Once you leave the futon you NEVER go back to it. It's kinda like an old job you cut your teeth on.

 

Why would you ever go back to being comfortably miserable or anything remotely close? Simple answer is.....you don't....or shouldn't.

 

Every day.....I come and go as I please. I do what I want. I have a list of things I want to accomplish personally and business. There's no pressure no stress. I don't walk around nagging myself about what needs to be done. Shit just gets done. It's a modern day miracle. /s

In my past marriage of 20 years it was always bitching and moaning. Never happy. Never grateful.....never content about anything. Ever. Seems pretty status quo from what I see around here.

 

I've tried reaching out to other females.....however, when you're in your mid 40s with a 3 year old with little to no baggage it's a complete shit show. I don't have time for women that hit the wall that can't hide from their problems any longer because their children are raised and their marriage failed. I just don't care nor want to pretend to care.

Single women at this age are few and far between. Meaning, that have their shit together and take ownership or responsibility for anything. Probably why they are single at this age. Within the first 10 minutes of interaction it's really easy to see. Also....most of them have older kids....so it's just not a good fit all the way around.

And that's just it. It's fine. I don't need a woman to complete me. I enjoy the peace and quiet. Waking up with no care other than the well being of my 3 year old and myself. It's really pleasant.

I like coming home to my extra comfortable king sized bed. No one to take the covers. I recently picked up an oversized plush blanket that is super comfortable and warm. (perfect timing for the cooler weather)

Food isn't an issue on the off weeks I don't have my son.....I'm pretty easy to please. OR....I simply don't eat till morning.

 

While divorce was hell......an absolute war of attrition......I am the best version of myself and getting better daily. Still got plenty of things to work on.

Oh on a side note....I finally fixed my dining room chair leg that was broken. It's stronger than ever. Symbolic.

Oh and I did it on my time and without stress or pressure.

 

Hang in there fellas....life truly does get better. Just take your time.

All the best! Cheers!