ages ago, looks like justice is served.AOC crazier cousin? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/09/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | InfidelityI can honestly say that since I've been divorced everything in my life has gotten better and drastically improved. Doesn't matter where you are in the process. All that matters is that you too get to be happy. It's been a long journey but I am truly happy and am the rock for my son going forward. All the best to you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 7 | How much is this 💩supposed to cost!?First attorney was almost worthless.....charged me a retainer for 17 months and negotiated things for settlement that I hadn't agreed to or wanted. Second attorney did me right.....she supported men fighting for their children. It was the craziest time in my life. My best advice....don't allow your emotions to get involved whatsoever......trust me.....stay the course and keep your emotions in check. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 8 | How much is this 💩supposed to cost!?Bro buckle in....shits going to get crazy. Took me 20 months of ups and downs and two attorneys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Anon has his priorities in order."young" he is. Thinking with his little head. No MGTOW I know was perfect from day 1. I don't knock the money spent or hormones. | /r/MGTOW | 31/07/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | InfidelityBlue pilled simp - abosolutely Woke repilled monk - nope never was | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Some men never learn. Stay safe out there gents.Ding ding ding! | /r/MGTOW | 30/07/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Some men never learn. Stay safe out there gents.Agreed. For her to say he matched someone else your take is spot on. | /r/MGTOW | 30/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Nobody notices this? 🤨And the system is rigged against men. Check out ole Dr Dre and how is prenup worked out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | InfidelityI'm with you. I grew up with no father myself. That's great that you recognize breaking the cycle. So many wrongs were made right when my son was born. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | InfidelityWell said. I have a couple friends that their mother cheated on their father. They could see the dad's misery. The lack of affection for one another as children. However, the father was old school and wasn't going to divorce for the sake of the kids. And yet.....what did he really teach them? To settle. To be comfortably miserable. No way I could ever do that to my son. Onward and upward my friend. I wish you nothing but the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | This is me ... Since the divorce rapeFool me once...... | /r/MGTOW | 29/07/21 04:49 AM |
| 21 | Even normies are becoming MGTOWJust heard from a guy that got fleeced out of 50k in comic book "potential" value.......his response after finalizing....."one things for sure I'll never marry again. I'll never give up half to anyone ever again". Woke him up real quick. | /r/MGTOW | 29/07/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Things are hardBeen final myself since mid April. Hang on friend better days are ahead. I can honestly tell you that after 20 months of battle.....texts\emails\calls coming at me like bullets....it does get better. Every day I can honestly say I get better and better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:04 AM |
| 9 | Just seems to belong hereTrue story....I used to commute.....transferred closer. So I thought cool I'll see if the wife wants to meet up for lunches. After about 2 times......I told her flat out I wasn't interested in meeting for lunch anymore. I wanted to relax at lunch....not be criticized and filled with drama. Yes I was a straight savage to her. Turns out she was a cheating whore the whole time anyway. Oh well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 03:16 AM |
| 3 | I am in tears reading this because it’s funny asl 😂😂 is this what marriage like for real for men ?That's great for you.......I think I'm one and done. How long did it take for the "great woman" to come around......also how long before you married her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/21 01:49 AM |
| 11 | I am in tears reading this because it’s funny asl 😂😂 is this what marriage like for real for men ?It’s all in how you pick them!! Nah I'll invest in myself thx | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Rich crypto entrepreneur proposes to gf, gets quite a few redpill replies (showing only one here)Yup when the slander begins....you know you have won. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/21 01:50 AM |
| 30 | [Workplace] How do you manage cucks hating your guts as someone who left the plantation ?The first rule of MGTOW.....don't talk about MGTOW. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | InfidelityAh that makes sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 6 | InfidelityThey most likely blame themselves for the infidelity and therefore can be the bitch in the marriage. I'm not saying they can't get respect back but I always question the motive of the women getting it back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Why happy couples cheat | Esther Perel TED talkThis woman is delusional. Recovery from a woman who cheats is damn near impossible. Even if it did survive the man will ALWAYS question what he gained. Any man that can look in the mirror after his wife has cheated on him and not lose self respect is just a cuck. Period. I'm speaking as someone who was cheated on and over turned every possible stone there was (7 years) before the divorce was final. My conclusion.......say the best outcome.....she was fully and totally changed. My own self respec… | /r/MGTOW | 24/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How much were your court costs?Oh I didn't know if there was a court fee charge or if court costs means everything. In that case mine was about 15k.....but we never went to trial. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/21 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Female logic... 🤣Great point. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Do not move outThe lawyers and her are ALWAYS going to use any tactic to get you out of the home. Don't fall for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Typical Purple Haired Social Justice Warrior With A Sense Of Entitlement.Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Newly divorced.....one of the absolute best things of being MGTOWSpot on my friend. Not that I'll ever be involved in anything long for awhile or again.....however if I do.....my philosophy is that we will meet up and have a good time. Then I will go home to my peaceful house and have a fantastic time alone. My happiness is paramount. I'll never sacrifice that for someone that is never content or happy about anything ever. | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Embrace the suck....being alone and empty lasts but for a seasonEach person has their own journey. While I'm not closed to the idea of meeting someone.....I realize in my mid 40's the wear and tear that a woman brings into it could bring potential baggage. So for me.....relationships just aren't really my cup of tea. I am distracted some with my business and 3 year old son. I also have a cat so I'm not completely alone (had to put dog down and pain was too much to get another....settled for my cat :) Anyway....thanks for sharing.....as men we really weren't … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Embrace the suck....being alone and empty lasts but for a seasonOnward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Embrace the suck....being alone and empty lasts but for a seasonOh I'm with you 100%....this post is more to help others just beginning. I'm having the time of my life now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Embrace the suck....being alone and empty lasts but for a seasonAgreed. Comfortably miserable is the term I use. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 8 | Newly divorced.....one of the absolute best things of being MGTOWGood for you......my only counter to your experience is that in my field of work the experience helps me to identify and empathize on a level without I wouldn't be able to. Sort of like a priest giving marital advice....always cracked me up. That said....not saying you have to have the experience to do what I do but it certainly helps. | /r/MGTOW | 18/07/21 05:49 PM |
| 19 | Screenshots of private conversations refute #MeToo accusations against game designer Chris Avellonemetoo is just another scheme to lure in prey and exploit "victims". It was never about helping those that really needed it. It was about furthering the agenda. | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 06:23 PM |
| 14 | What's with all the ridiculous "alpha" strawman lately?A lot of immature red pilled boys try to use "alpha/beta" speak. Hopefully one day they wake up and realize no amount of frame is going to change awalt behavior. MGTOW 4 LIFE! | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 19 | What about single fathers?Same here friend. | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 05:28 PM |
| 18 | Women on OnlyFans complain that sometimes they receive unpleasant messages from the men they are exploitingForever the victim. | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Can't make this shit up, abstaining from exercising is life changing.🤡 🌎 | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 9 | The patriarch🤡 🌎 | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/21 01:36 AM |
| 46 | Gentlemen, tell me. What exactly would happen if there are more women in politics and if a government is a feminist government“Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies, and feminine democracies give way to tyranny.” - Aristotle | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 8 | WoMeN ArE THe SmArTEr sExDo you have a link to the video? | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | My friend the soon to be beta buxAppreciate it....I'll see how if it progresses first. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 3 | My friend the soon to be beta buxI'm not sure I'll have peace of mind....this guy is a hopeless romantic. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | My friend the soon to be beta buxHe still believes in love and the right one. Thought he would have learned with 2 divorces and 4 kids....two with each. Nope. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | My friend the soon to be beta buxThis isn't high school my friend. We don't recruit....we welcome them when they show up. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 18 | My friend the soon to be beta buxAh there's always the "you's" in these threads. Let me MAN splain it to you. It's not appropriate that's why. And the biggest red flag for modern day women is when they ask that.....while pretending to get to you know. She happened to fuck this up and show her hand within the first 5 minutes. That's why. Welcome to 2021 trad-con. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/21 08:04 PM |
| 32 | My friend the soon to be beta buxVery true......he wouldn't get it and I know not to waste my breath. It is hilarious though. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | "Quit objectifying me!"-Scarlett JohanssonThe Wall gets them all. | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/21 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Ahhhh the little woman isn't happy with me.she's devastated Yawn.....pass me the steak and potatoes | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/21 12:06 AM |
| 6 | The ex stripper, turned sugar baby tried to play her sugar daddy. So he dumped her, stopped paying for her stuff, placed charges on her and left her homeless. And now she is losing everything she owns and her life is ruined.Forever the victim....YAWN | /r/MGTOW | 13/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Those recently final or about to be. What is your best piece of advice for someone in the early stages?Dang that's good stuff. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Sage advice I found on r/AskMenI agreed with #1 but sounds cavalier. Life has a way of catching up to all of us. Of no doing of our own. What may be labeled as mistakes can just be us living and having something like an accident, divorce, or death as a result. (INB4 don't marry bro) Not everyone was MGTOW and redpilled out of the womb. We don't recruit....we welcome them when they arrive. I'm probably looking a little deeper into this than need be.....but there are plenty of good men suffering and it's no fault of their own. … | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Sage advice I found on r/AskMenI agreed with #1 but sounds cavalier. Life has a way of catching up to all of us. Of no doing of our own. What may be labeled as mistakes can just be us living and having something like an accident, divorce, or death as a result. (INB4 don't marry bro) Not everyone was MGTOW and redpilled out of the womb. We don't recruit....we welcome them when they arrive. I'm probably looking a little deeper into this than need be.....but there are plenty of good men suffering and it's no fault of their own. … | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 4 | FinancesYou'll be fine my friend....be the best dad for your kids. They are going to need you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 07:44 PM |
| 3 | FinancesI'm sorry to hear this man. As someone who just walked through similar let me give you some pointers and advice to help. I was absolutely blind sided by her cheating. I was involved with my church and on staff at the time....so that made it even crazier. Never would have thought in a million years I would have walked out the last 5-7 years the way I did. I will tell you though as someone that has been finalized for 3 months now.....I'm much much better off than I was before. All the way around. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Some light hearted comedy on divorceNo doubt....."marriage is just a larva stage for true happiness" | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Help me be a better DadI have a 3 year old son. Consistency is key. Be consistent with any rules or guidance. My ex and I rotate weeks Friday to Friday and I've always been my son's rock and foundation. When his mom gets him she's more of a push over as he manipulates her. When it's my week the first few hours I have to burst his bubble as he's not getting junk food and his way. After that there's a few melt downs here and there but that's because we're consistent on bath and hair washing and he doesn't like that much… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms?She has a legitimately good heart. doubt | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Losing my mindThe best way to deal with a true narcissist is to walk in truth. I dealt(ing) with a covert narc for 20 years. She loved to talk about herself and work and troubleshoot. When it came my turn to troubleshoot problems with my work she would blame me. The reason I bring this up is that a narcissist has no ability to empathize. They constantly disrespect and belittle and they truly don't understand what they are doing. My covert narc cheated on me. In her mind she apologized and I should just get ov… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Final for a few months now New place is coming along nicely. I think I'll keep it up all year round :)Ya continue to be comfortably miserable. So brave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Final for a few months now New place is coming along nicely. I think I'll keep it up all year round :)"Must be Italian" | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Final for a few months now New place is coming along nicely. I think I'll keep it up all year round :)LOL I know right.....I'm definitely going to put it up with a drop cloth behind it at Christmas time! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Who says it can't stay up year round? MGTOW 4 LIFE!Yes sir.....brings the room together nicely. | /r/MGTOW | 09/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Forever the victim.....nothing like complaining about the bed you madeVery good points.......they allowed it. All of it. | /r/MGTOW | 09/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 40 | 30+ year-old woman complains about hook-up culture after "trying all these things" out there and wonders what happened to chivalry and romance. Finally she asks everyone: "where are the real men and all those nice things men used to do?" (paraphrased)Forever the victims.....THEY made their bed and now want to complain about it. Nah honey's you get to lay in it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 13 | Mid 50's wall bangerI know this chick.....it's hilarious....one time she said "I don't do drama" It's still a running joke to this day. This lady is nothing but drama. | /r/MGTOW | 08/07/21 03:54 AM |
| 11 | Going through divorceI became the best version of myself through the pain and anguish of her infidelity and divorce. Twenty months and I came out clean on the other side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/21 10:55 PM |
| 8 | so lads ...So predicable.......sigh | /r/MGTOW | 07/07/21 12:09 AM |
| 35 | When guys think that Asian girls are NAWALT"everything was good the first couple days" ROFL | /r/MGTOW | 07/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Hit with a curve ball over the 4th......Good stuff.......I was just caught off guard. I mean it was the last thing I expected going in. If you only knew the victimhood my ex tries to play......but she cannot run from her cheating......that usually stops any accusations... I had a buddy hit me up when this first went down....told me her co workers were bashing me.....anyway he asked them if they knew what happened.....and they responded "he's just a jerk" and when he told them she cheated on me.....their jaws dropped to the floor. Ya, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Change of Religion Leads To DivorceI have a friend in the same boat as you. I have to tell you though.....religion is bullocks....Christ is NOT. So many people have never experienced a relationship with Christ and usually it's the parents or church that has messed the whole thing up. Religion is absolutely bullshit..... | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | "what do you do for work?"I used to be an admin pastor at a church those reactions were priceless as well. | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 35 | "what do you do for work?"Ya big dicking is hilarious.......the loudest in the room is more often than not the weakest from my experience. | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/21 05:40 AM |
| 24 | My ex wife is a whoreOh the karma is coming to mine as well. The pain is beginning and she doesn't even see it. Even better the boyfriend she kept the whole divorce is her slave\mule......as soon as they settle in together I can see a steel beam falling on them as she's blowing him. I have not met or seen one person who doesn't agree that "karma is a bitch"......well my ex is on the cusp of a great big dish of it. Don't worry....I'll report in when it takes place. | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 49 | Evidence as to why you shouldn’t get married?: Women reveal how their appearances changed after they met partners (insert excuses, then they are shocked when the men cheat)The smugness of aging like sour milk.......eeeesh | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/21 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Never let her see you bleedI'm with you. Been there many times. Call me soft but I get emotional just thinking of my 3 year old son when he's not with me. Something I learned during the divorce is that there are going to be battles lost in the midst of the war. My ex is self absorbed and plays the victim as good as any narcissist. I learned that in order to win the war I had to lose a couple battles that weren't going to matter anyway. FF 20 months through that war....and I won.....50\50 and at least she co parents well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Wife steals man's lifelong silver collection, comments are stories of what you would expect. Protect yourself, fellas.Just heard from a guy that got fleeced out of 50k in comic book "potential" value.......his response after finalizing....."one things for sure I'll never marry again. I'll never give up half to anyone ever again". Woke him up real quick. | /r/MGTOW | 05/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Good to see that marvel is making it known that they wanna lose moneyHalf off today only tee hee hee | /r/MGTOW | 05/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Megan Thee Stallion - Thot ShitTake off all the extras and what are you left with? An average woman. | /r/MGTOW | 05/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 25 | 99.4% of rape accusations are either false or inconclusive.Usually the playbook for a woman caught cheating is He tricked me He raped me Know a guy who went to marriage counseling and the first session his wife tried this. Fortunately for him his counselor vetted that shit out with the quickness. Unfortunately, he stayed with her and is still with her to this day. He gets what he gets though because his relationship with her started out in infidelity. 🤷 🤷 🤷 | /r/MGTOW | 05/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 3 | I don't hate women.Even worse is that they aren't doing this for men so much, although, they are. They are only keeping up with women and doing it for their approval. Ugh Even the post wall women try to keep up and over value themselves. It's all just gross. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. | /r/MGTOW | 04/07/21 11:32 PM |
| 17 | I don't hate women.It would be nice if you could look upon women today and actually be surprised or shocked that they weren't such lemmings. Nose ring, hair color, shoulder tattoo, single mom, entitled......and the beat goes on.......this is the norm...... Edit: In before being reported for violence or bullying ;) | /r/MGTOW | 04/07/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Divorce I dont wantI was coming off 19 years with a 1 year old. My ex had a boyfriend at the time that I didn't find out about till later. That's fortunate for all parties involved. I didn't want the divorce but when your cheating spouse doesn't change her behavior and even gets worse....it was for the best. I was served papers as a stay at home dad with my son in my arms. Wife was in the kitchen giddy. She then locked me out of finances.....and filed a restraining order. Did I mention I was a stay at home dad? He… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 15 | I just saw this on tiktok"Useless" What's the saying from UK "equality goes out the window once a refrigerator needs moved to the 3rd floor." | /r/MGTOW | 02/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I beat her in courtAbout the same price for me and it was worth every penny! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 13 | Gave no argument in return and name called him, what a clever comeback!And you didn't even touch on suicide rates and just barely scratched the surface of prison. | /r/MGTOW | 01/07/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | I beat her in courtHang in there.....my son was one and I was with him from day 1 as his stay at home father. The cruel ex had me served with my son in my arms along with the protective order. On top of that....she tried her damnedest to put him in a daycare while I was staying home with him. Her and her lawyer labeled me a dead beat....parasite....and tried to act like I was a mooch. It was absolutely gross. The whole time she had a boyfriend as we went through the next 20 months. She tried to get my son to stay … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | How low can she go?Buckle in....it was 20 months for me. The lawyers and courts love to extend this out to maximize their 50+ Billion dollar industry. Expect it to get a lot worse hope and pray for the best. Best of luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 10 | I beat her in courtAh yes the order of protection that all lawyers try. They do this to try and get you out of the home. Ex of 19 years tried this garbage and failed. You know why? Because there were no instances of violence or police involvement. I too won. Stay the course. Buckle in.......they will try anything and everything. It's written in their software. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | First full weekend with my son since moving to my new place. We kept it simple for dinnerGoals man. I love it. Onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Alpha widowShe lured him in with love bombs and promises. Only to be AWALT and look out for herself. Status Quo.....knock knock Neo. | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Almost thereK | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Shortcut to healingThat's entirely up to you. For me....I wanted to get in shape and not in the divorce man type way. I wanted to do it the right way by eating healthy and taking my time. I also wanted to heal correctly......and you asked about time frame....this December will be 7 years since I found out she cheated on me. And I'm just now starting to feel like I've reached a couple of these goals. I have a good friend.....and we've processed so many things that have helped me see what I like and don't about myse… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Almost thereSimilar situation as your but more complicated. Long story short......she cheated....we tried to reconcile.....got pregnant for the first time in 18 years (tested...he's mine). Then I began to get to the root of the cheating and she wanted to sweep it under the carpet. The sad thing is.....she probably had a boyfriend the whole time. Honestly, once she cheated I think I was done.......it would have taken a miracle to restore anything. The good of it is that we had my son.....who is me x1000.....… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Almost therePointing out "whining" only shows you lack empathy and compassion. The fact is that most men are fucked by the system through alimony and child support. Most of which because 80-90% of women initiate divorce. Anytime a man expresses himself it's whining or he's "weak". I'm only responding to you because men don't have a place to let out experience and emotion.....and when they do....someone calls it whining. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"Ty for sharing.......it took me getting cheated on to awake so to speak.....I was a miserable slave and tried to make it seem anything but. Once she cheated on me....I got a new lease on life and things got to change. For the better......like you said it was hell confronting her each and every time....but I finally broke it.....and won. :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"Yup....this is the same story I hear over and over. It's weird how men naturally fall into this "honey do" trap. Complete transparency here......I'm particular about laundry....growing up family smoked so I have to have my clothes a certain way and smell. So I just naturally gravitated towards just doing the laundry. I did this from 2000 to about 2015. The thing about it.....I'd end up doing 4 hours of HER laundry every week....because she went through so many damn clothes for work. When we sepa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 4 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"Good for you.....how did you come to your awakening? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 10 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthIt's also that way in regards to being a stay at home parent. When a woman does it...."ZOMG it's the hardest job EVERRRRRR!" When a man runs circles around women as a stay at home parent....he's belittled and made out to be some wuss. Nah bitches.....planning and consistency go a long way and I'll run circles around most women. | /r/MGTOW | 28/06/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Female lurkerI'm with you 100%....my mom was married 7 times and each and every ex was a complete douche. I have 2 sisters....one married 26 years before she divorced because he was a narcissist. My other sister been married 30 years..........these are the strongest women in my life. They were instrumental in helping my sanity in my divorce. The reason I bring them up.....I assumed my ex would be like them. NOPE.....and most women aren't like them whatsoever. Not all women are bad....but most are selfish and… | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 09:37 PM |
| 18 | Clown world be like.boom | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 3 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthme too......;) | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthI'm right there with you. Right now.....if I so chose I could be on a flight and laid within a couple hours......and a local chick.....she wants to notch me so bad......but the thing is.....her body count is like minimum 300.......who would want to risk that.....and you know the saying....."don't stick your dick in crazy" The flight chick would be a amazing time on the surface......but she only gives one word answers and when I asked her what she does for fun......"exercise". This woman is a chi… | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthEvery day we grow and get stronger.......and you know why we're winning?.......Insults and name calling.......:D | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 34 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthI recently had a woman tell me I was "bitter". It's been about 2 months since my divorce was final. No I'm not bitter......I was hurt and am trying to heal and that's a big difference. The woman's response? Silence......they are incapable of going deep on issues because that would involve truth. Most women aren't interested in truth....just muh feelings. | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 15 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"You nailed it......I used to say communicating was like beating my head against the wall. Nothing was ever good enough....we couldn't just be content. Every weekend she'd hamster over chores and doing work in the yard. NO MORE.....I do what I want when I want :D | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/21 08:30 PM |
| 3 | First order of business at the new placety! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 9 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"Thank you sir.....posting here and /r/mgtow is very cathartic for me. Although....on /r/mgtow you have to be careful.....they tend to be very biased against women there......true mgtow don't care about women.....they do what they want when they want.....my mom and 2 sisters are the strongest women I have ever known......all anomalies to the system. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 20 | They make fun of MGTOW because it's the truthI'm not quite there yet......I answer back with "why would a man want to marry or remarry in 2021?" Usually met with silence..... | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | We need some harsh times in the west again, maybe WW3easy mode tbh | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 14 | A quote from WeiningerOnce your eyes are open.....you cannot unsee the bullshit. | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 3 | When I Used to See A Hot Girl Up Until The mid-2010’s…….Once your eyes are opened.....you cannot unsee the bullshit. It's a tough thing to walk out. But in 2021....here we are. | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW saved my lifeThat's okay....you don't need to be in order to recognize greatness.....and contrary to what men in the church make Jesus....he was no cuck! | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW saved my lifeTy sir....it's coming along nicely....... | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW saved my lifeYes! Thank you! | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | MGTOW saved my lifeJesus set the standard and was the ultimate mgtow | /r/MGTOW | 26/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW saved my lifeSome that get marriage raped never learn either.....I know a guy married 4 times now. In the middle of 3 and 4.......he went something like 8-10 years alone. The guy was fit and ate healthy....grew his own garden and such. Then he met 4....I kid you not they married in 2 weeks. When we met up for dinner about a year after he remarried......he told me that he hardly goes out alone or without her. I could see that he had gained a fair bit of weight. Here's the real kicker.....he took everything I … | /r/MGTOW | 26/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 14 | A meme I wish I had seen in my early twenties.70-80% of divorces are initiated by women. Spare me with both sides are to blame. That's just complete bullshit. As for taking responsibility for her not feeling loved and "he made me feel special" that's bullshit too. I can give you 10-12 men I know personally that their wife fucked up their marriage for some tingles. Most with multiple kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | If you’re ever find yourself day dreaming…/r/SluttyConfessions appears to be the smelling salt as well. Although some think it's all made up. That said....you have been warned before going there...it's bad. | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 06:49 AM |
| 5 | What the fuck, man? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤮 🤮 🤮 | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | First full weekend with my son since moving to my new place. We kept it simple for dinnerI come from faith. Meaning I have a relationship with Christ. So I did want a divorce.....but I couldn't get release and peace in the decision. God wouldn't let me......so I was dragged though a 20 month battle. A battle to get what was mine and for my son. Because of my faith I am not in a jail cell. Trust me if I were in my 20's there would be a lot of maimed people in my life and I'd be happily smiling. To answer your question about a silver lining.....this is about you giving your best....no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | The simple thingsThe way.....this is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!Ty sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!She always gives a happy ending........ ;) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!Safety first..... always :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!It's a 700.....but I'm going to upgrade to a FZ-07 at the end of the season......life goals ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!Ya and DCT.....it was weird getting used to a 100mph automatic.....but she's the best :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 04:34 AM |
| 7 | With all the stuff dating coaches teach, you'd think more men would avoid women/relationshipsI know a guy (pushing 70) who sees prostitutes regularly in a conservative area....he told me "bro you gotta use 2 condoms these days" LOL....no thx.....Rosie raw is just fine | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 4 | here's your tradwife broEllen = 🤢 | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 10 | With all the stuff dating coaches teach, you'd think more men would avoid women/relationshipsAs a 45 year old man....I don't get how men are so driven to be with a woman in person. With STI's and such.....why? I mean most likely dudes dug her out by the 100's........ But yet in 2021 many many men are driven to be with women in person........why? | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 02:53 AM |
| 9 | Rent a Wife/GirlfriendFuck bro....save your damn money.........at the least get a happy ending.... | /r/MGTOW | 24/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Got remarried after 2 months finalized....she's loud and requires A LOT of attention but worth it!SO LOUD :D | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Prepare for the worst and hope for the bestGlad to hear it man. Onward and upward my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | What this lady did...This is what is known as the Atom Bomb........while not always used....when\if used....you better be ready for it. Lawyers are the most evil vile inhuman pieces of filth out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | (Recommended Reading) - Fire Your WifeCredit to /u/ssredditor_ Very good information gentlemen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | 1st vacation day togetherAwesome! Good for you bro! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | First full weekend with my son since moving to my new place. We kept it simple for dinnerNext time......swing by any time :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | What is this guy smoking?"flower boys" | /r/MGTOW | 22/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 2 | gifts for the exExactly. Glad I'm not alone in this way of thought. She broke down crying to me about her mother. I just looked straight through her. She had all of me at one point and burned every bridge. Then went on to play the victim. She's dead to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | gifts for the exSolid advice.......what I'm grappling with is anything outside these boundaries. For example....she texted me "Happy Father's Day" yesterday. Having just got settled into my new place after 20 month battle before we reached an agreement.....my initial thought was "go fuck yourself". Surprisingly we co-parent fine......thankfully. I have no interest in being cordial with her ever outside my son. No amount of time will ever change this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Try to keep the perspective "it could be worse"Oh believe me if I didn't have my son to think about and my faith people would be drinking thru straws and hobbling. I'd happily sit in a jail cell. I'm not talking death I'm talking forever maimed. Remember dumb and dumber when he rips the heart out? That but no death. It's like you think you'd do X if this happens and then it happens and you're like crap if I do X all the consequences. When it came to not being able to see my son and be apart of his life it all changed. Now I'm happy and getti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 4 | I hope my lawyer is right…The higher earner pays the lower earner CS and SS. Not where I live....ex made more than me our whole marriage due to career choices and my support. When I inquired about ss I was told that due to having a college degree and ability to work I wouldn't be eligible for ss. I'm fine with this because I wanted a clean break and even opted out of cs because of it......the reason why I wasn't eligible for ss was because I have a dick. Period. I know of a half dozen cases in my area where the genders a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Try to keep the perspective "it could be worse"Do tell. I've heard some crazy stuff. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Happy cucks day!C- post....little effort.....most men on the "plantation" don't even know they live on one. It isn't until they are fucked over by their spouse or the system that they have a chance to get off it. That's cool though kid.....head on back to the red pill sub and keep holding frame as you watch Kevin Samuals and Donavan Sharpe......oh just lift more too..... | /r/MGTOW | 20/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | (infidelity) Stop beating yourself up over their softwareIt doesn't matter what you did or didn't do. She should have been an adult and sat down with you. I know that doesn't much matter now but I'm pointing it out so you can be less hard on yourself. This really is about you discovering yourself aside from her. It's no easy process but if you'll see it through YOU WILL be a better person on the other side. The thing is this is a process and a journey. Look at it like a broken leg. It doesn't matter how much you want to run on it....it takes time to h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 10 | Served divorce papers at work on Friday at 6PM.Just sucks man. Just know you're not alone. Many here have been or are where you are. I was served with my wife in the kitchen with my 1 year old in my arms. Wife was giddy. She also had a restraining order as well froze me out of finances. You gotta keep a cool head right now and get it in your mind this is going to be be hell. The restraining order is only in place to try and remove you from the home. I'll just tell you up front as someone that came through a 20 month war with a covert narciss… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 6 | First full weekend with my son since moving to my new place. We kept it simple for dinnerHe's 3. Just started really liking Transformers....I had a bunch of the old McDonalds ones that are super easy. Surprising though he is down with the more complex ones as well. Fun times! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 51 | You might have already seen this, but where is the lie? This legend was always right.Comedy.....podcasts etc......all that's offered is sex or sexual suggestions. I was listening to Alice Cooper's daughter Alex podcast.....she's actually proud that she can give a mean BJ. To of all people Logan Paul.....like some badge of honor. Just gross. I'm not which is worse. Women in 2021 sexualized, exploited, used, and played like never before. OR Them allowing it to happen and truly believing they are "empowered". Yet here we are and the beat goes on. | /r/MGTOW | 19/06/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | When I welcomed my son into this world at 43 years oldThis is my philosophy.... My time alone is my time. Should I date or hang out.... great. I'm sure we'll have a fantastic time. When that time is up....I'll be going back to my place until the next time we get together. Anything other than this just isn't going to work. I really learned to like the quiet. I got to discover who I was. I started smiling at the guy looking back in the mirror. Strengths\weakness.....what I liked and what I needed to work on. This was able to happen because I had peri… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here regret the divorce?I'll just say once you see you cannot unsee. That said if you have a faithful supportive wife and great kids but there's a few lacking things, you have to remember that nothing is 100%. What can happen is that people will leave 80 to look for the 20. 80% amazing for a mystery. Lastly, it's a myth of the grass is greener on the other side. No the grass is greenest where you water it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/21 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Not going to lie its affecting me.For the alone.....it is a real mind battle. There are only so many projects....maintenance...problems to be fixed. So what I do is just try to be present in what I'm doing. It's a battle but has helped a ton. In the last dance with Michael Jordan they said that his biggest talent wasn't his basketball skills but his ability to be present in the moment. That's the goal for me now. To be present. The way I coped was I wanted to lose weight and not in the cliche anxiety way that most divorce men do… | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 21 | "Women are complex."Fedor Emelianenko had a win streak from 2001 to 2009 27 wins in a row....he said that he just felt bad for every opponent before the fight. Staring over at them. Them having hope they could succeed but him knowing what would happen. He just felt bad for their fate. This is how I feel about the "complex" that think they could hold a candle to anything we can do and do better. | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/21 04:42 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone here regret the divorce?Very true....the way I coped was I wanted to lose weight and not in the cliche anxiety way that most divorce men do. You know to build self esteem to attract women. I wanted to do it long term and healthy. Mission accomplished. That led me to really start looking into my life. Look at what I messed up with other. Really look at the bridges and see if they could be mended and if so, great....if not....that was fine too. BUT in doing this I was able to really right some wrongs. Most of which I cau… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/21 03:31 AM |
| 12 | Does anyone here regret the divorce?My situation is way different than yours.....she cheated....we had a child trying to reconcile and she never changed. She played the victim. You know what they say about karma? Well....she's on the clock. I'm living my absolute best life right now. Every day I get better. I have no desire to go back to the plantation of marriage. Even say a faithful, respectful, and supportive woman came into my life......I will never subject myself to a slanted system ever again. No way in hell I'll live with h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Dating in 2021 is absurdjust not interested in trying to find a needle in a huge pile of shit You put into words exactly how I feel. | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | TodayHope all went well....update? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | (infidelity) Stop beating yourself up over their softwareYou're spot on. And to add to that he gets mentored by Chad on steroids only to cuck out in the end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceI'm fortunate where I live that most people aren't idiots....so traffic riding is fine. Going to have to venture out a bit. This last weekend went on a hour and a half ride....nothing really stood out. Got far more exploring to do! How bout you? | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceSo true! I take the long way to every errand I need to run. It has been my saving grace! | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceMy man....how'd you know? Put a new shorty on her. She's loud but she's steady and faithful :) SOURCE | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | (infidelity) Stop beating yourself up over their softwareExactly this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | (infidelity) Stop beating yourself up over their softwareSame boat my friend. Onward and upward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/21 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceThe great Patrice O'Neal has a great quote to back up what you are saying..... "A happy man is a happy relationship. A happy woman is a miserable man". All the best to you my friend! | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceI have a friend who has been divorced a little over a year. Him and his kids almost didn't know if it was okay to have peace and quiet. It used to be drama and unrest all the time. This is the absolute best! | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceOh no the government is nothing more than a crutch. If you are a male in this system you'll have to fight like hell because you know. They are oppressed /s | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceSolid advice. Thank you. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceThanks for the encouragement.....I was scared there for a bit. :) | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | It's like rain after a droughtGood for you. A word of caution.....if you give an inch relationship wise.....you can expect that to dry up pretty quick. The secret is to lead her on just enough to keep the pussy express flowing but not so much that she begins to govern that shit. This is the game unfortunately....... | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceTy sir! | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceAmen! | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceExactly the comfort of the bed is the hardest.....after a good nights rest. I feel you pain my friend :) | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceTy good sir....you as well! | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceThat bike alone gives me sanity....long rides absorbing vitamin d......hell can we marry a motorbike? I'm in love! | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceMan sounds stressful......./s | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:07 AM |
| 17 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceI kid you not....I have ran into about 10 men that came through the exact same thing I did.....wives that as soon as they got the first taste of entitlement turned pro victim and ruined it all. It's incredibly sad and pathetic that many of these women threw good marriages and families away for some dick. But....it is what it is.....it's built into their software to look for what they think is a better life...... Btw each and every one of these men I spoke about are better off than before. Every … | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts and prayers needed. Not sure if I'm going to survive post divorceLOLOLOLOL One time through the meat grinder was enough......onward and upward my friend :) | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | It's often wondered... why the cost of divorce is so great. The answer is because it's worth it. Enjoying my freedom with a fresh meal in my new place. MGTOW 4 Life fellas!Hell ya Went on a long ride myself yesterday. It's the most amazing feeling. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/21 02:36 PM |
| 7 | From /pics "my first kiss, and now, my wife." | Read the comments. Mgtow is leaking out everywhere.Don’t you mean, “first wife”? Nailed it! | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/21 04:01 AM |
| 9 | OK Sarah, you're not AWALT..The juice isn't worth the squeeze! | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 3 | One month post divorce. First full night alone at my new place. Celebratory steak for the win!Just Walmart my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | One month post divorce. First full night alone at my new place. Celebratory steak for the win!Ty. Every day I get better and better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | One month post divorce. First full night alone at my new place. Celebratory steak for the win!Ty sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 6 | One month post divorce. First full night alone at my new place. Celebratory steak for the win!Next time. Got lazy with the corn too but man it was delish 😎 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/21 01:48 AM |
| 7 | I feel the world is closing on me...I'm recently divorced......I have no desire to be with a woman. I don't mind chatting with women whatsoever....but nothing more than that. They are mostly all the same. Single moms.....kids......tattoos.......nose ring. It's pretty standard and a dead giveaway that I'm just not going to get involved. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze. I'M THE PRIZE.....and I'm completely content sitting here watching UFC with my cat beside me........I grilled a steak earlier.....went on my motorcycle.......… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 13 | Get a load of this🤢 🤢 🤢 | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 8 | Divorced people of MGTOW, what was the reason for your divorce?Exactly.....thank you. When dealing with a covert narc it's death by 1000 cuts. I survived! | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 33 | This is not bad... this is a wake up call for all men.Adapt, improvise, overcome. We always win. | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 28 | Divorced people of MGTOW, what was the reason for your divorce?She is a covert narcissist. In 21 years she never took responsibility for anything. Never apologized. The problems were all my fault. When I began to call her out each and every time she couldn't hack it. Probably because she had side dick going on. Oh well her loss. I did see her the other day....the wall is UNDEFEATED! | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Guy passes up having his own kids so he can raise someone elses. Heralded a "Hero". I'd call that a failure."hero" bleh | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 03:57 AM |
| 28 | Alas, My BrotherNone and nor should you ever think that you can rewrite the software. Feminism has juiced them to the gills. Entitlement and no accountability supported by the nanny state. Men should have nothing to do with women whatsoever. | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 03:54 AM |
| 26 | Alas, My BrotherThe juice isn't worth the squeeze. Something I've never understood is the men that check out and off themselves. Then their ex plays the victim....poor poor her....boo hoo I'd make others suffer before I ever hurt myself. Happily. | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 0 | GYOW! Bitch girlfriend turns off the WiFi HE PAYS FOR as revenge because he doesn't like her shitty cookingI would have black listed her mac address. | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 18 | Good luck out there, Justin! 🙂Well said! This dude is in for a world of PAIN! | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 6 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.You make many valid points. It's like I didn't find MGTOW....it found me. And once you see you cannot unsee. My freedom and autonomy far out weigh any companionship or warm body next to me. It takes time to rewrite the male software....but I can honestly say my life is so much better now than 21 years of misery with her. It gets better and better every day. BTW I'm sitting here half buzzed eating a steak...in the midst of just getting everything moved to my new place....and I fucking LOVE IT! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.ty sir.....onward and upward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Q for Christian Divorced Men...You can check my post history. I speak about some of that. Her parents were probably the most Godly couple I'd ever met. I assumed it would translate over to my own marriage. My ex has a religion masked as a relationship. Her "success" is equated by most as having a personal encounter with the Lord. But as we know your success in this world has nothing to do with regard to knowing the Lord and seeking Him. Obedience is the hardest thing but in the end will produce a wonderful peace as well as an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.Touche | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.Good info. The way I view your post is "the juice isn't worth the squeeze" I enjoy alone time. I don't need a female companion to enhance me. From my perspective it causes men to settle in and pack on unneeded weight. Literally and figuratively. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.Ty | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Never settle. Never live comfortably miserableMissouri. Although I'd argue counties of St Louis, Columbia, and Kansas City (progressive women) it may work differently. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 5 | Everyone thinks they know. Truth is they never think it'll happen to them.Absolutely spot on my friend. I now say that once you see it you cannot unsee it. This led to me confronting EVERYTHING she said and did or didn't do. I set out to break everything wrong. And unfortunately for her as a covert narcissist (I'd put the pieces together along the way) she was unable to empathize, apologize, or take responsibility in any shape or fashion. Truth be told she was already monkey branching in the midst of divorce. It's built into the female software. Oh well her loss. I ge… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q for Christian Divorced Men...If it wasn't for my relationship with Christ I'd be in a jail cell smiling ear to ear. Seriously, the things I've been dragged through the last 2 years have been absolutely bonkers. All the trials and hardships have driven me closer in my relationship. I'm just going to tell anyone reading this that rolls their eyes you'd be in the 99% that would have messed it all up leaning on your rationale and reasoning. Truly my relationship has given me peace and calm in the midst of chaos. Almost on a dai… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Never settle. Never live comfortably miserableAnd it was even worse than that. She told a sob story to our pastor and he sided with her. Looked down on me because I wasn't getting over her cheating. Tried to tell me that I was only coming to church to save face. I looked this fool dead in the eye and said I'm a grown man and couldn't care less about him or his church. He then told me that I just wanted my wife to be like my mother. I laughed at him. Told him he couldn't be further from wrong. My own mom wouldn't want her to be like her. Thi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Never settle. Never live comfortably miserableExactly right. Nothing worth keeping has ever came easy. It's a tough process but well worth it in the end! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Never settle. Never live comfortably miserableTy sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | The high cost of divorcemuh feelings > logic That's why she's doing it.......you can't reason with idiocy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | They cannot serve two masters (for those dealing with infidelity)So true. I've been busting my butt moving. First night alone was last night. I was too exhausted I think to really enjoy it but I'll get there ☺️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/21 01:10 AM |
| 11 | They cannot serve two masters (for those dealing with infidelity)Our sticking point was daycare. She wanted to place him with her coworkers husband or a daycare. We'd agreed I'd stay home with him. That was before the divorce began. She proceeded to file a restraining order against me with nothing to back it. FAIL. Then her and her lawyer tried to label me a mooch or deadbeat because I didn't want him in daycare until he could communicate his needs if he was bit or abused. You can't negotiate with the devil but I told her look just pay me half the daycare fee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 13 | They cannot serve two masters (for those dealing with infidelity)Ya that pick me thing is a hellofa deal. Then you add in the cheater blaming YOU for their cheating coupled with never taking any ownership. I thought I was going insane. This is what happens from a trickle truthing\gas lighting narcissist though. Some how after they do the worst thing possible to you......they sleep soundly at night. I guess it's because they cannot love or show empathy. They only mimic it. Anyway, from what I learned.....when a husband gets cheated on he goes into damage\fix i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Feel usedThank you. Ya man it's getting better and better. The best parts are really starting to kick in. I'm in business with my best friend and doing really well. I have a new motorcycle. My son will be 3 this week and three really is a fun time right now. Best of all....I'm at an age that sex isn't important. Had I been 25 instead of 45....I'm sure I woulda been chasing a bunch of tail......but the even better part is.....I am perfectly fine with being alone. I really like me. At this age there's alwa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Feel usedWhen we got married I was 23 and she was 20. When she decided to be a nurse and I went into full support mode.....I was 25 and she was 22 When she cheated.....I was 38 and she was 35. When we finalized divorce.....I was 45 and she is 42. It's so crazy that we were just kids.....we had no business being married at that age. Unfortunately, due to our beliefs and church background it's kind of hard to be together and have sex without being married. That said.....as much pain and processing I truly … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 03:51 AM |
| 2 | The church LOVES to support single mothersSingle Moms and Divorce are shunned. Ya? What about single fathers who are divorced. How's that work out for them in the church? List me the vast programs and organizations stepping up to help them. The church is exactly the problem. As for "pastors" there are few and far between. Most are cucked hirelings. All for a few shekels. Truly pathetic. | /r/MGTOW | 07/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 4 | The church LOVES to support single mothersAs of late my experience with mens groups is a bunch of pansy's whining about their marriage. They use the group as an emotional\spiritual tampon. It's gross. | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Feel usedThat's why I worded it the way I did. He'll figure it out sooner or later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Feel usedYour story is a lot like mine.....but my ex cheated. It was like once she felt empowerment to go after he dreams and I supported her she got entitled. It's built into their software. Truly evil vile selfish beings that can only think for themselves. What they don't understand if it wasn't for the support we provided they wouldn't be where they are. Honestly though....it's their loss. You need to process this.....and do it thoroughly. Don't take short cuts but also don't dwell on things too long.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Sunday Message - The church is the worst for AWALT 20's (aka ho phase) BUT it's worse than thatI am in a position now that I can red pill men. When I explain that they too are the prize and they don't have to be miserable in marriage it's like the scene in the matrix when Neo is unplugging. I used to be on the other side but being cheated on me woke a sleeping giant. One red pill at a time. How sad that red pills are stating the obvious. I've taken it a step further though. You should see the looks when I ask why the state is involved in marriage to begin with. | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm both okay and something elseI have no preconceived notions....I'm just suggesting to process everything and take your time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 05:03 AM |
| 25 | Sunday Message - The church is the worst for AWALT 20's (aka ho phase) BUT it's worse than thatNo doubt.....it's worse though because the men in the church by and large subscribe to "yes dear" and "happy wife happy life" Jesus wasn't a fucking cuck but men in the western church certainly are. | /r/MGTOW | 06/06/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | How would you renegotiate your marriage?Bro their software cannot be reprogrammed. Since the dawn of time....Eve in the garden shows you all you need to know. You cannot negotiate with software or DNA that is ingrained. My "major event" was that she cheated on me......then proceeded to play the victim. If there was anyone on the planet that had every opportunity to change it would be her. Through grace and mercy as I tried to make sense of everything. In the end she dragged me through hell......and what was I asking? A simple I'm sorr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I'm both okay and something elseIt's a marathon and not a sprint. Everyone processes differently. My only voice is to get the most out of it. If you distract and chase tail it will not be pleasant for you down the road. What I mean by that is that it's very easy to distract and slay pussy. Just use moderation. It's a drug that can be as harsh as crack. It'll leave you lost and empty. Let the process flow and best to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | After a temp pause...Divorce is back on!Damn the truth is some shit isn't it? You fucking nailed it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/21 01:29 AM |
| 10 | So stupid…It's a process. A hard and long process. The emotional ties husbands have to their wives is so strong. In my case she cheated on me. You play these weird "If only" games. For me....I wanted to leave no stone unturned. I'll just tell you that it was good and horrible. She had a boyfriend the whole time we were going through divorce. She's still with him and my 3 year old son told me the other day me, mommy, and Josh went to the zoo. All I can say in the long hard process.....is that no matter wha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Pettiness ContinuesSettle in my friend. Try to remember that there battles you will lose in order to win the war. Don't get dragged into the pettiness and things that don't matter over all. You can bet your ass the kids are next that she's going to leverage. I'd go as far to say to be prepared for the A Bomb......that is that she accuses you of molesting or sexually assaulting your children. Be prepared for the worst. I'd start getting every interaction of importance in email or text for the time stamps. If not al… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 4 | One Year LaterGood perspective. Some things come to mind as I read your post. Don't beat yourself up over the "what if's" and the "coulda's". Don't live in the rear view mirror.....only reference it while getting to your next destination The grass is greenest where you water it......not on the other side. Lastly, and something I'm grasping........women and men have built in software. What we are made up of. Other than a supernatural intervention from God or whatever you ascribe to does that begin to change. L… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | “Cold walkout” or “Ease her into it”No doubt. Your situation may work out fine. I'm just getting out so I'm a little more heightened. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | “Cold walkout” or “Ease her into it”No one should be miserable in a marriage. I don't care you if you come from faith or not.......had my wife not cheated on me I certainly would have been MISERABLE till death. Honestly, get all your ducks in a row....consult attorney's and map the best path. Get it all lined out. I know a couple same age with a little older kids (out of the house) and it was absolute war and hell once the divorce started. Everything changes once you open that door. You can expect her to go into complete victim mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/21 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Truth.....the great equalizerI hear you my friend. I had that happen a lot. The emotions are totally normal. Just gotta ride the waves that crash. Just like the ocean there seems to be one wave followed by another one. Just when you think you are good the other one sneaks up on ya. I will tell you though.....I wouldn't be the man I am today or the Father without walking through emotion and pain and anguish. Not to be religious but the popular Bible verse Psalm 23.....it's says though I WALK through the valley of death. We g… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to get through thisNot a bad idea....I'd keep everything of importance to email and text so you have a record and time stamp for it. Something I had to keep in mind with my ex was that there were going to be battles lost in order to win the war. By that I mean.....as a 10 month old she'd keep my son at her boyfriends till 12-1am on the weekends when his normal bedtime was 7pm. It was very hard but once I got it in my mind that there's just going to be some losses I cannot control I did much better. In the big pict… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to get through thisHey man....just want to drop a few lines... Hang in there man.....remember that it will come to an end....and more than anything you are giving it your best. Despite what she or others think or say. Be true to you. My ex tried every tactic imaginable. As a newborn she wanted him to be with her co workers husband rather than me. (I was stay at home parent). Bro you're going to need to get mentally tough in this battle. How do you deal with this you ask? It's a lot of soul searching. I use my phon… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Truth.....the great equalizerYa she did all that and more. A complete nightmare. Until I figured out how to deal with the narcissism. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Truth.....the great equalizerSTD's Most women are crazy. Don't stick your dick in crazy At my age I think with my big head not the little one. Sex isn't important. Last and most importantly.....my wife will be pumped and dumped the rest of her life. Now days modern life is empty and shallow. That's not the example I'll be having for my son. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Truth.....the great equalizerIn my case being the respondent worked out because any bullshit she'd pull I'd just adjust accordingly. What a mess with lawyers and the court system. But damn it I won! Leverage and making correct choices. Some even in the 11th hour kept her from her plans of not having my son. Evil vile snakes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Truth.....the great equalizerNailed it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Truth.....the great equalizerWe reached and agreement. 20 months it took of battling it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Mediation in couple hoursGo in with a plan. Stick to the plan. Don't let them try to belittle or talk down to you. The mediator will most certainly try to take her side. Stand up for what you believe in. They will try to twist things and expect your wife to bring tears and want sympathy. STAND YOUR GROUND! By this....use leverage where needed and stick to it. If they are able to counter your leverage circle back to this later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 11:17 AM |
| 12 | Truth.....the great equalizerMy mother lost my brother to suicide and I asked her about this. She told me it never goes away and she thinks about him just about every day. She said she learned to just put it on a shelf. From time to time she takes it off and processes things and then puts it back. I truly believe when you get cheated on.....you just learn to put it on a shelf and do the same thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 10:16 AM |
| 2 | What it's like to be a woman.Nailed it! | /r/MGTOW | 01/06/21 10:01 AM |
| 12 | Truth.....the great equalizerI don't think so.......I don't have first hand experience but it's on the same level as losing a child or a spouse. In fact, in my studies the three most traumatic things in a marriage are....in no order.... Loss of a spouse Loss of a child Infidelity I think it will always stick with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/21 09:55 AM |
| 7 | What I've learned from this sub so farOr remarried. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 6 | What I've learned from this sub so farThey don't want to accept responsibility nor do they want to be held accountable in order to rebuild trust. It's all about "me" in their mind. It's built into their software. I'm just glad my stuff is over. We co parent fine which is a bonus but she's clueless on life. Oh well, her loss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What I've learned from this sub so farThat movie was sobering. Just think it was made in 2014 and was a 50 billion dollar industry. Imagine 2021? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 14 | What I've learned from this sub so farOh ya.....she told me "she didn't feel loved"........then she tried to tell me that the two times she met with this dude in a hotel for 2\3 days they never had sex......ROFL! Dude flew in from 2000 miles away but ya they just cuddled. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned from this sub so farOh ya....I just stick to bullet points with my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 7 | What I've learned from this sub so farThat's exactly their plan. Remember it's not about winning. It's about control. All the while she will project upon you that you are dragging it out. It's a sick game. My ex had a boyfriend on the side as we went through all our stuff. She thought she was so slick trying to hide it from me. She left her burner phone once.....and then I found out where she was staying with our 1 year old at the time on the weekends. Narcs are horrible horrible evil vile snakes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 02:59 PM |
| 4 | What it's like to be a woman.I get your analogy but the dopamine and serotonin levels these females get from men in these apps are no comparison. I've seen at least six or seven 10-20 year marriages go down the drain because of this. These women have had anywhere from 1-5 kids and have threw it all away for some attention and being railed. And guess what? In the end they were left with nothing. They still don't get it either. They blame everyone but themselves. At least you have an income and a job and always will. Most of … | /r/MGTOW | 31/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Am I doing too much?This is the way! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Acknowledging The Pain - How?All the best to you friend. One channel that helped me A LOT was hammer hand. He's been doing recently short videos which are good.....but he has older content that just help you understand your thoughts and struggle in this process is not you alone. Check him out.....this man helped me so much in my 20 month divorce and wife cheating on me. He's a good dude. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWN-1_2dsUKTdAnKK3jl5DQ/videos?view=0&sort=da&flow=grid One of my faves! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Acknowledging The Pain - How?It's called projection. She's shining onto you what is coming from her. Bro you're going to need to get mentally tough in this battle. How do you deal with this you ask? It's a lot of soul searching. I use my phone note pad and write things as they come to me. For instance my ex used to tell me that I sat on my ass and never did anything. I wrote out over 150 things from day to day that I did around the house daily weekly monthly etc. When I saw she was a liar it helped me know that I wasn't wha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | You might have been comfortably miserable if......Oh I hear ya. My ex was staying at her boyfriends (she didn't think I know about him or the address) and was keeping our 10 month old out till 12-1am....when his bedtime was 7pm. "As long as he gets sleep it doesn't matter when he goes to bed" One of the hardest things was having my son call me the boyfriends name and know star wars characters when I had yet to introduce him to them (the boyfriend). It was pure hell.....but I made it :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Undelivered letter to STBXW:yw | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Undelivered letter to STBXW:Get it out man and continue to use this sub to vent and ask questions. I wouldn't give her this letter.......it was more for you. A suggestion is to give her nothing but bullet points. No emotion and no excuses. Make your moves and don't look back. Trust me when I tell you the less explaining and emotion the better. She will only play on your emotions and reasons and belittle you. Move forward with your head held high. All the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | You might have been comfortably miserable if......Hang in there man.....remember that it will come to an end....and more than anything you are giving it your best. Despite what she or others think or say. Be true to you. My ex tried every tactic imaginable. As a newborn she wanted him to be with her co workers husband rather than me. (I was stay at home parent). Buckle in and don't be a stranger! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | What if?Divorce in 2014 was a 50 BILLION DOLLAR business.....imagine what it is in 2021. There are far too many lawyers and judges benefiting off the slave wages of men to make any kind of change. Hate to burst your bubble but money trumps all. No one is changing that. | /r/MGTOW | 29/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "How long have you been married?"I certainly didn't come out bad....other than her cheating on me and then playing the victim. That alone is hard stuff and yet not uncommon from what I read here. I try to keep perspective that it could have been a lot worse. That said, the 20 month divorce until we reach a settlement was pure hell.....her running around with boyfriends. My 2 year old calling me their names........her trying to use my son against me. It was probably the hardest 2 years of my life but I FUCKING MADE IT! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | "How long have you been married?"Another good one! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | "How long have you been married?"I like that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/21 04:25 PM |
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