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Jonger1150/r/MGTOW01/10/20 01:27 AM
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Jonger1150/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 01:57 PM
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3

So she cheated because she wants to screw more than you do?
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 01:20 AM
2

Run
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/25 01:37 PM
13

They have an unrealistic vision of what marriage is like. Most of life is boring and repetitive, we men tend to expect this.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/25 12:03 AM
5

I can perfectly picture this
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 04:58 AM
5

Sounds like chaos.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 12:48 PM
1

Are you in a place that has faulted divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 05:29 PM
3

Any woman who makes fish lips for a selfie
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 08:32 PM
11

Headline scared me.... turned out to be positive.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 08:21 PM
7

I had to read tons of men suggest avoiding women during the divorce. The most pain i felt was sitting around at home by myself. That's terrible advice. Get out there!
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 01:05 PM
6

She's even on Reddit looking for Ozempic so she can look better for the next guy. Check her post history.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 01:23 PM
1

My post divorce woman has had a boob job, tummy tuck and Ozempic.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 10:27 PM
-3

Ozempic. If that's her only drawback, maybe figure out a way to get moving on that.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 10:09 PM
2

Yuck.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 02:35 PM
8

Polyamorous? LOL
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 06:49 PM
3

Everyone else has a better relationship according to women. Spoiler alert -- they don't and likely are trailing just behind you in the divorce timing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 04:51 PM
9

It's amazing how much nicer they can be when they hold no financial cards. Prenup guys!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 04:48 PM
1

You might find someone, but probably not. Most people use dating apps and aren't single long unless they're undesirable. You may find someone in the wild, but now days it's unlikely.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 10:20 PM
3

Exactly. Just sitting around waiting some arbitrary amount of time is pointless. Unless you just want to be alone, which is fine.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 10:18 PM
0

My ex-wife gets waxed regularly now. They always step it up after divorce. Although she has gained like 50 lbs so I guess it's not a one sized fits all approach.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 06:56 PM
1

I would focus on the boy and just move on from her. He didn't ask to be born or get cancer, he gets top priority.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 06:53 PM
48

She weighed 115 lbs?
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:04 PM
3

Doesn't seem out of reach to get back together. Won't be easy, but there might be a path.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 06:10 PM
9

The holidays can be a nightmare with a difficult woman. I used to be thrilled when mother's day was done with.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 12:37 AM
5

Room for rent?
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 01:55 AM
7

Hey, we're here to talk. You're not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 06:09 PM
6

Ozempic online prescription is her best bet. Women are biologically built to be fat. Very few actually lose weight and keep it off.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 02:08 PM
16

Let her be with John. File for divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 11:49 AM
0

Do it
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 11:54 PM
10

Easy way to tell her. "Hey, you're clearly not in love with me and you stepped outside the marriage, I'm filing for divorce"
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 02:05 PM
1

Scot-free.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 12:51 PM
2

Older kids don't give a shit.... but young ones will be confused and emotionally damaged.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 08:35 PM
3

She sounds like chaos
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 02:18 PM
7

People chasing that new connection dopamine.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 03:01 PM
4

Not telling someone you were previously married is very odd.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:44 PM
1

There's real danger in tainting the kids' view of dad. I'd talk to the kids and then talk to her. Let them know the kids know that they have access, but she shouldn't enter the house without permission.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 09:34 PM
2

The "physically in better health" was the giveaway.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 01:36 AM
7

She got fat didn't she?
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 01:01 AM
9

New dick
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 07:34 PM
1

Prenup?
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 11:45 AM
4

My ex-wife got into BDSM with nude pictures online. I was able to recover, you guys can too.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 02:22 AM
7

Not sure when your ex and you got together, but online dating makes it possible for almost any woman to have more sex than Woodstock 1969 these days.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 12:22 AM
2

Uhg. BDSM. Look through my post history on this one. Sorry
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 02:02 AM
2

Most of those other relationships you see on social media are bad. Most relationships are bad.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 11:50 AM
1

Don't give her a heads up on the phone search. Spring in on her at like 1am when you're generally sleeping. Wake her up and have the phone opened with you watching.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 12:55 AM
5

Treat every relationship with care and uphold your side, but remember that life is fleeting and you're going through it alone.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 09:20 AM
4

Hahaha no. Hell no.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 08:41 PM
3

It's never good when they make more than you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 12:22 PM
8

So her dopamine is already wearing off from the new AP. Be glad you're getting out before you're too old.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 09:17 PM
6

This is key. Women will claim they're above being shallow, but they're human and driven by instincts. I found it easier to date at 41 than 21. I got in amazing shape once I knew my marriage was falling apart and it was like shooting fish in a barrel. I'm 6' 5", but not fat like most people my age were. As much as it sucks to acknowledge, looks matter a lot. I have a loyal loving woman now that does all the little things my ex-wife hated. I leveled up in life big time. Get in shape!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 04:53 PM
6

Men and women screw each other. It's just not a dynamic that works for most people.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 02:26 PM
10

$400K?? She's in for a real eye opener
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 06:55 PM
8

Yup. There no time limit for this.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 06:16 PM
3

Sounds like my life.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 09:05 PM
3

Lol, I actually got downvoted.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 03:13 AM
0

Sex is easy to find unless you're ugly. I'm serious.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 02:40 AM
1

The affair partner doing chores?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 01:24 AM
3

ah, new dick.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 08:52 PM
1

Wow, what caused the divorce? Why is she so angry?
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 05:18 PM
-4

Yup
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 08:33 AM
3

He's available because someone divorced him too. He wasn't good enough for Angelina.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 07:22 PM
0

Women can be so vindictive
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 05:51 PM
2

Women have so many options when dating, although very few men actually commit to them.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 03:11 PM
3

Imagine a man mentioning to a woman how he wants her to earn the same as he does and leaving.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 01:44 PM
1

Some people's lives are completely controlled by their sex drive. RIP to the marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 02:36 AM
2

I changed my ex-wifes phone number. She had the phone for 20 years.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 01:31 AM
1

You're single aren't you? Lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 09:55 AM
1

I stopped reading at 18 years younger. Unless you have money, that's a tough one to pull off. My woman is going in next month for a boob job and tummy tuck. I'm 44 and she's 42. I couldn't imagine being with a 26 year old right now, I have to surgically upgrade that bod. Lol This woman is ultra loyal.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 02:19 AM
2

Is there zero chance you could get with another like that?
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 02:22 AM
2

You're feeling are all over the board. You hate her, but love her? She's super hot isn't she? Lust
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 01:56 AM
1

TRT might help you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 01:53 AM
6

They have a biological instinct to quietly hide their decision to move on and will begin transitioning their out-route before you even know there's an issue.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 11:41 PM
4

Yea, I had to see pics of my ex-wife covered in melted wax and her ass beaten red. It can't get worse than that. You'll survive.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 10:58 PM
7

I look at the world much more cynically, and that helped me heal from a bad marriage. I had to watch my ex-wife go to an alternative sex lifestyle website and fuck random men. Nude pics and all her interests posted for the world to see. You'll get over it. I almost forgot what it was like being with her 3 years later.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 10:36 PM
4

Did you kick the friend's ass?
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 10:30 PM
13

Honestly, what is love? I think it's a lot of lust, followed by overall comfort level.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 07:44 PM
3

100%
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 03:27 AM
3

Funny
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 06:54 PM
3

They just swipe without even looking. I accidently "super liked" a very basic looking 6 online once and she pestered me for weeks. I'm 6' 5' and traditionally attractive. If I swiped right 50 times, I got 20 matches.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 07:42 PM
11

The new dick fun will last about 3 months. The first fights usually come around month 4. Month 6 she's be reactivating her profiles online.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 07:41 PM
8

Yup. I'll admit it myself, when I wanted to replace my ex-wife -- I worked out and improved myself. My girlfriend lost weight just before divorcing her ex-husband 15 year ago and her boyfriend of 8 years back in May 2020 (you can follow that on her FB page photos). It's basically how everyone operates that moves forward with splitting, you just see it more with women since they usually pull the trigger on separations.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 07:09 PM
12

The bonding hormones that humans have when opposite sexes are pairing is better than any drug on the market. Several million years of evolution made this possible. You can't replicate that bonding again. She's a dunce and a slave to her hormones and programming. She lose weight recently? There are signs if you look for them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 06:09 PM
6

She's gone.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 06:04 PM
1

Head full of hair does matter with under 30s. Over 30s, they prefer shaved heads. Again, under 30.... you better have hair.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 04:48 PM
1

The first 2 weeks of meeting someone is the best anyhow. That's when the dopamine is doing its thing.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 06:32 PM
8

There is a reddit forum devoted to finding affair partners. Let me correct that. There's a forum with 100 men to every 5 women trying to find an affair partner.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 06:25 PM
3

The same old pussy gets boring after about a year or less. She's probably on borrowed time as it is. There has to be more to a person than a warm-hole for any kind of relationship longevity.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 06:20 PM
3

He already mentioned this guy is a piece of shit. A guy with options doesn't waste his time with a married woman.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 01:07 AM
3

They're good at it, since the men they're cheating with often just want sex and won't ruin a good thing. Men cheat, the woman catches feelings and tips off the woman when he won't leave his spouse. Game over. So, yea.... women are better at it because they can easily find men willing to keep the secret.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:49 PM
1

What led to the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 11:37 PM
2

All Women are nuts
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 07:47 PM
1

I don't want that though. She's a good person, I'd lose all faith in relationships if that happened. Would probably just date and stay out of anything serious.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 02:34 PM
1

It's always possible. If she wants to leave me for greener pastures, be my guest. I'll have a better looking woman by the next weekend. I would be pretty broken up over it.... one of those situations where you lose all hope in this life and turn cold or colder than I already am. I see the world very clinically as it is.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 02:16 PM
1

We're not married, she could leave and I'd be upset because I love her -- but financially I'd probably be even better off. She's not the type. She has a lot of loose skin on her tummy from childbirth and being bigger previously. I hate saying it, but from a physical standpoint she isn't on my level. (Again, I HATE SAYING IT). I'm 6' 5'' muscular/big with all the chad-like features a guy could want for 44 years old. Our biggest issue is that I'm very low on emotions and that's an issue for her. I…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 02:00 PM
1

I'm happy with my $30k a year waitress. She cooks, cleans, takes care of herself, and I don't have to constantly worry about her leaving. She's getting a tummy tuck and boob job in 6 weeks though. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 01:22 PM
2

A higher income wife ends up divorcing about 80% of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 11:12 AM
1

Hey OP. My ex-wife was on a BDSM hookup site, and I found her profile based on just enough info to know where to look. Nude pics and all her kinks were listed. Anal, threesomes, leash play......etc. Guess what? I don't give a shit today. It gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 12:06 AM
1

Bro Been there, done that. It gets way better.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 09:20 PM
7

She'll die one day.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 03:23 PM
3

She made this call 6 months ago and probably had friends and family reinforcing the decision without anyone playing devils advocate or thought processes men usually subject each other to.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 09:55 PM
1

Aren't all women kind of like this?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 03:31 PM
2

Hopefully, the affair partner gets stage 4 cancer.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 10:46 PM
12

Every guy has heard it. Every guy.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 09:19 PM
11

Women can rack up HUGE tallies. Way more than men. I know a decently attractive 27 year old that has a body count over 250. Imagine how much time investment and dinners a guy would need to pay for to fund 250 chicks. A fuck ton. This girl doesn't even have a job half the time.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 09:13 PM
2

Exactly. I don't think most people grasp what the purpose of "abandonment" claims can be used for. Living 50 feet from the house in a camper shows a strong effort to maintain residence at the same address. Ask a lawyer, but I suspect he/she will agree with me. You just want to have a game plan for family services.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 02:53 PM
5

We all go through our halfway-house (apartment) stage. I couldn't play music or movies as loud as I'd like and I hated that. Now I have a house with 4000 sqft of livable area on an acre. I can crank it as loud as I want.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 04:46 PM
2

I was mainly joking. Kids are priority #1 for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 07:36 PM
7

New pussy on the way. Look at it positively.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 06:44 PM
3

Unless on an app, my either. I'm 6' 5" and in amazing shape. You have to hit up apps or else you're never getting squat.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 01:23 PM
1

Get on cymbalta and get that libido controlled. People mock me for saying this, but....damn, this shit will give you power and control over primitive urges like none other. You should come clean and divorce, you're wasting another person's life on a lie.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 08:53 PM
26

Long Covid is the new fibromyalgia.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 11:01 PM
3

You weren't soul-mates. You were just chemically bonded to her. The hot ones are often tempted to upgrade many many many more times than you would imagine.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 01:36 AM
2

Never marry your first
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 12:46 AM
1

Yikes, that's entirely possible.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 10:07 PM
2

Women can cheat much easier too. Guys will stay quiet if it means they keep access to that pussy. They'll keep the deal in place. Women rarely want that arrangement and will blow your life up the first time you piss them off. I told my girlfriend that if she wanted to go full ho-mode.... she could bang 100 guys this weekend. I could probably nail 3 fat chicks. The quality women are obtainable, but I'd leave a warpath of destruction trying to do it on the downlow.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 10:01 PM
10

And you know she fucked that co-worker.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 02:38 PM
2

Women are woke, politically men and women are far apart these days. Mine is 5' 11" and needs a tummy tuck and boob job. I'd rather spend the money instead of dealing with a turnstile of narcissists.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 05:12 PM
11

It's amazing how many men end up being divorced while loving their ex. Women seem to never deal with this. My ex was extremely nasty to me during the marriage. I'm in a better place now.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 04:51 PM
1

No matter who files, the lawyer representing the man is essentially a defendant. The female side is the prosecution.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:54 PM
4

She was most likely in a self-improvement mindset when divorce was considered. Anyhow, she sounds awful. I wasn't saying SHE was plump, just that other women are. If you want to know what another body is like, you'll be for a surprise after finding out that obese and thiccer women are almost the only women out there. Thin attractive women might match with you when online dating, but they often end up ghosting you. There's 500 men all competing for each "in-shape" woman. I decided a traditional w…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 02:40 PM
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If a more plump woman is something you often wonder about, you'll have no problem finding that in 2023. The in-shape ones are quite rare these days. My girlfriend would go 20x a week if I felt up to it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 11:08 AM
24

Any guy that gets with a married woman is a loser. A no option loser.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 06:26 PM
5

My ex-wife hasn't had a tremendous amount of luck either.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 05:21 PM
8

What the fuck
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 04:53 PM
7

Is he a below average dude with zero options?
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 04:50 PM
7

They'll be divorced within 3 years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 05:18 AM
2

Let someone else deal with her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 02:11 AM
1

Oh?
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 04:07 PM
11

I don't think a person can fall in love like they do the first time or two. And your mind knows you aren't seeking a mate to reproduce with. You're simply looking for a partner you look forward to seeing. Sex gets boring with the same person quickly, so don't hang too much on that pursuit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 09:49 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 09:38 PM
1

Why does your ex feel she needs a cause for divorce. Is there really a state or jurisdiction that requires "cause"?
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 03:43 PM
1

There are a lot of women who will do that. Just make sure she doesn't overvalue herself or you'll end up right back here again.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 12:58 AM
16

The hot ones generally aren't worth the trouble.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 02:57 PM
3

This vacation shouldn't happen.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 05:46 AM
4

I got divorced because my ex-wife was extremely mean and short-fused. I was looking forward to a better sex life, but then my SSRI usage caught up with me and virtually took all my drive away. I have been with a woman who got upset at first, but now she gets it. Just rough timing.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 05:32 PM
5

So the prospective male replacement fell through.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:17 PM
18

Love is a chemical. Men know this, women pretend it's not true and keep looking for a guy who doesn't exist.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:12 PM
29

I never dated a single woman who wasn't the one who filed.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:11 PM
4

Take comfort in the fact that you don't have to waste another moment of your life with a trashy human. She's not unique or special.....she's just another human.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:28 AM
1

Fine a new chick
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 07:58 PM
10

I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a pregnant woman who I wasn't the father of the child. What a mess.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 01:39 PM
1

You're into BDSM aren't you?
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 01:16 PM
8

You'll get a better quality woman if you wait till it's final. A lot of women won't touch a separated man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 06:49 PM
2

She mourned the end of the relationship about a year ago. You're where she was back last summer. There's no reeling them back in, she's done.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 06:46 PM
20

Never marry (if you insist on it) above your league you'll pay for it with attitude and entitlement. Income or looks, if she's got you beat in either -- you'll wish for death.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 11:00 PM
13

If I post anything outside of a conservative subreddit or male space, I'll get downvoted.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 02:57 AM
1

The first clue is.... "the gym". That's her self-improvement phase.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 06:47 PM
2

Has she been working out at all in the last few months?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 02:24 PM
9

My ex made more during divorce, I make more now. No alimony or CS. Some of these stories I read here where the guy divorces a SAHM -- make me wince.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 07:16 PM
16

I got yelled at every time I took a shit. Anything else needed or do you guys get the picture?
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 04:57 PM
2

I really feel for some of you guys. Divorcing a spouse who makes less money than you do and with kids -- nightmare fuel. I got so lucky that I was able to wait till after the divorce to crank up my earnings. Zero alimony and zero child support. The OP is basically going to spend 11 years sharing a place with a friend or his parents basement. You have my sympathy my man. Sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 02:44 PM
8

It's much easier for women to get sex, but relationships are easier for men. You might not get many matches, but don't be surprised if you get a long term relationship before her.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 12:20 AM
1

Old high school Facebook friends are typically even worse.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 02:43 PM
5

True. Stay on top of things and your bed will never be empty.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 10:45 PM
2

With how many fat chicks are out there, the main differentiator between a 9 and a 6 is how fat they are. There's no many sub 6s with obesity being as bad as it is, we're all fighting over the thin women. They know this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 10:41 PM
7

She will be battling another man in court someday. We'll be in this forum talking him down from a ledge. Bank on it. I swore I wouldn't mess with a career woman. I'm with a waitress and my life is so much easier.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 10:05 PM
10

Attractive women have massive rosters to pick through. It's way too much work trying to snag the best looking women using online dating, you are competing with so many men.... they will ghost or always have something come up. Go for 7s.... 8+ and it's more hassle than it's worth. For my age (44) I'm probably an 8+. I'm 6' 5" and athletic with 6 figs+. The best looking women are a pain in the fucking ass.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 09:49 PM
4

Men and women can't be friends. We fuck, that's all we do.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 08:44 PM
1

I understand that. I was detailed about my situation in order to make sure to separate my experience from guys who are given an unexpected shocking end to their marriage. Those guy need time to heal and should NOT be dating or fucking around with women for a long while.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 08:57 PM
1

It really varies person to person and how and why the marriage ended. I began the divorce process in Sept 2020 and I couldn't give a shit about that part of my life now. I have 50/50 custody, I pay no alimony or child support and I have a new girlfriend. My life barely missed a beat. The woman I'm with now treats me like a king. She knows that the relationship could end and I'd survive. I don't have strong emotions and that probably helps. If I was in love with the ex-wife and thought my world w…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 08:23 PM
7

A woman is a woman. That's the peril and it exists whether you wait 1 day after the divorce or 20 years to date.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 04:03 PM
10

I think "rebounds" are just people you wouldn't consider for long term and fill a spot for a moment or two. If you really like this woman, it could turn into much more.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 01:07 PM
4

Women generally have an unrealistic expectation for partnership. This is why divorce rates are so high and almost always the woman who files.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 08:23 PM
6

I'm sitting on my couch alone right now, while my 12 year old didn't want to go to mom's. I feel it too.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 02:04 AM
3

It's a weird situation, because it's a new situation. 99% of human history, the only pics you had were in your head, memories. Now, we have high resolution images of those memories to taunt us with. I'd just delete what you don't want to see. You'll soon forget what you even deleted. When you're ready, meet someone new and form new memories.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 01:53 PM
2

Open marriage is just an awkward speedbump before inevitability. Get into shape. I did and I found a woman with very little effort online. I'm 6' 5'' so that probably helped, but I was about the same age.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 10:03 PM
2

$6k is half your take-home. That's painful AF.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 12:42 PM
3

A gym membership is roughly $25 a month. This is the foundation of making you a better man going forward. 52? I did all this at 41. I had kids on my side. I'm doing great, new GF (who treats me like a king) and a better house than I had before. Life is an incredibly rare gift, everything you did previously doesn't matter. Start over, who cares..... it's all what you make of things from here on out.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 04:12 PM
4

When they have the looks, they know that they can slack in other departments. Often the best looking women are the worst partners.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 05:37 PM
2

Never being married at 40 is a red flag.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 11:21 PM
9

If she's attractive, she knows that finding a guy willing to match her drive will be easy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 05:16 PM
2

You'll survive. And it does get better. You now get to experience the flutters of a new woman at some point if you feel up to it. Sadly, that's the best part of any connection to the opposite sex.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 11:17 PM
2

You'll survive. And it does get better. You now get to experience the flutters of a new woman at some point if you feel up to it. Sadly, that's the best part of any connection to the opposite sex.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 11:17 PM
1

My ex-wife has a profile on Fetlife-com. I found the profile and pics of her on it. While I was the one who initiated the divorce, we had a policy of no opposite sex "friends" in the marital home, it was for sale within 6 weeks of the divorce. I went into her bedside table to get a vape pen and found a used condom wrapper. She went to bang some dude and brought the thing back in her purse allegedly.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 06:30 PM
2

I wouldn't be shocked to find a study uncovering a conclusion that women lie twice as much as men or more
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 01:44 AM
2

My ex was exactly the same way
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 01:43 AM
2

You need to get this is court ASAP so you can move out. I can't imagine the stress of living with my ex that's actively dating.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 01:25 PM
1

I guess so. You did kind of prove how that could be problematic. I'd just move on with the divorce. You have no kids and you clearly want to mess around with other females. Take the deal and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 03:03 PM
0

Who goes to the bar without your wife when married?
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 09:18 AM
4

When you date someone, you're seeing them at their best.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/23 06:55 PM
1

Office work is for women
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:11 PM
2

Sounds like my life 3 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 06:21 PM
19

Yup, women generally look for a landing spot before ending a relationship. Men generally look forward to that period of solitude.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 07:02 PM
3

Drain her. You get one life and she wasted your chance at an ideal life with your child.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 01:12 AM
1

A lot of men try to reconcile, because we realize how short life is and how many years we will lose with our kids. A bad custody outcome for a mother is 50-50. That's a loss for her. That's a best case win for us.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 09:07 PM
2

My story is much less interesting. Monday through Thursday zero exposure at work with females, Friday & Saturday myself and at least 1 wingman would hit the clubs looking for numbers. Sometimes I got one, other times I got nothing. Rinse and repeat. Online dating, put a profile up and got 20 real likes in 2 days. Weed em out and setup dates. I actually divorced my ex knowing that option now existed and I could find someone that really wanted to be with me and didn't treat me like shit.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 05:56 PM
1

They probably moderate on reddit too.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:52 PM
1

How did you date 100 women pre-OLD???? Were you spending a ton of weekends at the bar? I always thought dating post-OLD was much easier. I'm 6' 5" and in shape, with a good job. 100?? I always struggled getting dates pre-OLD years. That's how I ended up with my ex....lack of options. Took me about 7 different women in the OLD world to find someone good. I could list what I wanted and didn't waste time with rando encounters in the wild.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 01:49 PM
3

It probably depends on the circumstances. I'm less than 3 years out from splitting from my ex of 20 years. I don't think about her much at all and I'm happy with my new girlfriend.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/23 01:44 PM
1

My SSRI usage resulted in a major decline in sex drive. Wow, what a fucking gift that really is. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 10:26 AM
5

Her #1 draft choice didn't work out, so you're the backup option.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 03:50 PM
1

Holy fuck. Those life options men simply don't have.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 02:18 PM
27

Marrying a 3rd world woman (captain save a ho) never works out.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 02:30 AM
1

Rat out the guy. Do it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 05:57 PM
12

Fuck, you nailed it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 05:11 PM
2

So if you have a kid and 1 year later you spouse cheats on you, should he wait 17 years to remarry?
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/23 11:34 AM
6

My ex-wife can't just fuck men on Tinder, she has to "life a lifestyle" centered around being a freak. Lifestyle = new interest.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:58 PM
6

She wants better men right swiping her profile.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:48 PM
8

So I win?
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:46 PM
11

My ex-wife has a profile on Fetlife.com. She shares a boyfriend with another woman.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 06:44 PM
3

Sex with the same person gets boring anyhow. If that's all you got, get a move on.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 03:09 AM
5

Don't do it. You can recover from this. Heck, even find a new woman who will be even better. Don't miss out because of someone who didn't want you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 08:30 PM
-3

Women can only get pregnant once every 9 months. I also believe women subconsciously assess a man's earning potential based on his height, looks and dress. They're looking for financial security.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 05:47 PM
-7

Men have zero biological reason to be selective. An ugly chick and a hot chick can both give birth to our children. The mother of my children is pretty average. My daughter is beautiful because of me. ;)
/r/MensRights21/02/23 04:47 PM
1

She was or is polyamorous. So, that would be a yes.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 05:15 AM
3

I met a good woman (not perfect) and am happy, but she dealt with a lot of bullshit because my ex-wife's unexpectedly shocking sexual lifestyle during the first year of our relationship and it tested us. I needed time to stomach that and doing it alone would have been better. Although sitting around for an arbitrary amount of time after the separation would also seem pointless.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 12:41 AM
1

Women can cheat much much more effectively too. Finding a guy that's only interested in a warm hole is simple, unlike women who will almost certainly catch feelings and blow things up at home. You have to REALLY trust a woman, because they can cheat and get away with it much easier.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 06:25 PM
13

Be friends while she has a new guy. Are they really that naive?
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 02:37 PM
9

The regular forum will ban men for being men. So here we are.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 09:13 PM
1

It's just child.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 03:05 PM
2

You won't care a year from now or less. Trust us.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 02:17 AM
3

Very few people use Whatsapp in the U.S. -- you're unlikely to find a woman from Tinder using Whatsapp in the U.S. If you do, it's probably some dude from India that doesn't know it's a red flag.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 01:18 AM
8

The minute "whatsapp" is brought into any conversation in the U.S -- it's 100% a scam.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 05:52 PM
1

Get out of that nightmare.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 02:07 AM
5

Damn, I went through all of this too. You're not alone bud
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 07:25 PM
-2

She looks good, but like Adele, she changed.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:01 AM
2

Seriously, what's the deal with it? How do you get anything out of that?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 11:51 PM
2

You nasty. Looks like you're pro-adultery too.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 02:45 PM
2

Just clicked your profile You're into cuckhold and other BDSM weird shit. I can see why this upset you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 02:37 PM
28

Looks my Mrs. Body Positivity lost some weight.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 02:02 PM
21

My ex-wife met her polyamorous boyfriend on Fetlife.com and told me he was going to be involved in our children's life. My lawyer told me that my case was weak. I threatened to beat the living shit out of him and it worked. He's kept away from them. I'm big, he's not. I tried the law and got nowhere. You won't get anywhere.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 05:03 PM
7

There's no award for staying miserable.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 05:00 PM
3

This battle goes on across the country every day.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 01:47 AM
1

Exactly. Shave that shit. Hair is for women and small kids. Men are shaved with a beard.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 01:10 AM
1

Women don't receive proper advice from their friends, they're supported and ideas they have about divorcing are reinforced. Guys will give each other proper advice and often are told to just stick with the woman and try to work it out, women don't support each other this way.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 11:40 PM
6

Joe Rogan or do you mean Dana White?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:39 PM
1

So I was right.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 10:33 PM
1

Because punching up jokes take little bravery.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:06 AM
3

"Female friend" Men and women aren't friends, we're potential fucks.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:14 PM
2

TRT
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 11:51 PM
4

Who's removing the trash?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 12:40 AM
3

You'll get very little aid or comfort from other men here. This is universally wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 01:54 AM
2

Same. July 2021 ended mine.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 12:12 AM
5

Being the weaker sex, defending women is seen as helping the helpless and insulting men is punching up.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 08:46 PM
1

You can almost certainly chalk this up to online dating. I'm sure he had numerous profiles.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 03:15 AM
1

My ex-wife made the same as I did. Total cakewalk. The horror stories here are those who made more than the STBXW. That's when the fun begins!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 03:32 PM
1

Make the same money as your STBWX and have little assets or debt = easy divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 03:30 PM
5

My ex didn't initiate it, but she made my life hell day in and day out with her attitude. It was clear she hated me. She broke the family up by driving me away. She cheated on me before we got married, I took her back and she took it for granted almost immediately with her attitude.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:51 PM
2

Because they never shut down their profiles. Always looking for an upgrade the moment things seem like that perfect.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:17 AM
2

Not looking for friends here eh?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 02:52 AM
1

Articles need a new component or problem in order to get published, that's the issue. Male firearm studies are already numerous. It's just an attempt to shine light on something new even if it's not really a significant problem. Publishers eat it up none the less.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:01 PM
1

It's an affair. File and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 10:09 PM
2

Every woman says that when they want to end things. It's SOP. I ended mine thankfully
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 08:01 PM
0

Why o why would a guy mess around with a non working partner? Was she that hot?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 07:20 PM
3

I wonder if the strange dick was worth it in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 10:34 PM
2

She's mad as fuck
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 04:55 PM
3

Some states are really weird. The 1 year wait states topping the list.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 02:12 PM
1

Lawyers would lobby to prevent that. The best and more simply move would be compulsory prenups.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 08:46 PM
2

Prenuptial agreements should be required by law, not something asked for by one of the two soon to be married.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:54 PM
5

Mine was 10 month and cost $3k. No alimony. Stop marrying SAHMs
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:01 PM
4

Never take back a cheater.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 11:54 PM
17

Her attorney is trying to milk her for more time. He/she makes more money for this to drag out. My ex-wife was given similar advice and she sort of admitted it off the record.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 03:34 PM
1

Guess I got lucky and it didn't matter one bit in my case.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 05:31 PM
1

She's going into her ho-phase.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 03:52 PM
2

I'm not debating whether it's the law or not, but factoring one spouse moving out of a divorcing couple's home into child custody is a terrible circumstance to factor into cases. It shouldn't make a damn bit of difference and I'll go 1 step further, it's probably for the best. Less violence and displays of fighting in front of the kids. What a awful shame that is even considered. I moved out ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 02:16 PM
3

I'm so glad that never factored into mine. I can't imagine being forced to live with my ex for an entire year. What a horrible situation to subject a divorcing couple with.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 10:43 AM
1

I deleted most photos that had with my ex in them alone. I kept every photo where she was in with the kids. They might want to look back at them someday.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 10:07 PM
3

This story is older than time itself.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 04:38 PM
2

If this guy doesn't have the money, we should GoFundme his release from this nightmare, perhaps kick in a few extra bucks for a prostitute.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 04:36 PM
4

Read you other Reddit activity. You don't have a lot of experience with women prior to this woman, do you?
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 11:41 PM
4

A big waste of money, something women are good with. Who's the one usually pushing for it?
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 10:33 PM
4

Everything in life gets boring. The day will come where sex is just more hassle than going to sleep. I'm sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 10:31 PM
3

Those are dudes looking to extract money out of you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 10:27 PM
7

You're fighting with the girlfriend and you moved out? This sounds like a bad deal from start to finish. Is the pussy that good?
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 10:25 PM
3

112 hours per week. You're stepping into Japanese level of work commitment.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 01:11 PM
1

You must make more money than her and she's trying to extract maximum resources out of you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 12:53 PM
1

Most dudes would be ok with a woman being in the home, where as almost zero women would take on a dude. So, yea....you're correct.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 04:21 PM
8

It doesn't pass the smell test.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 05:05 PM
7

Your kid is terminal? All of this going on while that's a reality.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 12:51 AM
1

Depending on where he lives, he can just not get married and save most of the headache. I know a few areas have common law situations than can tie you together regardless. I have a girlfriend and we do live together, but I'm not married and could untie everything anytime things go south. She's a good woman, but she's a woman....so they're all somewhat crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 04:36 PM
40

New women always seem amazing, then the bonding chemicals subside and you're left with another woman.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/22 11:11 PM
1

How would that even be legal?
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 01:43 AM
3

I dated a 6' 1" Argentinian woman for a few weeks. I'm 6' 5" though.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:15 PM
2

I waited to acquire the family business I built with my father. Most people don't have the option I had, but I'm grateful I did. My ex-wife makes almost 6 figures, so don't feel bad for her.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/22 06:54 PM
2

I feel so bad for you alimony guys. So glad I didn't make as much when I got divorced. Planned it that way
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 04:07 PM
3

Casual dating = booty calls
/r/MensRights07/08/22 09:43 PM
1

Substitute feminist with liberals. Liberal men generally ally with feminists, they're the white knights and feminist allies that mock men's rights and work against them.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:51 PM
1

I feel bad for shorter guys. I simply wanted companionship to be honest.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 01:44 PM
2

I had solid luck, but I'm also 6' 5'' and athletic. Women say they're not shallow, but damn....they sure went right to the height like bees to honey.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 10:02 PM
2

The grass is greener is an issue. I wish the app would lock their profile when you start going out with someone, but we know that won't happen.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:26 PM
7

That'll show em!
/r/MensRights01/08/22 05:27 PM
1

Don't feel for OP.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/22 09:06 PM
1

The left sees women as lower than men and any defense against what they do is seen as "punching down".
/r/MensRights28/07/22 06:47 PM
2

Sometimes the hot ones are the worst.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 06:16 PM
2

She should have said, looking for someone that hasn't been in a long term relationship ever or recently. Sometimes that sort of person is a red flag in itself. That sort of hope is kind of a pipe dream for any person after 30 years old. I know a few neckbearded men who she might want to get in contact with. They're rocking a 45 bmi and smell, but they have zero baggage
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 08:00 PM
2

Some women have ZERO tolerance for any talk about your ex. You're supposed to go 5, 10, 20 years with one person next to you and then suddenly go cold turkey. They want a man that's usually older than they are, but they don't want the baggage that comes with it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 07:02 PM
4

Everything is more fun the first time around.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 02:55 PM
3

Why would you only get every other weekend visitation? Most states default to 50/50 and they have to have a reason for something else. Anyhow, just curious.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:25 AM
5

I'm a guy that's in good shape for my age. 43 years old and 6' 5". Solid build with a good jawline etc. I was married from 2005 through 2020 to my ex-wife. She never said I was handsome or a catch even once. The moment I hit the dating market I was consistently told how attractive I was by women. That will probably be the only time in my life where random women will ever compliment me while I'm alive. My girlfriend compliments me often, but she's also aware of what my ex did to me.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 06:21 PM
2

I have a type 1 diabetic son, he's 11. Overall he's doing well with it, but my lack of access and her poor care (I keep her on task) stresses me out. There are many times I wish I rode it out 5 more years and that was 2 years ago. I have 50% custody.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 03:13 AM
2

Hold my beer. My ex is in a polyamorous relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/22 02:52 AM
1

I'd wager that at least half of the readers of that post did a "What is CV" in their Google Search bar after a quick glance at that post. Looks like academia digs the term, it sounds like a snobbish way to separate the "enlightened" from the "unenlightened"
/r/MensRights12/07/22 06:56 PM
1

I'm 43 and I have never heard the term once. Not in person, business, TV, internet, fax, sky-written or cave paintings. A very odd acronym to drop in a subreddit not associated with any particular industry.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 06:49 PM
1

CV is what exactly?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 05:22 PM
3

That was 100% of the reason you have been married this long.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 04:44 PM
10

The cock is attached to financial security, which is a symbolic stand-in for the tree.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 07:07 PM
6

These 1 year separation states are the worst. You guys vote for people who makes these laws. Vote them out. I filed in Sept 2020 and was a free man July 8th 2021. It could have been over with by January if we worked together more.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 08:19 PM
3

You will find that 99.9% of every nasty gesture while driving, will come from women. They know we're not going to do anything about it, so they abuse that to the fullest.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:57 PM
0

Move it to the 2nd Sunday, it will never land on the 19th.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 03:20 PM
1

You would assume those women keep their profiles active a bit longer into the dating process and probably end up chasing greener pastures. I found a good women when I started looking pretty quickly. I'm 6' 5" and in good shape, well spoken and "successful". She has 4 kids, 2 that are regularly in her life. So, it definitely came with a sacrifice. I have a type 1 diabetic son that is tremendously stressful and challenging. Her acceptance of that went a long ways. She cooks, cleans and doesn't com…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 07:57 PM
2

Nobody even looks outside of online dating these day.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 07:46 PM
3

"She wants to find herself" is code for wanting to find another man. Have you ever heard a man say that?
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 01:26 PM
1

Tinder.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 04:47 PM
4

Shooting fish in a barrel. Being 6' 5" and in shape might have tainted my personal account of it, but I found it was pretty easy getting a date. Been with my girlfriend who I met on Match since Nov 2020.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 08:26 PM
2

Nice!
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/22 06:43 PM
1

I don't post political comments outside of subreddits that lean right or support men -- I'd rather not lose all my post karma.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 03:07 AM
2

My ex-wife is involved in a BDSM lifestyle and she's in a polyamorous relationship. I know exactly where her profile is online, but out of depression I stopped peeking at it. Originally it was to just know what my kids were going to be exposed to, but I had to stop after it was just bringing me down.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 05:00 PM
4

Hey, I married a woman who cheated on me before we got married. At least she made 6 figures, because she wasn't hot and the sex sucked. Zero alimony. Got a new girlfriend, but even she's too crazy to marry with a pre-nup. I'll never remarry without a prenup either way. Gotta get out if you need to get out. **Honey, if you're reading this -- that's today, maybe you'll change**
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 04:45 PM
7

Situations like this make me feel better about my outlook. Having a SAHM.....she better be FUCKING HOT. The risks are tremendous, so you better have some fun in the meanwhile. Edit. I know there was little advice here. I'm more or less ranting about how painful a traditional marriage is these days. I also noticed you're on TRT as well. How's that working for ya?
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 04:08 PM
1

There's probably another dude.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 03:38 PM
13

My ex-wife is co-parenting with me and one of our kids is a type 1 diabetic. Her poor care hurts my son, so the hatred is strong. Let's not talk about her BDSM fetish lifestyle and the horrible men she previously threatened to bring around my kids. It can be worse.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 07:01 PM
1

I just went back to this post and clicked your profile. I hope you're doing OK, I read some of your posts and you seemed to be suicidal. Hope you're OK bud.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/22 06:58 PM
14

Women do seem adept at smoothly moving on without a care in the world.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/22 08:15 PM
0

Where's the woman?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:06 AM
7

Women's mags now spill over into everything from magazines to TikTok. These, "If he doesn't do this" things are dime a dozen on TikTok. All of these articles and videos are put together to grab female attention for ad dollars, but they ruin relationships with unrealistic expectations.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/22 11:46 PM
2

Fuck yea!
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 07:49 PM
3

Men don't 4D chess these things. It's nothing deeper than him feeling like helping the kids out.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 08:31 PM
2

You have no power over this. I asked my lawyer that same question.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 03:14 AM
1

Fuck that. Can you handle 50 50?
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 01:55 AM
5

Well, considering her age and the difficulty with women finding new partners this late in life, she'll most likely live out her days with a clowder of cats. All this man's hardwork will be awarded to a new lady if he's in decent shape.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 01:33 PM
3

Women certainly get the lawyer on board sometimes years in advance. I wonder how many men hire a lawyer before telling the STBX? My guess is very few.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 01:02 PM
1

I don't see any comments by her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 12:40 PM
2

I'm not sure what your ex looks like...but damn, I found online dating easy as fuck. Why go back to the thing you left?
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 02:11 AM
2

Always hated mother's day when with the ex.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 03:53 PM
1

Your GF is ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 02:40 PM
1

I have a type 1 diabetic 11 year old that typically requires 15 to 20 texts per day with my ex-wife, often while in bed with my girlfriend. Your girlfriend doesn't know what "Too Much" is.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 02:36 PM
29

If guilty. Life in prison. A men's prison -- general population.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 02:20 AM
4

Bust em.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 01:32 AM
3

As a woman her revenge probably netted 20 men.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 09:55 PM
8

My ex-wife cheated on me before we got married, my dumbass took her back. My advice -- file and move on. You'll never get over it. I'm with a loyal woman today and it feels amazing.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 10:22 PM
3

When they make more, it's generally not a good outcome.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 01:11 PM
1

What a terrible state law. Elect someone to modernize that rubbish.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 09:47 PM
5

The moment you went SAH it was gonna be a difficult road ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 07:50 PM
1

No kids? EZ mode!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 06:02 AM
1

Where on earth do you live where $180k doesn't get the job done on it's own? Also, what lead to her divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 01:49 AM
1

Mine wanted to split the meat in the freezer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 07:26 PM
5

I used to feel the same way. I enjoyed my time with "Date-Night Wife", not "Everyday wife". She was on my wave length when the normal stresses of the world weren't on her, but when it was -- just a nasty person. I'm with someone new and I have a loving version all the time with her... minus my kids half the time 😞.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 06:29 PM
3

Same with me. I deleted every single pic of my ex except pics they're in.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:44 PM
1

My ex has nude pics online and available for anyone to look at. Lovely eh?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:43 PM
2

My cousin just wrapped up his divorce after 2.5 years. It always takes the longest when the woman is out for maximum payday. My ex wife made good money so that really helped the process move along.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 09:14 PM
2

Damn, when is this divorce ever gonna happen. Clicked this from a post I made and you commented on back in July. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 08:24 PM
19

He needs to divorce her ASAP.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 01:38 AM
6

Always post here. That subreddit is a trash hole.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 02:13 AM
1

It's tough. Imagine having a type 1 diabetic 10 year old. I exchange texts with the ex like 20 times a day on average.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 03:35 PM
1

Gun owners are ammosexuals.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:45 AM
2

Wasn't that the plot of The Wedding Singer?
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 04:53 PM
1

This has to be dependent to where you live. Most places don't have legal prostitution.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 01:02 AM
11

Make a dating site profile and maybe you'll snag a female? Just state your intentions and she might be on board. There's always Nevada.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 07:41 PM
50

Find a girlfriend. Doesn't mean you have to get married.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 01:44 PM
3

I get this. I had a breakdown on this as well, it was 100% about the family and 0% about her. The moment hit me when we all went to a farmer's market one morning and it felt like we were all back. 2 hours later she drove 30 miles to fuck some guy to break her post separation cherry. 2 hours after that she asked me to come up to the bedroom to sleep in a bed next to her because she felt bad about me being on the couch.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 06:07 PM
13

Wow, what a friend!
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/22 10:25 PM
8

Steroids are done in cycles. Lia Thomas completed an 18 year cycle and now we're supposed to pretend that doesn't matter?
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:58 PM
-2

If you support leftist politicians and causes, you're no friend or ally on men's issues.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:39 PM
2

The only people who call me names or insult me in real life are women. I'm 6' 5" and physically fit.....Men know the repercussions, women know there are none and they exploit it.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/22 07:42 PM
1

A man in his 40's should get his levels tested, unless he enjoys being a tubby unimpressive sack of impotence.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 07:19 PM
2

Too bad the lawyer couldn't serve the time with her for outright lying to get her off. The legal system needs work.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/22 07:03 PM
1

I was at 259 total T. TRT and I'm at 500+ by choice. I hit 1500 and had mega anxiety. TRT is a life changing step that women simply don't have the option to. There's no female equivalent.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 06:17 PM
3

Once it's hardwired in a woman's mind that you make her unhappy, she'll give you the cold war treatment for decades. They aren't programmed to adjust to new realities. Women don't forget, what brought them to this point will stay with them. Men will kill each other in war and a year later resume being brothers again. We don't hold grudges. Your marriage is over. Hopefully you can avoid bankruptcy, but a great deal of divorced men can't. It's only 7 years of credit hell.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 05:59 PM
-7

She's 88 years old.
/r/MensRights12/03/22 07:38 PM
2

Those cougars are bold and brave!
/r/MensRights12/03/22 12:19 AM
1

If you think finding a romantic partner on Fetlife is acceptable for a co-parenting arrangement with young kids, we can't have a conversation. You're not someone I would defer to on anything.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/22 06:12 PM
60

I have told numerous people this. Out of 100 instances when someone mouthed off to me in public or traffic, 99 of the offenders were female.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:59 PM
1

Your profile is tagged "NSFW" so I'm thinking you're into weird shit. Are you really coming at this with a rational perspective?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 06:15 PM
6

I was the initiator of the divorce. I also did the usual guy routine and try to reconcile when reality of breaking the family up hit. In the end I was the one who filed.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 02:10 PM
6

I have almost 11,000 karma. If my viewpoints and takes are mentioned on subs that don't lean right or male oriented, I would probably be -5000.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 02:01 PM
3

He follows Onlyfan whores and other bullshit on his social media profiles. At 48....it's a bit of a red flag. I have a beautiful 14 year old daughter who I don't want sleeping 2 doors down from this guy.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 08:56 PM
3

She's currently claiming they won't meet and their lives will be separate. She has been with this guy for nearly 6 months now and still claims they won't meet. This was after a lot of push-back on my end and a physical confrontation with "Dave". I basically in few words let him know that the only thing preventing me from pounding the snot out of him is the legal system -- I'd prefer to stay out of jail. I'm a large physically dominant man, 6' 5'' and athletic. He's 5' 7'' and average. Anyhow, sh…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 08:12 PM
10

Was the divorce something that happened out of the blue? I hated my ex while married and it make it really easy. I still struggled, but only because I missed my family being intact.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 07:06 PM
6

I should probably clarify that. Wanted to introduce the kids to some man she met off Fetlife.com
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 06:39 AM
3

I think it really depends on what lead to the divorce. I started dating after separation and it worked out. I was the one who initially wanted out of the marriage, mainly because I wanted to find someone else. There really was no "finding myself" required. The only regrettable part was that my ex played games with the divorce and started dating perverted men and alluded to wanting to involve the kids with these guys, that could have happened 5 years down the line...but the stress of that made it…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 04:36 AM
1

I really wonder what percent of men file bankruptcy after divorce, I'm guessing it's staggering.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 07:38 PM
3

I feel bad for guys who divorce SAHMs. They have no reason to settle quickly, it's about wearing you down until they get maximum payday.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 07:35 PM
-1

Divorce her. Need anymore advice?
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 05:22 PM
2

Online dating is rough because the buffet is always open and people can simply move onto the "next best thing" without leaving their house. Remember the old days when you had to get dressed up and head out to meet someone? Those days are gone. On the flip side I'm a good looking man. 6' 5" and athletic. Zero sex drive though. Isn't life a crock of shit?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 09:44 PM
4

This is true. I filed divorce from my ex, but I even had a period where I regretted it. Not so much because of her, but I didn't like the idea of losing 50% of my time from the kids. She was mentally prepared for it already and treated me poorly for years due to resentment.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 01:17 PM
6

Pretty soon the only Legal way to initiate a new relationship is going to be online only.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 04:34 PM
3

Wtf is happening
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 07:57 PM
2

My ex-wife dates men she meets on Fetlife.com <---- click at your own risk Imagine having to stomach that. The youngest is my almost 11 year old son.... he's a type 1 diabetic and she has been caught turning off her alarms on her phone just so the new POS boyfriend doesn't hear the alerts and throw the towel at her. It gets better, but sometimes it gets worse.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 11:22 PM
4

They have forums devoted to strategically milking ex-husbands for maximum dollar.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 11:20 PM
8

It's weird how many women are into this shit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 09:51 PM
3

Zero, the ex made good money at the time our decree was made.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 12:07 PM
2

Narcissism is another word for confidence
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 03:00 PM
3

True. They don't reconcile, when they call it off....it's done. The rational move would be to work on things, but women aren't exactly rational. If she's good looking, she'll find a new guy and not miss a beat. For a guy, don't count on a woman for that sort of support.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 11:57 PM
1

Your mother is a female after all, they typically get over relationships much easier than we do.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 08:08 PM
1

Point?
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 12:52 PM
3

Probably depends on if she needs the man financially or not. A woman with no money is gonna monkey branch 99 out of 100 times. A woman making 6 figures might wait a bit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 02:20 PM
1

My ex and I started to divorce and I had a girlfriend in 2 months. We're still together 14 months later. It depends on the reason for divorce, I divorced my ex because I wanted someone else in my life and I wasn't going to cheat. Much happier now and divorce was final roughly 6 months ago.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 02:17 PM
2

She's living her BEST LIFE! For a couple weeks.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/22 03:55 PM
3

There aren't many women out there looking for that. She's a keeper. In my experience they all wanted more!
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/22 12:43 AM
2

SPLC is a collection of liberals who pine for the day of widespread racism in order to scare minorities into voting democratic.
/r/MensRights09/01/22 05:31 AM
13

Women lie lie lie. I was married to a cheating lying weirdo. No, I'm not mad about it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/22 01:28 AM
1

So she found a guy on a voice only social media app.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/22 01:23 AM
-1

If you're not going to make combining names you shouldn't be combining lives.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 02:05 PM
1

Is she fighting you nonstop?
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/22 12:27 AM
1

No kids? That would make the split a total cake-walk.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/22 02:56 PM
3

She can the bring same level of attorney he does and they're going into this with a +25% advantage right out of the gate due to her vagina.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/22 05:53 PM
1

As an unmarried 6' 5" asshole. We don't want her. I was treated like shit by a 245 lb. woman for 20 years and I divorced her. Not interested.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/22 02:28 PM
5

Women have gained the "Karen" due to the fact that they don't have to answer for their hostilities in public and to others like men do. My ex wife used to get all huff and puff over other drivers in traffic, basically thrusting the chance of a fight onto me since she has female immunity.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 12:29 PM
4

Most dudes are usually much more chill than their female partners.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 12:26 PM
6

For the sake of all men everywhere. TAKE HER TO THE CLEANERS! My ex-wife spends $12 on a shirt for our son, I owe $6.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 07:55 PM
3

Women always seem to fall for coworkers.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 12:38 PM
2

Not in the United States
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/22 04:53 PM
5

Women can be brutally cold after a split My ex-wife, while still living with her..... drove 25 miles to fuck some dude, then called me up stairs to snuggle within 3 hours of having another man's penis in her. Imagine that for cold!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 08:22 PM
1

These women just aren't hot anymore. Fat women are causing the world's male population to be impotent.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 08:21 PM
1

The 14 yr old most likely would have had no symptoms anyhow. The vax isnt gonna hurt anyone....but also it won't help anyone as well. Unless we're talking about a 50+ year old.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 07:55 PM
0

I just downvoted this post. Your ex-wife is right. Unless we're talking about MMR and other childhood vaccines.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 07:53 PM
0

It's not going to change there outcome to contracting covid....so what's the point?
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 07:52 PM
2

Get the fuck out of there.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 07:50 PM
2

17% don't think parenting time should be equal. Imagine that.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 05:31 PM
2

I have a diabetic 10 year old son and a 14 year old daughter. Just mentioning the son resulted in a few ghosting. I have 50 50 custody.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 02:38 PM
5

It has to do with liberalism and their obsession over "punch up, never punch down". In a nutshell, they basically acknowledge women are a "lesser sex" and that shaming them is punching down.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:42 PM
2

This is because liberalism teaches that "punching down" is always wrong. So....they're essentially allow this because they acknowledge women are somehow a weaker sex.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:52 AM
6

Find a new chick
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/21 02:50 AM
10

It's a new emotion for a man in 2021. If this was 5,000 years ago you would have killed them both. Not condoning that, just telling the truth about human history. Just file and follow your lawyers advice.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/21 02:48 AM
1

WW?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 07:04 PM
1

Her boyfriend was met on the Fetlife perverted dating online app. She's a 43 year old mother of young kids....not a free swinging 25 year old without kids. All I can do is be a problem....legally, nothing can be done.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 02:16 PM
6

I could be wrong, but I believe the police almost exclusively exist to handle domestic issues in 90% of the United States communities. I got into a heated face to face with a pervert my ex-wife planned to introduce to my children at some point just yesterday. Fun times.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 08:16 AM
8

Fix this.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 01:58 PM
2

Mine tried putting this in our divorce agreement. Now, I'm in a stable 13 month relationship and she's dating perverts. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 04:40 AM
2

Men outnumber women like 10:1, so your ex probably screwed a TON of perverts. Good thing she's now the EX.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/21 03:11 AM
2

I was suicidal too and the thoughts still creep into my consciousness. I'm not religious and I find life somewhat pointless, but my son (type 1 diabetic) and daughter give me purpose. I'm actually 42 as well.... this will be my only shot at life, so I'll just stick it out and take it day by day. Last Christmas I didn't leave my 600 Sq ft apartment or see my kids. I crumpled into a ball on the floor and cried. It will feel like the pain will never end, but over time it does.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 09:07 PM
2

Damn, how can this message go to the court and not at least be considered in the proceedings. The best thing about divorcing my ex was that she was simply wasting my time because I was the best she could ever do. Now that I know how cold a worthless the relationship was (20 years) I feel better with my place in life. It sounds like you were married to a ticking time bomb and she was being guided by someone who knows their way around the system, a lawyer. Don't take your life, don't do it. You ha…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 08:30 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but I also think there's large variations to everything. She won't admit to it, but I believe the ex most likely met the guy on Fetlife. I took one look at profiles there and was pretty disgusted. You are 100% free to do whatever you please in life, we're all gonna die someday and what we do now is just passing the time, but -- I'm just unable to wrap my head around how dominating a women or demeaning them in anyway is enjoyable. Yes, I'm dominant in the way that I'm a …
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 06:21 PM
0

Anything in the bedroom is fine as long as it doesn't leave the bedroom. But..... while anyone from any walk of life can be a bad dude, the odds of a guy into BDSM being a bad dude is simply higher. Many of these guys get off on abusing women and it's usually to compensate for some other shortcoming in life. A normal, attractive, physically desirable man does not need to seek out women to "dominate". They simply don't.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 05:17 PM
2

Most of these guys do. I'm sure my comment will get downvoted by little guys that are into BDSM, but you're right. I'm 6' 5" and muscular....I don't need to be in a "scene" to be dominant, I'm always dominant. It's pathetic and I don't want any of these men around my kids. You're not being weird at all. If it stayed in the bedroom, fine.... but the practitioners fit a profile. I contacted my lawyer and she said it won't go anywhere. So, the guys commenting on that here are right.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 04:35 PM
1

Oh, shit....I'm going through this right now with my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 03:54 PM
5

You're gonna get raped in alimony and child support now. SAHMs are the hardest to divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 03:27 AM
4

Just what the planet needs.....more people.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 05:32 PM
0

Don't mess with career women, you're just asking for problems. She got her degree and now that's what she is...and she's now on the way to being the ex-wife. Career women overestimate their value and either look for a higher earning man or a whipping boy to boss around.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:38 PM
6

This is similar to my situation. My ex-wife was a carbon copy of her mother. That man was/is verbally abused almost on a daily basis. Sadly, he even turned on me after I filed for divorce from his daughter. I always thought he would see my reason for it, but....nope.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 01:24 PM
2

I divorced the mother of my children earlier this year because of that very reason. I'm with someone who I would now consider my best friend and that's probably how it should be.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 09:14 PM
3

I have a couple of acquaintances, but most of them are busy with life. I have a significant other just to go through life with someone. I'm not an overly sexual person, but I do get sex often. If I had to go a month without it, I wouldn't really care.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 05:20 PM
12

Women are extremely competitive with each other. It's just the way they outlet it.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 05:18 PM
3

Oh, they pay....they just don't buy super likes or boosts. My girlfriend didn't even know they existed when I met her. She put a pic up and no bio. Well, here we are.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 01:33 AM
2

I have a woman in my life, a much better one than the one I divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 03:11 PM
7

My ex made more money and treated me like an inconvenience. Women aren't ready for the roles of breadwinner yet.....they tend to go crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/21 12:00 AM
4

Make another social media account and expose him. Why the hell not? Just cover your tracks. If you were asking to physically harm him, well.....that's nothing I'm going to suggest.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 10:13 PM
1

Exactly, most of these guys are pussies. They just want to belong to some club.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 07:41 PM
3

Yup, most men don't have a reliable group of friends to spend all their free time with. For most of us in the 40+ age bracket, it would simply mean that we live life alone. What's the point? I'd rather just end it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 07:02 PM
10

If other men were more willing to want to do things outside of their opposite sex relationship, we could all have more friendships and fun without women. Sadly, in 2021 -- that's just not the case. I have a few friends and others that I could kick it with from time to time, but for the most part I would sit around by myself and be alone. Work, drive home and sit by myself day in and day out. I have 2 kids, but within 7 years they'll be grown. Then what...? More sitting around alone. Sounds like …
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 06:59 PM
1

1981 or 1991?
/r/MensRights01/12/21 03:04 PM
5

I'm cut, but I do wonder.... sensitivity is terrible at 42 years old.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 11:02 PM
8

And you can thank the unrealistic portrayal of what a relationship is by Hallmark channel standards. We'll see how realistic things get for her after dating post divorce, maybe after the 100th dick pic and ghosting she'll remember how good she had it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/21 04:56 PM
11

Higher income women file like 90% of divorces.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 08:45 AM
2

I wonder if Adele cheated on her ex when the offers started rolling in post weight loss.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 03:21 AM
4

You can love the person in a platonic way and divorce them.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 03:47 PM
1

Run!!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 03:45 PM
5

I met my ex-wife on my 21st birthday in May of 2000. 2.5 years later she started a 9 month long cheating spree that any normal man would run from....my dumbass took her back after she begged me to take her back. She claimed she was going to kill herself if I didn't. Hyperdramatic and probably full of shit. Anyhow, I figured she would be humbled by this and treat me good with a second chance most people don't get. Nope, she was a nasty OCD sociopathic weirdo with an unusually explosive temper. Fo…
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 12:22 AM
5

Wow. Sounds like you were on EZ street. I couldn't cough, shit or get sick without being punished. When I came down with the flu......she would be livid.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 09:06 PM
0

You're right. She does get the most out of it. This is why I'm in a relationship and live with the woman. She's well aware of the prenup rule if we ever do marry. I think dating and random hookups are just not worth the hassle. She cook, cleans and doesn't complain much. Steady pussy and I can just relax in life. Just don't get married or of you do....prenup the hell out of that marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 07:09 PM
3

Since they tend to fear physical repercussions (mostly false ones) they justify lying as a way to protect themselves. My ex was and still is a pathological liar. I recently caught her lying about my son's diabetic care. She was giving me false blood test results over text to appease me when he was running high blood sugar. He's a type 1 diabetic on a pump.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 02:54 PM
3

I think this is pretty common. My ex has my last name still and I don't believe she plans on changing this. Our kids have my last name, so it's probably a major motivator. If we had no kids I'd expect her to revert to her maiden name.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 03:20 AM
2

I went through divorce and custody once. My ex wanted like 66% of overnights with her, but I ended up getting 50/50 on everything. She made like $8k more than I did at the time of divorce, so no alimony and only a bit of child support since it took me 8 months to get a home due to the awful housing market. I was taking my boy 50% of the time, but the daughter was living with her mother full time. Our finances were split in April, so I had to pay child support for her from April 1st through Oct 1…
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 06:21 PM
4

Women don't reconcile for the most part. When they file, they have planned it out for a while.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 03:19 PM
2

My ex made more than me on sock day.... so I dodged the bulk of the damage. Now, I'm about to finish buying my parents out of the family business. Child support will enter the equation, but no alimony. That's in our decree.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 03:12 PM
2

Do you have a proper home for the kids? I'm just trying to figure out how you ended up like this.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/21 12:50 AM
2

My ex isn't pretty.....maybe average, but with a body that won't win any awards. Get this.... she met my girlfriend of 1 year over dinner to discuss kid stuff and my ex tells my girlfriend how hard it is getting dates. She's one of those types who bitched about my lack of housework.....now she does it all!
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 10:55 PM
1

She'll likely stay single too. Not a lot of men beating down her doors to raise your kids. Great plan she had.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 09:28 PM
2

Raising kids has been the primary responsibility for women for the last 300,000 years or more.... just recently they started squawking about this "burden" and now marriage divorce rates are out of control.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 03:52 PM
2

How did you ex portray you in court?
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 01:15 PM
3

Oh please.... No one is treating you or anyone else different because of your skin. Stop falling for class warfare.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 12:37 AM
1

You do understand that American liberalism is an enemy of all men's rights and especially white men in general.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 11:42 PM
2

Housework discrepancies are probably the #1 reason for divorce in the U.S. when it boils down to it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 11:38 PM
16

Reddit has a younger liberal demographic. Give them all another 10 years and that demo will start becoming more conservative and drop the white knight shtick.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 12:38 PM
2

I couldn't get my ex-wife to sit through a 30 second trailer for an upcoming movie. If I was in the master bathroom when she got ready for bed in a 15 min interval each night, hell was paid my way.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/21 02:02 PM
3

If she's at least decently attractive, there's probably 5 to 10 guys massaging here non stop. She probably feels desired by that and it's going to push her forward with the decision.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 06:15 PM
6

There should be a legal time-line on divorce procedures. 1 year and it's over regardless. My cousin is onto year 3. Mine was over within 9 months of separation. Life only lasts so long.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 01:29 PM
39

Because of the "punching up" condition makes us a safe risk free target. It's laziness plain and simple.
/r/MensRights26/10/21 01:41 PM
2

My mother is 65 and a nightmare for my father. I would have probably bailed on her if I were dad. Stay in shape, you'll have your pick of ladies. Find a low drama chick in good shape and life will get better.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 05:14 PM
1

There are tons of 55+ women looking for 62 year old men. No reason to be alone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 12:08 PM
3

Not only did I have my first holiday without my kids last year....I never left my apartment. Christmas day literally didn't happen for me. My girlfriend came over and that made it better, we're now living together and she makes all the holidays special. The first one is tough, but you are free to move on with life as you see fit. This will pass.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 11:48 AM
6

She found a new dude eh?
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 09:37 PM
11

Women move on fast....they evolved a disconnect switch that us men simply don't have. We're usually the ones that want to reconcile and make it work. They in turn will rewrite history and convince themselves you were always the bad guy. She has probably already lined up the next guy and thinks very little for you. My current girlfriend has mentioned numerous times that she will never reconcile a relationship that ends. She never has and never will.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/21 06:32 PM
1

When you had the affair, you should have known that you were going to lose her if caught. She won't be your friend anymore and probably in any capacity. Unless she's unlike most people, she will eventually pursue a new relationship and you will no longer be around her in the same capacity. I would just file and move on. You put yourself in this situation. You gotta get out of it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/21 06:27 PM
1

My ex has natural inclination to treat her significant other like a nuisance. Her mother is EXACTLY the same, so there is probably a genetic component. He won't figure it out for a little while, she's going to bottle that shit up as long as possible, but it will appear and he'll drop her ass like a lead weight. Unless the dude is a total weenie, maybe he'll be ok with it then.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 09:03 PM
2

She'll get old and die someday. Just remember that.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 01:17 AM
2

My ex was very similar to this, but she tend to waste money and barely move a muscle to figure anything out. The low key hate she had for me was impossible to tolerate for the rest of my life. It got to the point where I got yelled at for coughing. Let's not mention using the bathroom between 945 and 1015..... her bedtime routine timeslot. That alone blew any incling of sexual interest for the night. There was much much more.....but, in your case, it sounds like she just hates you for some reaso…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/21 04:00 AM
1

It was mostly a joke.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 09:45 PM
3

You need to stop talking to her. Just divorce, work out and regroup.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/21 06:51 PM
4

The football team was more famous for losing streaks of 40 games (1992–1996) and 44 games (1997–2001) LOL.... libs.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:24 PM
5

Side note: Funny how you mention "balding" if it were a bad thing. I'm 42 and most women my age prefer shaved heads.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 03:01 PM
2

I find most of the people on Reddit function on emotion and suck at really weighing in on any topic. I'm at roughly 9,500 karma.....but outside of right leaning forums, I'm probably running a deficit.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 07:30 PM
12

Women move on fast....they evolved a disconnect switch that us men simply don't have. We're usually the ones that want to reconcile and make it work. They in turn will rewrite history and convince themselves you were always the bad guy. She has probably already lined up the next guy and thinks very little for you. I'm also a tall (6' 5") good looking man and I found someone about 2 minutes after I started looking. It still didn't erase all of the pain though, but it did help.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 03:34 PM
2

Never marry without a prenup. I got lucky with my divorce since I held off buying my father out for the family business until after the divorce. My ex-wife made good money. Easy peasy. My current relationship is about 1 year deep and she wants to eventually get married. I already told her I want separate finances and would prenup to protect the business and my retirement account. She's cool with it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 01:49 AM
25

I have never found a political forum that both sides can participate in and the left wing posters didn't split. It will end similarly. It's worth trying though. I literally talk politics on a weather hobbyist website because we can almost make it work. I usually get banned and unbanned constantly since the mods lean left.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 12:31 AM
3

I know exactly what you're feeling man.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/21 07:54 AM
0

When the female makes more than the man....the marriage is doomed.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 12:27 PM
9

Sounds like the typical reaction women emit when minor irrelevant problems arise.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 06:59 PM
3

It's because your a guy. She's probably reconciling this in her mind that it was bad from day 1.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/21 05:10 PM
3

Nope, they don't. The judgement is exactly the same whether you amicably divorce or whether you walked in on her being gang banged by 500 men at once.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 08:10 PM
7

No matter how the marriage ended, this will sting. I initiated the divorce process with my ex-wife in Sept 2020. 3 weeks later I found a condom wrapper in a nightstand next to our marital bed. She told me it was brought home by accident, she admitted to fucking this guy who lives about 25 miles away and the wrapper was in her purse. Checked the phone records and she was telling the truth, but I had to hear about this sweaty sex fest. No matter how the divorce goes down, we're not wired to let se…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 08:07 PM
4

My ex went through my phone while I was sleeping on the couch and found all my reddit posts in the divorce sub forum.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 04:12 PM
3

That's reasonable.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 03:43 AM
2

It's a tough one, but if you aren't attracted to her.... you might just have to pull the trigger. I struggled with my ex in this capacity, the only difference is that my ex was nasty as fuck attitude wise. She made it very easy for me to file.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 03:43 PM
6

He can't let his Ex dictate his personal life unless he's bringing a bad person around his kids. My ex-wife is now dating a man she met in a BDSM circle online. While I have no concern for what she does in the bedroom and shouldn't concern myself with who she dates, I do have concerns with this fellow having any contact with my children. I may be powerless to stop it, but that didn't stop me from contacting her parents and others in an attempt to expose what she's doing as it pertains to the chi…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 03:37 PM
2

I'm 6' 5". Why does someone always have to point this out. 😪
/r/MensRights05/10/21 12:03 PM
1

We all evolved under similar conditions. I think the answer to your question is -- yes.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 02:34 AM
-4

Women are the fuel behind liberalism worldwide. Think about it....thinking with emotion before reason. Who does that? Oh, NM.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 01:32 AM
3

Your wife's cheating lead to his wife committing suicide. If people had the guts to not segue from one relationship to the next without being the fear of being alone shortly, much of that would have been avoided. Now one person is dead and your in mental hell as a result.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 07:18 PM
2

This isn't uncommon or wrong actually. Unless the kids are involved, why care?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/21 11:56 AM
7

Funny, haven't heard a word about the dismissal....heard quite a bit about the allegations when they were raised.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 12:32 AM
8

2 years after you turn 19, you'll meet a horrible woman....don't touch her. Side note....I do have 2 kids I love, but this is just fantasy anyhow.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 02:26 AM
6

adjustment in child support are always open.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 08:25 PM
1

She's free to do whatever she wants, but her weirdo play partners will not be meeting our kids.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 12:45 PM
1

My ex is now into BDSM. And I have two kids under 18. Gotta love it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 11:10 PM
27

College is a racket. With a few exceptions, (doctors, lawyers..etc.) you're paying $100k+ to a school so that you can work for someone else.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 09:09 PM
0

Or, just get a prenup.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 08:49 PM
1

Prenups should be a legal requirement to get married.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 08:45 PM
1

Good.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 08:43 PM
3

I feel so bad for some of you. This is just insane what lengths these women go through to make maximum $$
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 07:15 PM
5

4 divorces..... she probably forced men to marry her or she'll walk.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 09:11 PM
4

On my end....I confronted my ex-wife with divorce. She put it out there and I took the step forward. After being away from here for a couple months, I cracked and wanted to try again. She was not budging. Her stupid divorced friend was guiding her and making sure she stuck to her guns. Remember, I initiated this. So, now we're divorced, I'm in a new relationship and she's being used by creepy men for weird BDSM nonsense because traditional online dating options never panned out. Was the marriage…
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 09:10 PM
8

Once a woman decides she wants out, it's very hard to reel her back in. Her friends are supporting her decision and likely not playing devils advocate. This means, they're reinforcing her silly decision further.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 09:02 PM
5

I was being sarcastic with the "quest" comment. Most men look at porn at one point or another. That's something you have discussion about, but you don't just up and file for divorce over it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 08:48 PM
1

Porn will desensitize you to looking at women. You're being exposed to 1000 years worth of naked women in a few days. Imagine screwing the entire Playboy Mansion in a weekend, then entering the dating world to find a normal chick. You're gonna be limp when it's time to do the nasty.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 08:09 PM
11

Good luck to her and her quest to find a man who doesn't look at porn.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 08:01 PM
3

Sure. Chicks can do ANYTHING. Maybe they can survive 10,000 degrees too.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 12:35 AM
3

Having a good set of friends would help. A lot of men don't and it makes it tougher. I wish I did.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/21 03:09 PM
2

Most of us men feel like this.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/21 03:07 PM
1

"Strong women" end up being divorced women. Do what I did and drop her ass now and move on with your life. Find a woman willing to take a more traditional role, you'll be happier.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 01:38 PM
6

Get out of this nightmare. You should like a normal guy and she sounds like an unstable freak.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 03:01 AM
0

And it's most women.....even divorcees. My girlfriend has a timeline...meaning she'll only wait so long. She's also aware that as a business owner I will have a very airtight prenuptial agreement. She's a good woman who has been married once and in another relationship, both to shitty men. But, yea....she's a marry me or I'll eventually leave gal. Most are. You stay single or get married with a prenup.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 01:26 PM
20

12 attacks from a planet of 7B people really isn't alarming.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 03:30 PM
1

Same. I divorced my ex-wife and was ready for someone new 3 years before I filed. I was loyal, but wasted 3 years with a miserable rigid woman. This isn't a one size fits all piece of advice. I changed NOTHING about myself. Everyone tosses out the cliche that we should be finding ourself, working on ourselves and healing. Sometimes you aren't broken and sometimes the healing is just replacing. I have been in love with a woman I met 1 month after moving into my own place and now we live together.…
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 03:22 PM
1

Oh jeez. Seems like everyone these days is a "narcissist" or "BPD". People are just people and long term relationships just run out of steam.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/21 03:30 AM
2

They still glamorize marriage and think you might have been the cause of the divorce or that their story book start on life could be tainted. The reality is that you stand a 55% chance of being their next ex husband even if you were not previously married.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/21 12:52 PM
1

Divorced by 26.... yea, that would be tougher.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/21 03:57 AM
3

50:50 winning to losing ratio is fine by me
/r/MensRights10/08/21 03:44 PM
2

I'm 6' 5" and attractive, fit. It was easy for me....but I'm top 20% for my age. I'm in a long term relationship with a woman and I'm happy
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 12:26 AM
5

Find a wealthy fat chick to live with. I'm joking..... but, maybe not.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 01:45 AM
4

That was the basis of every sitcom between 2000 to 2010.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:25 PM
2

Please don't take her back. She will do it again....do you really want to go through this again?
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/21 04:54 PM
3

My ex leaves my daughter at home to go on dates. The same woman who argued that I had too much going on this year to get 50% custody. I got my 50-50 and things have settled down, but this is what I went through.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 08:23 PM
1

My ex makes almost the same as I do and getting out of that marriage cost me almost nothing. I'm already in a bigger home with my (low voice) new girlfriend and happier than ever. If I ever tie the knot again it will be with a prenup that's handled by top lawyers. I feel for you guys who married low producing wives without one.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 03:33 AM
2

I told my girlfriend that marrying me will require a lock tight prenup. I divorced my ex-wife before acquiring my business tactically. Not gonna fuck that up.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 05:20 PM
3

Mine is pretty chill now.....much more chill than when I was married to her.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 01:55 PM
2

It's too easy to replace people now days. Give her the boot and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 05:01 PM
2

Same. My girlfriend helped me forget about my ex quickly. I hated my ex, but still..... I missed my previously comfortable life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 04:34 PM
12

My ex-wife is helplessly dependent on her 67 year old father for fixing things at her house.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 03:57 PM
26

Being the lawyer of the female client is easy mode.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 10:53 PM
4

Once she passed your income it was all over.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 08:54 PM
5

The strategy is about getting a man worth more than they are. Not hard to pull off for most women naturally.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 08:23 PM
1

I had (2) entire year periods without sex with my ex-wife. Funny thing..... we were fucking like rabbits at the end, maybe a subconscious effort to salvage the marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 09:04 PM
2

My kids barely cared too. 10 & 13 year old.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 08:42 PM
6

I think this is a major reason why marriages are failing at such a high rate. Women are dealing with higher rates of obesity and men just don't bond with them properly after the attraction ends. Women notice that the man doesn't give her the same attention and she checks out....then the divorce is filed by her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 06:07 PM
11

Yea, don't cuck yourself....life is too short and it's too easy to meet better people these days.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 05:58 PM
15

Wait.... She has a boyfriend and you're worried about how she'll accept the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 05:41 PM
27

I have another 3 letter word that is analog to LVM. FAT. Avoid FAT women.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 02:34 PM
1

Damn, she really wanted to get paid. My ex made good money and it was quick and easy. Night and day difference when the STBXW is a poor slump.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 11:22 PM
13

This is it. Women generally line up their next guy before cutting their current one loose too.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 11:14 PM
1

I could make a divorce proposal...she would reject it because I was being a bully, then ultimately accept the proposal.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 07:25 PM
2

The situation isn't going to improve. I was discussing this with my girlfriend last night in particular. I would say 90% of marriages are tanked by the woman. They have unrealistic expectations for the marriage, turn grouchy and either file for divorce or make the guy's life a living nightmare until he has to leave her, cheat or kill himself.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 06:48 PM
12

Women and their anti-control fetish claims another marriage. Men naturally take responsibility for maintaining order in the family unit....now, they're "controlling". Gotta love it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 06:32 PM
3

I had a no alimony agreement in my judgement going both ways. Not sure how hard that is to get.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 03:46 AM
1

We're pretty far along in the relationship... but, if things somehow went that way I'd be fine. Even though it shouldn't matter, I'm a tall guy 6' 5" and attractive.....I had very little trouble finding dates. I'm also at an age where most men are in families and sadly society these days is nowhere near as social as even 20 or 30 years ago. I find life better with a GOOD woman. My tolerance for anything less is very low.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 03:21 AM
3

It's funny how any mention of getting back into the dating game is downvoted. It would be easy advice to take if you have numerous friends who are willing to be there for you to take your mind off of being alone. Those of us (majority of men) would rather find a person more compatible and move on with our life. Sitting around by yourself stewing on your newly alone status is a great recipe for suicide.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 07:12 PM
3

Mine didn't, but she was able to find fuck buddies very easily....since all women can. She's struggling to find a long term relationship since she has 2 kids and isn't that attractive. She'll have no problem finding sex like most women. Even an ugly chick is more fun to fuck than masturbation.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 07:10 PM
4

Disagree. If you're living in separate homes and can keep things on the down low, there's no reason to avoid women. I was miserable alone....nearly took my own life. When I found my girlfriend I found a reason to care about life again. We are not hardwired to be alone, humans are social beings.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 04:45 PM
15

Not always the case, but quite often.... prepare for your STBXW to be much less affected by the divorce than you are. Women are hardwired to get over changes in marital status much faster than men. They have more support and have likely been justifying the action in their minds for a while. Be prepared.... you're about to be exposed to a sociopathic side of your spouse you never saw coming.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 01:59 PM
3

I'd beat his ass. But, that's my opinion.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 09:02 PM
1

Married Mar 12th 2005 - Separated Sept 2020 - Divorced July 8th 2021. 16 years legally married. Met her in May of 2000 on my 21st birthday
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 04:43 PM
2

That's part of it. Divorce is different for everyone. Mine required some work in the first few months, but after that it was just a waiting game, not a full time job. We get 80 years on the planet, why sit around and wait some arbitrary amount of time that might be unnecessary in your situation. Happiness is sourced internally? Yea, we also had a movie where a guy on a deserted island was talking to a volleyball just to have a friend.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 12:41 PM
2

Women craze empty empowerment quotes. I have one too. "Stop busting your husband's balls when you're 75 lbs. overweight"
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 09:55 PM
1

Never marry a liberal woman.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 09:50 PM
1

Split in September, filed in December.... so, not too bad.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 09:49 PM
2

Get a vasectomy and take the post-divorce life from there. I started dating immediately after the split and found a good one, but I'm fixed and there won't be any more children. if you're lucky enough to have a good batch of friends, you could easily just stay single till the end of time -- I wasn't that lucky. I wanted someone to share my life with, without her -- I'm bored. It sucks how cloistered we all live these days and how little friends men have.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 09:04 PM
18

All 220 lbs of her. Yup, bye bye to that.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 04:35 PM
4

It feels good. I'm in a relationship with someone now, but not married of course. I got lucky and got out pretty much unscathed. The ex made good money, so no alimony and no child support starting Oct 1st.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 04:34 PM
2

Basically there is 9% less women in the workforce in India today compared to 1990. A drop of 0.29% each year.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 10:34 PM
8

Climate change charts work the same way, they start the chart at periods with low temperatures and end them at periods with high temps. The Y axis generally begins when the greatest spread between the "high point" and "low point" is reached.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 10:31 PM
11

Mine said the same thing.... parenting alone is easier for her, even though we have 50/50. She has probably dated 10 guys at least and they all ghost her or are "stupid or weird". Parenting alone!! My ex isn't even a 6 by 42 year old standards. She has no chance at a rich guy.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 10:23 PM
11

Women always sink the marriage first with unrealistic expectations that are never met. They find the next Mr. Wonderful and get divorce at a 75% rate for marriage #2 when they realize men are mostly the same. My ex at least had an attractive, successful spouse, but like I said previously....her expectations failed to pan out and I had to dump her after she moped around and bitched incessantly.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 09:55 PM
2

Well, alimony is always a risk, but I'm sterile. Won't have any more kids. My ex-wife makes good money and I'm not even paying her anything as of now. 50/50 custody too.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 02:17 AM
1

Generally left wing forums and posters oppose us. Left wing ideology tends to put as much effort into suppressing counter opinions as they do expressing their own. Often more so. Pretty fucking gross.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 01:04 AM
2

Watch this video and remember you're only seeing like 0.0001% of the universe or less in this video. And you think God cares about you or your marriage. https://youtu.be/99uWHUQ-dC0
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 11:27 PM
4

I healed by invoking nihilism. It's real simple. Nothing really matters. Bottom line, none of this shit matters. Get therapy and when you're ready, find someone new when you're healthy. Regardless of whether you stayed married or got divorced, none of what you do really means jack shit in the grand scheme of things. Watch this and remember what I said. Just live one day at a time and be the best you can be. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99uWHUQ-dC0
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 08:15 PM
1

You're lucky to have buddies, mine are all married and locked down. It was either find a new woman or pick my ass alone 15 days each month.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 07:37 PM
5

My ex is 42 and having a terrible time of landing a man. She gets a few dates, has sex with them and then they drop her for the next best thing. Dating at 35+ is a bonanza for men in shape. I'm 6' 5'' 250 and ripped.... it was shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 07:23 PM
3

I snagged a new woman. She's 40 (I'm 42)....I have 2 kids, she actually has 4 kids, but only 2 live with her. We'll have an empty house 15 days each month and 4 together max. She knows the deal, I'm the alpha....she cooks, cleans and works as a waitress. She's pretty attractive and gives me little back talk. Conservative too, so no women's lib bullshit. Sex is twice a day at least and she'll open to everything. I will probably marry her with a airtight prenup. As the soon to be owner of a growin…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 07:20 PM
2

Prenups should be compulsorily if you are married by the state.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 07:05 PM
3

Been there, done that. Sobbed multiple times after driving away. I had been in a relationship with the my ex for 20 years. 3 years after our relationship started, she cheated on me with 4 different men over the course of a year. I stupidly took her back and then married her 2 years later. You would think she would be humbled and treat me better -- nope, a bitch till the end. 2 kids with her, 1 with type one diabetes...which involves non stop coordination to control. She forced me to divorce her …
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/21 06:25 PM
22

My ex had a snoring problem for years....I begged her to do something about it. Nothing done. We got divorced and within 3 months after the divorce she's doing sleep studies. Most likely -- some dude she banged mentioned how hard it is to sleep next to her and she decided to take action.
/r/MensRights03/07/21 07:17 PM
1

Michigan here as well.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 10:26 PM
8

I really do feel for you guys. My ex made slightly more than I do when we settled everything. 10 months after the separation and I have better credit, less debt, a bigger home, a better looking girlfriend and 50% custody of my kids. My cousin's divorce started a year before mine and he's still battling her. She literally left him because he lost his job. He's basically destroyed.....she had no income when they splt. Like night and day. PS: My divorce is final next Thursday.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 02:03 PM
6

Divorcing non-working, poor women -- tough situation.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 01:25 PM
1

Sounds like me. My ex was a carbon copy of her nasty mother..... Never really liked her and I don't think she ever liked me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 02:49 PM
4

My ex left an opened condom wrapper in her nightstand. I went looking for a vape pen that I let her borrow and found it. My beef was that I believed it happened in the bedroom and her response was to tell me how it was a sweaty 2 hour fuck fest. Just to rile me up. It probably took the guy 2 hours to cum considering how fat of an ass she has and unattractive she has become by letting herself go.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 02:45 PM
2

Sounds like a Human Rights org needs to step in and end this shit. Divorce on demand should be the law..... financial settlements and permanent custody later.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 02:42 PM
6

Next Thursday for me!! 1 week until the big day!
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 02:37 PM
5

Sock day? Or did your ex graciously let you have a possession?
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 05:32 PM
8

Imagine being that jealous of white men. This mod goes to bed each night hoping to wake up with a penis.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 03:50 PM
5

As a man you're guilty as a bad father until proven innocent. I had to fight for 50/50 with my ex throwing out arbitrary milestones I needed to cross in life to have my kids. Anyways..... Got my 50/50 starting Oct 1st. I had to concede to a few more months to "get everything in place" with my new house. LOL
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/21 08:30 PM
1

Mine was sold....it was move out or sleep in the gutter. Get a lawyer and go from there. Every situation is different. If you can't leave the house due to a stupid ass ex-wife....then maybe you can't date. I was able to pull it off. Listen to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 06:03 PM
-1

This advice isn't a catchall for everyone. I was lonely in my marriage, had I followed this advice I would have put a 12 gauge in my mouth a long time ago. My girlfriend makes me happy. File the divorce and move out of the marital house first....that's the baseline advice for post marriage dating. Some divorces can take years. As an atheist knowing that my existence on this ride is limited, I'll make my own timeline up for getting back on the horse.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 05:28 PM
1

Women love men with declining sex drives and testosterone.... we can go for hours.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 05:27 PM
3

It could have been pure anxiety. As another poster mentioned, Margot Robbie could be naked and squatting over my face and nothing would wiggle down below. That's how bad low T can be.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 05:22 PM
2

I was starting to struggle with low testosterone symptoms for a few years.... the divorce completely drained my body of testosterone and I was almost functionally impotent. I'm also 42.... which isn't old, but typically these issues start creeping on men around this age. Do you have a strong libido? Do you look at attractive women and think about ravaging them or not? I personally don't and that's my problem. My parts work, but they don't work without touch and just the right mood. It fucking su…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 04:46 PM
4

Age? Low testosterone and general libido issues are waaaaaaaaaaaay more common than we know of. Most men won't exactly volunteer this info unless at gun point, so our statistics on this are very bad.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 03:08 PM
10

Mine should be next Thursday. Congrats to you too.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 03:14 PM
2

Online dating makes height and looks matter more... you need to get past that filter they put in their profile preferences, but a good person can land a good chick. A co-worker of my girlfriend (30M prob 7) just smashed a 9 HOT friend of both of ours this past weekend because he's a nice guy. This chick is hot as fuck. The dude's like 5' 7'' with a small cock apparently -- but he's hitting a 9 in her mid 20s. I use TRT.... it's a god send. I don't hide that from anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 09:00 PM
1

I probably have a bit of a big head myself. I'm a 6' 5'' attractive fit business owner with muscles. I try to be modest around others as much as possible.... but, damn -- when you know your worth, you spend it. Life is short.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 08:18 PM
1

I settled for a woman who cheated on me.... was well below me in the physical appearance category and really not a fun person -- out of convenience and inexperience with women. If online dating existed as it does today in 2021, no possible way would I have dated her, married her and had 2 children with her. The only positive thing is that she makes good money and the post-divorce destruction was minimal. Just signed the final judgement documents an hours ago. I have a house worth $100k more, sno…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 08:15 PM
2

Women won't work on things any longer if they tell their friends and family it's over. If she told them...it was game over. Men don't care, we can talk shit about the wife and still go back and try to make it work.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 06:36 PM
5

She's probably a normal woman. You still have to deal with that reality and live your life. There's no magic in this world. Love is a chemical response for bonding purposes. Orgasms and sex drive are just biological functions meant to keep the species going....nothing more. I enjoy life more with a good woman, but I know the cold truth is that we have a give and take relationship.....you can fight it or you can accept it and spend your time on this planet in a way that is tolerable until you die…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 05:39 PM
4

Welcome to my world. I had to divorce her though, she forced me by being a bitch 24/7. She's more "happy parenting alone"..... but, dates and gets ghosted nonstop regardless.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 05:30 PM
2

Women are always "working on themselves". My logic: I am what I am, like it...or not. Started the divorce in September '20. Didn't change a thing except put on 25 lbs. of muscle.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/21 05:40 PM
2

Divorce should cancel alimony. In fact, there should be no alimony. Split assets and end it all.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/21 05:07 PM
1

I really believe most people are narcissists to some point. The term is being used so frequently these days it's losing a lot of the steam it once had.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/21 09:57 PM
0

Maybe a 75 year old man who's facing the same outcome.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 02:02 PM
5

She'll die alone.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 01:13 PM
2

Hey, I'm not your competition anymore :)
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 03:19 AM
1

I'm 6' 5" and athletic. It was shooting fish in a barrel. Wasn't really interested in fucking around for long and I'm now in a monogamous relationship, we met on Match.com.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 02:07 AM
3

My new girlfriend loves sex..... she's pretty much a twice a day gal. I started TRT to essentially keep up. Well, there's too many advantages to count...but this jarred me into action.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 02:05 AM
3

I believe mine hated me for years. She just couldn't rule the roost and it infuriated her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 11:23 PM
10

I had the best sex my ex-wife and I ever had the night before I decided to leave her. Sex alone isn't worth it... there has to be more.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 09:35 PM
2

She has probably slept with numerous men. Keep that in mind. You're 25 and basically at the starting line in life. Just move on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 10:02 PM
1

Same.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/21 01:51 AM
1

Depends on how long or how serious she is with this guy. At some point most divorcing parents end up with new significant others. If done right I don't see the issue.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 04:38 PM
1

I'm taking over my family business....the one I mostly built, just after the divorce is final. Anyhow, 2 years is plently of time before dating again.... you can't expect someone to just sit around for multiple years waiting for the government to act. I know it sucks, but....life is short. If she started this relationship before moving out or before the separation, I'd be mad....anything after that is fair game in my opinion. The lying to your kids part is a problem. Why can't she admit to havin…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 04:31 PM
3

2 year divorce process is pretty long. Why is it taking so long?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 03:08 PM
1

It really matters how the divorce came about. Was it mutual or did he get shocked with it out of the blue?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 05:25 AM
1

How exactly is he acting? I just ran this by my girlfriend and she's wondering what you're dealing with.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 12:10 AM
1

Let me ask... How did you divorce go down? Was it something you wanted or was it a shock? I personally wanted out for years and years. I had a relapse within the first few months, but recovered and stayed the course. I guess it depends on the situation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 11:01 PM
3

This is kind of true. My girlfriend got frustrated with the process on my end, but I was fully upfront with her about my situation. Just tell the truth. I also waited till I was 100% settled with my decision. Nobody should date if they might reconcile with the stbx.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 10:04 PM
1

Yup. Worked out for me. I didn't divorce to be single, I did it because my ex sucked. 6 months along with the girlfriend....9 months since separation from the ex. Divorce final in a couple weeks.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 10:03 PM
3

The difference between divorcing a non-working mother and a well paid working mother is staggering. My divorce will be final within the next 2 weeks. Very little child support will be paid and no alimony. Just bought a house bigger than the marital home a week ago. Beyond that, I'm sitting peachy. She made 6 figures. Always get a prenup with your spouse if you get married, but especially marriages to someone with a more modest income potential.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 09:09 AM
1

I get the final decree from my ex's lawyer this week. Funny thing, I'm the plaintiff.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 06:01 PM
4

Women move on about 2 years before men....so, this is true. Also, if she's even remotely attractive...she'll cycle through numerous men. Imagine staying friends with her while knowing the train that will almost certainly be run on her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/21 11:12 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/21 01:55 AM
2

Funny story. My current girlfriend and I had a fight over a misunderstanding....she tried taking my X-Box out of anger. WTF does the video game system always get snatched by the woman? Lol
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/21 09:40 PM
3

That's antiquated as fuck. 1 year...good god
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/21 08:57 PM
3

Women are programmed to seek out the best option for survival.... that's the challenge men have and why I started a new relationship before I take over my family business. The business I made into what it is today.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 05:34 PM
2

My ex just got off my plan yesterday and the divorce is almost final. I'm in a new relationship and she has weaponized it to gain the upper hand in child custody. Soooo....I fine tooth combed her phone records and found she's staying at her unofficial boyfriend's house quite often. She's not breaking any rules...but, I'm also not trying to limit her time with the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 04:58 PM
2

This be true.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 04:07 PM
3

You won't be friends with her.... The minute either one of you has a significant other, it's done. A few guys pull it off, but it's a small minority of cases.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 04:06 PM
8

Women can do this.... they're hard wired to move on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/21 03:44 PM
2

Welcome to the club bro. 1 million dudes join the divorced ranks in the U.S each year.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/21 02:01 AM
9

Congrats. I'm within 3 weeks supposedly of being done with mine. Almost 6 months with the new girlfriend....8 months since the separation and I'm doing well. My ex is just a wooden personality who's attitude chased me off. Anyhow, almost done.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/21 02:15 AM
3

Get your testosterone levels checked. Not sure what age you are, but in many cases low levels can wreak hell on your mental wellbeing.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/21 07:30 PM
2

It really has. My girlfriend has been with me since month 2 of the separation and now we have been together for 6 months. I'm happy when with her, but can start falling into depression after being away from her. So, I'd say it has helped. I didn't decide to divorce my ex to be single, I did it because living with her was intolerable. My girlfriend and I get along much better.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/21 11:13 PM
2

The problem is that the tech-left has enough beta allies to sink us. We are not represented by the tech-left. They'll throw us under a bus for a crumb of pussy without a second thought about it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/21 06:55 PM
2

The problem I always have is that most motivational speakers always use religion as a way to heal. It's hard as fuck to heal as a non-believer. The only way I could figure out how to replace what I lost was to replace the person. As a non-believer, turning to god isn't an option.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/21 06:52 PM
2

My ex cheated on me for 9 months with 4 different men while attending church while I stayed away from the place. Religion is for people scared of dying or for those with nothing better to do on Sunday.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 04:56 PM
3

No support from me starting Oct 1st. No alimony either. Pro tip - If you're gonna get married, pre-nup that sucker or marry a chick that makes money. My ex made 6 figures. The rest is history.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 04:43 PM
3

I was cheated on before I got married to this person and never really got over it. Never get back with a cheater -- ever.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/21 07:00 PM
2

Tell the guy's wife. Show her the screen shots if you have them.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/21 01:04 PM
4

Gonna need a bit more info bro.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/21 09:40 PM
2

Tough read with the grammar mistakes. Anyhow, just divorce her ass and move on. If you don't have kids together this should be a walk in the park.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/21 05:23 PM
1

Men don't mention being half committed and all the other female terms for being too scared to just outright make a move on something. It's always a lingering mystery with them. My ex was still dropping code words for still trying to work on things. I was the one trying to get her back. She wasn't even a catch in the least, but she's the mother of my kids and presented the easiest path in life. I'm glad it's over now, but I still know the easy route was with her.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/21 01:40 PM
2

Imagine a man saying any of these things. LOL Your wife will be fat for the duration of her natural life. You may see her slim down to snag a new dude, but she'll go right back to the same weight you want out from.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/21 12:28 PM
3

Get in the best shape you can get into....put yourself in position to replace what you lost. I felt exactly the same until I met my girlfriend. I wasted little time moping around and letting arbitrary amounts of time pass. Get a new woman.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/21 01:50 PM
3

Without kids it sounds easy from my point of view, but that's with little knowledge.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/21 08:43 PM
3

I'm almost done with my divorce after 7 months. I have been seeing a woman for 5 months and I love the woman and want her and her 2 kids she regularly has live with her....living with me at the end of the summer. Gotta make a choice, do you want to sit around 15 nights per month alone with the kids or involve someone in your life. Lot's of guys will call me a simp or sucker, but sleeping alone 6 out of 10 nights isn't the life I wanted.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/21 04:46 PM
5

I was cheated on by the same woman I married -- before being married, I'm not one to talk. Divorce is onto month 7 now and I have been with a woman for almost 5 months. I waited till after the separation to move on. Not everyone does apparently.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/21 04:38 PM
6

You let you wife go on long walks with another man willingly?
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/21 04:11 PM
1

Yup, that's what happened to me. Now, my ex holds the reins in the final days of the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/21 02:00 AM
5

The pain lessened for me over time. So glad I never killed myself, even though I considered it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 09:13 PM
2

I enjoy Facebook groups that are personally interesting to me. The rest of it is trash.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 02:46 PM
3

Facebook daily motivational quotes are so irritating.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 02:43 PM
4

This.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/21 03:23 AM
1

I can't even believe that's a law to be honest. The cause of the divorce shouldn't matter when figuring out finances.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/21 03:22 AM
2

Soy Boys do tend to smile like that.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 11:35 AM
1

I think we all need to move at our own pace. I creeped your profile a bit and you seem to be at the opposite end of the spectrum. I'm 41 also.... was in a verbally abusive relationship for at least 10 years ot more. My ex is a genetic copy of her mother and the father inlaw dealt with the same shit I did. Just glad to move on....divorce almost finished. Flying out for a vacation with the 5 month girlfriend tomorrow and I'm psyched.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 09:46 PM
2

Women are hardwired to move on. This isn't something you can fix. Deal with the cards you're dealt.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 08:11 PM
2

I was suicidal before meeting my new girlfriend, been together almost 5 months now and it's pretty serious. The divorce is almost final, I moved out back in October before meeting her. She also teases me about being the mistress. Not sure why everyone thinks moping around and lifting weights is the only solution. Now, I lift weights pretty hardcore and I'm a tall good looking man...it helped that I had my pick of the ladies. Some guys might find the frustration with rejection tough...I didn't ha…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 08:04 PM
0

I moved on soon and it was the best decision I ever made. Marriage is a more recent human invention, I don't think humans are made to sit around and wait for some arbitrary amount of time to pass before dating or finding someone new. Married 15 years, I found someone new a few months post separation and I'm happy. My ex wasted years of my life, she doesn't get to waste more of it. I'd probably move out first though.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/21 11:35 AM
2

You'll get over her. It's easier without kids too.... with kids it takes a bit longer. I have a diabetic son I coordinate care with her on....that made the process harder, but I'm good now. Don't listen to others here when they go on about how you need to take this long break and improve yourself. Get a lawyer, move out and find someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/21 09:45 PM
14

Looking at nude pictures of your own wife is rape. That's new.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/21 10:13 PM
2

I was pretty nice to my ex while married, I became mean after filing. She was mean while married and tried to be nice afterwards. Kind of would be nice if she did that in reverse.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/21 03:25 PM
7

We need to get conservatives into the family court system. It's steady stream of feminists and beta men filling out the ranks.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/21 11:26 PM
10

I'm in the heat of this right now. I have to kiss the mother's ass to get 50% time. And we have joint custody.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/21 11:24 PM
1

Wrong thread. I'm dealing with this myself too...
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/21 09:50 PM
3

That's his issue.. It's my issue too.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/21 03:08 PM
1

It's a sign of sub 400 total testosterone levels. if the dick works, but barely.... if you don't crave sex..... It's your testosterone levels. You can fix that in 2021.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/21 03:08 PM
2

My lawyer has been next to useless. She almost never checks in with me or answers my questions. The woman never opened her mouth at our custody hearing to advise me. Worthless waste of money. Use online divorce services unless you have a lot of assets or own a business.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/21 11:20 PM
1

Then do what you need to do at a pace that feels right for you. It made no difference in my situation. Just wait till you're in a separate residence, it should be easy to keep downlow at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/21 11:14 PM
1

She's bound by laws either way. Having a new love interest doesn't change a thing. If you want to sit around and mope about it, do it...if you want to resume life with someone...do it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/21 06:44 PM
0

Yea, I don't understand the whole "wait a year or two schtick". I'm 6 months from the date of separation....met my GF 4 months ago and we're going to be getting a house this summer. I'll be dead in roughly 40 years, who has time to burn? Find love....life will feel more full. She has 4 kids, I have 2. My kids love her....and I do quite a bit myself :)
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/21 08:01 PM
6

Dating during separation means next to nothing for the courts. I would just heed any advice a lawyer might give in case laws are different considering your state. My state has no laws stating that I have to sit by myself at home and stare at a calendar waiting to be happy. I started dating immediately after I separated and I'm glad I did.... I couldn't give two shits about my ex, I live alone and just won 50% custody of my kids. My new girlfriend is amazing. Life is good now. I never understood …
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/21 07:55 PM
7

I started looking at the 12 gauge myself a few times. Not worth it. I know this will be history at some point down the road and she just isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/21 09:11 PM
0

Everyone is different. I started dating after separation and already have a steady girlfriend. My separation from the ex-wife (15 years) started in September. I was the one who pulled the trigger on the divorce, so it wasn't shocking or unexpected, I just really wanted a better relationship. My situation, I'm tall and probably an 8 or 9 for my age (41).....so I can bang whatever I want...but I really wanted a relationship. Life is boring alone unless you have a lot of friends, which I don't have…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/21 02:50 PM
3

I'm a good father currently on a kangaroo court trial (custody) to see whether I can have my children 50% of the time after a divorce. Ask me who needs to get fought for?
/r/MensRights17/03/21 12:39 PM
2

I'm fairly moderate, but a hard-core liberal chick is just nauseating.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/21 02:37 AM
1

My new girlfriend is conservative and I love it. Don't waste a minute of your life with a liberal woman, it's just not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/21 12:38 AM
2

Men have adjusted to life with women in a modern world, but women haven't yet adjusted to men in a modern world. This is why we have 55% divorce rates and women file the majority of them.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/21 12:15 AM
1

Probably.... she grieved the whole thing over a number of years. Not sure I really have any solid advice beyond just telling you to find someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/21 10:48 PM
4

Most divorces happen because the woman wants it, they emotionally move on quicker.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/21 03:59 PM
1

Women move on much quicker than men. It can be shocking how emotionless they can be, but the relationship for many is just about business. Just another reason why I lost my religion and don't prize the union of marriage like previous generations did.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/21 01:40 PM
1

Nice recipe for a future divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/21 08:24 PM
1

Because they want a modern approach to how finances, child rearing and life in general transpires. Why do you think we have a 55% divorce rate. My new girlfriend knows who's boss and that's making both of our lives all the more happier. Too many cooks in the kitchen these days.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/21 06:33 PM
15

Don't marry "professional women" unless you want to get divorced down the road. That's what I have learned.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/21 03:11 PM
2

How much time did you have your kids? You mentioned child support being "doable" as if it was high, yet you made the same as your wife.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/21 03:27 AM
2

I got really lucky, my kids almost act like nothing happened. 9 boy with type 1 diabetes & 13 year old girl
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/21 02:39 AM
21

When a woman is set on splitting, it's over. Men don't hold grudges and are FAR more likely to try reconciliation. When a woman accepts the marriage is over...even if you initiate the divorce. It's over. Ask me how I know this. Women don't play devil's advocate and counter their friend's situation with a second view, they support whatever position is currently in mind. Men fight wars to the death and then a decade later each country might be an ally. We move on.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/21 09:55 PM
1

Just lift weights and fast if you have any fat on your body. Improve your testosterone levels, reduce estrogen. Estrogen will make you moody and sad. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 04:36 PM
3

The person wanting the divorce is almost always on the prowl for a replacement. Getting past that will do wonders for you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/21 06:48 PM
1

Same here. I'm 41, didn't wait even a full month. Time moves fast, I'm 5 months out of a 20 year relationship and 11 weeks with my girlfriend. This whole "wait a year" crap is unrealistic.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/21 03:27 AM
1

$4k here. But, no trial. You do a trial and it's gonna start at $8k.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/21 09:09 PM
12

Get the fuck out of there
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/21 11:58 PM
2

I'm 41 and I have 2 kids from a marriage that's being dissolved. I think the goal of a relationship at my stage of life is companionship, but there are certainly risks. If you have a good network of friends, you might do better alone.
/r/MensRights09/01/21 12:07 AM
5

Be a nihilist like me. "It really doesn't matter". Go outside on a clear night and stare at the stars. You'll understand what I mean.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 12:44 AM
2

It probably depends on the situation. If you're deeply in love with your spouse and the divorce comes out of the blue, you might need quite a bit of time. I wanted out for years, so I craved a relationship where I was happy.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 06:31 PM
1

I had numerous rebound women, this one is a keeper. I barely care about my ex now.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 05:51 PM
2

He needs a new woman. 15 year marriage. I'm damn close to baseline in 4 months. Just find someone new.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 06:02 AM
2

6' 5'' 199 lbs. I was 270 at one point....wasn't hard to do at all.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 08:42 PM
3

Women don't mourn divorce like men. They generally seem cold and without a care in the world.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 08:40 PM
6

Wait....she called you and left the phone off the hook so you could hear her getting fucked? Jesus man..
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 08:39 PM
7

I can write a post simply saying, "I'm sad today without my kids".... and it will be upvoted and downvoted all day long.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/20 09:17 PM
13

I hate my ex twice as much after filing than I did before filing. It's really rare for a friendship to be possible when new significant others start coming on the scene.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/20 10:36 PM
19

Can't deny it.....the thought crossed my mind during my divorce process. Lost access to my kids and started losing my mind. Glad I didn't, my business is booming and I found a super lady since then.
/r/MensRights24/12/20 01:22 AM
15

The main reasons why 55% of marriages end. The woman wants a non stop fountain of praise. She doesn't get it...she develops an icy attitude and the days are numbered from that moment forward.
/r/MensRights23/12/20 08:06 PM
1

Sign me up!
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/20 12:44 AM
4

Men and women cannot be friends like that. She was planning to cheat from the beginning. Did you wait until being married to have sex? If so, that was mistake #1.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/20 09:09 PM
1

Exactly what I was thinking. I also wouldn't have met my new girlfriend and actually become happy. Bye bye to the grouch.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/20 10:11 PM
0

I'd be already moved out. My ex cheated on me before we were married and I could never get over it. I'm glad we're divorcing, I already have a new woman with a clean slate. Much happier.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/20 06:47 PM
0

Find someone new. Brother, I'm 4 months in and I found an amazing lady who has me infatuated right now. I still care about my ex finding a guy and bringing him into the house, but I'm getting past most of the pain. Key, FIND SOMEONE.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/20 06:21 AM
8

Kind of cryptic message. Are you staying married?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/20 12:19 AM
2

Never marry a woman with a low income unless you prenup.
/r/MensRights13/12/20 12:38 AM
2

Yup, I'm emerging from this hole right now. It gets better. 15 years....and I decided it was enough. But, I crawled back.....now after meeting a new woman...I'm over her for the most part.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 11:39 PM
2

Same, I find myself only thinking about the positive times. It was probably 95% crap with her and I just don't remember it as a single event like the good times. My ex is emotionally stiff.....she's dull and doesn't have a funny bone in her body, but being with her is comfortable. I'm with a new woman now and she's much more fun, even though we're very limited in what we can do right now with kids and COVID. All jokes are on the table and she cares what I have to say.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/20 04:35 PM
2

Allergies to cats in our house and type 2 diabetes killed my marriage. I moved out months ago, the allergies are gone and I lost weight and have a tight body now. All those problems are gone, but the marriage is toast.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/20 07:43 PM
3

I found a new woman and I'm feeling much better. I'd move on. I actually did outdoor dining on a cold night to meet her. It was worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/20 01:19 PM
3

Mine is similar to "familiarity". I do think without the burden of child rearing hanging over our heads we could live the rest of our lives together, but....she's not willing to bend toward reconciliation or therapy. I have been dating and already found women much better for me. Just waiting for the right one and a bit of time to tick by.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/20 09:10 PM
3

Cheer up man... We're in this together. I'm suffering from depression like nobody's business right now. You're not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/20 09:55 PM
11

Sounds like you have a woman in your life.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/20 09:42 PM
2

Going through this myself right now. Weekend nights are the worst. You're not suffering alone brother.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/20 12:03 AM
5

My marriage was ended by me 6 weeks ago, I have the occasional lapse, but train is still on the tracks with divorce. I'm losing access to my kids.
/r/MGTOW05/11/20 08:27 AM
5

I'm sure another female employee figured it out and got jealous. Probably a competing female wanted to put a wrench in the competition.
/r/MGTOW30/10/20 07:29 PM
3

My sisters both agreed with this yesterday. One mentioned how women don't like to divorce too late in life since they clearly don't age as well as men. My sisters aren't part of the problem, but they know how things are.
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 05:06 PM
1

I'm 41 and I'd swipe right. She's not going to get much at her age
/r/MGTOW24/10/20 02:21 AM
38

Imagine if she did give him AIDS. Wow, that would be the worst simp screwover of all time.
/r/MGTOW24/10/20 01:53 AM
19

Already had that done 7 years ago.
/r/MGTOW01/10/20 02:18 AM
43

Was at a Canadian snowmobile camp 2 years ago and all the Canadian guys were JEALOUS AF that we had Trump.
/r/MGTOW24/09/20 04:29 AM
3

Condoms aren't natural.... the feeling sucks tbh. Your sensitivity will lower as you get older...at 41, you will struggle to get off with a condom.
/r/MGTOW21/09/20 02:20 AM
20

I'm on the plantation. It's true. I want off this nightmare of a ride.
/r/MGTOW17/09/20 08:35 PM
1

A great deal of them won't give white men the time of day in dating apps. They're the least likely demographic to step outside of their race. Never understood that.
/r/MGTOW13/09/20 12:37 PM
0

I'm cutting while lifting.... so I wonder if I'm taking in enough protein and calories to gain right now.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 12:49 AM
1

What do each weigh? I'm a shitty situation with plates. I'm doing like 30 reps right now because I have a lack of any decent sized plate.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 12:47 AM
1

Well, if it weren't for the fact they look exactly like me.... The suggestions aren't far off base, but in the case I'm pretty sure they're mine.
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 02:09 AM
54

6' 5" and muscular here. Above average looks. I got cheated on by my wife before being married, stupidly enough I married her and now I'm stuck on the plantation. I'd be gone if it weren't for my special needs son. My wife just wants to squeeze all the work out of me as possible, she doesn't care what I look like. My message to guys that aren't traditionally attractive.... it happens to chads too.
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 08:15 PM
10

Translation = smoking weed and playing PS4 is more enjoyable than her.
/r/MGTOW06/09/20 09:20 PM
5

99.9% of men use their hand. They can't say that.
/r/MGTOW05/09/20 09:00 PM
4

These articles are produced by leftwing writers to remind powers that be to shut us down. They like to keep everyone aware that we're still here and still a problem.
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 01:52 PM
2

I work out often and I (no homo) look at other dudes pics all the time for inspiration.
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 01:50 AM
37

Dude... I'm 6' 5" 225 and muscular. Thinking we're all dorks couldn't be further from the truth. I'm 41 btw. Most women look like trash by this point in their life, I'm peaking.
/r/MGTOW26/08/20 01:16 AM
3

They do. Women have no hobbies, what do you expect them to do with free time? COVID has been horrible for single women, men... not so much.
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 07:36 PM
4

Well, I do love my kids... My wife and I have our interlocking genitals in common. That's about it. LOL Stay single my friends.
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 07:05 PM
6

It's something to ride, but nobody is proud to admit it. That's my honest guess.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 03:56 AM
1

I'm 41 years old. Not exactly young....but none the less, it is what it is. I'm not sure how she'd handle being chased by other men though.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 02:04 AM
18

True. Been a long time since I have had that option. I'm fit, tall and built... but I'm married to a fat chick. So my wife has a solid dude, but like most men I'm stuck with something else. Here's the thing.... 100 years ago that was most women. Obesity didn't exist hardly. Every woman was fit. Now they're rare as fuck. Before anyone asks, I'm here for the kids. Boring marriage. My life's purpose is to warn other men not to make my mistake.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 01:35 AM
22

There are men who will fuck a 1/10 with an STD. I personally know a woman who fits this and she has men still trying to bang her with a rubber.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 08:18 PM
52

A fat chick's pussy and a thin chick's pussy feels nearly the same... It's all about the visuals and slapping noises that will change the experience.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 07:23 PM
7

Most of these women are fat and their husband has no interest in fucking them. He keeps the wife around for stability. Ask me how I know this.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 01:58 PM
1

Sadly, this app will be popular with beta males and liberal men in general. Liberals hate opposing viewpoints, they are too offensive!
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 02:29 PM
2

Masstagger victim.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 01:31 AM
2

She's gonna get half whether you cheat or not. Maybe just give her an ultimatum now and see what happens. I did with my wife, but it had more to do with her weight. I flat out told her I'd rather be single as opposed to being married to a fat wife. Actually, I'd rather be single in any scenario. She knows it. I'm running the show over here.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 06:02 PM
1

Keep in mind, your desirable period in life is much longer than hers. You can look good into your upper 50s and maybe 60s while she'll be lucky to look ok by 35.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 02:07 AM
6

Same
/r/MGTOW15/08/20 11:04 PM
19

You 100% cannot be healthy and morbidly obese. Also, this has made the value of thin women way higher than it should be and in reality they're just normal. Those women are normal, nothing more.
/r/MGTOW14/08/20 08:49 PM
1

Women want to appear to be nice to leave that option open.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 06:02 PM
1

Oh, getting breadcrumbed by a chick who's talking to 15 guys at once?
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 06:08 AM
1

A woman that attractive will almost certainly have a dozen men each day attempt to sway her away from you. She will eventually bail on you when the offer is too good to pass up. Imagine being guaranteed the life of stress free luxery just for the way you look. That's going to be her life.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 07:59 PM
10

Men usually leave women to be alone. Women leave men because they have someone lined up.
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 11:18 PM
1

So I went through the moderator's post history. 1 in 3 comments have to do with racism, sexism and banning people from his subreddit. We have a real peach on our hands with this guy. I can also state that this is common behavior from liberal minded people. They're the ones promoting and perpetuating cancel culture. I was banned after 8 years from a political forum because I was found to post at a rival, more conservative leaning forum. I broke no rules, I simply posted on another forum and I was…
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 11:09 PM
73

Stick to outdoor sports that involve engines to avoid libs. Instead of surfing, go jetski. Instead of mountain biking, go ride a dirtbike. Instead of skiing, go ride a snowmobile. Problem solved.
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 12:59 PM
99

Women love to rationalize everything with poorly attributed catchphrases and cheerleading bad behavior. Men just want little drama and a non-fat woman. Getting that combo is tough as fuck.
/r/MGTOW30/07/20 02:42 PM
52

There is a lack of thin women. Most men will never get an opportunity with a normal weight woman. They can get dudes even while being fat, so the motivational factor isn't there.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 02:50 PM
24

My mother still has a role in our family business and it's a nightmare.
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 12:47 AM
6

https://youtu.be/UEiMv4mCI1g
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 06:48 PM
10

Go on another date with her and bring your phone with earbuds. Play PUBG mobile the entire date and then walk out without paying the bill.
/r/MGTOW13/07/20 11:29 PM
25

That's the end result of having NO HOBBIES. Women drive men nuts without any interests besides work or TV.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 05:20 PM
8

Which is coming eventually.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:58 PM
20

This. And it gives us something to sink our time into other than her.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:57 PM
12

The open mouth smile.
/r/MGTOW26/06/20 11:11 PM
2

The options are pretty slim...... and by slim I don't mean the women. Most chicks are fat.
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 05:28 AM
26

That was clearly her soulmate... Whelp, maybe in another life. It's not like there's another guy out there looking for that type of skank.
/r/MGTOW19/06/20 05:42 PM
32

Holy shit.
/r/MGTOW08/06/20 04:35 PM
4

A land whale could tally 50 a year with little effort.
/r/MGTOW29/05/20 03:07 PM
1

It's a dude pretending to be a chick. Voice chat screws with his con job.
/r/MGTOW26/05/20 12:41 AM
30

I lifted my right butt cheek and blasted a loud fart on that comment.
/r/MGTOW24/05/20 11:28 PM
17

Intellectual willhelm Did Intellectual Willhelm get banned by Twitter?
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 03:08 AM
4

The big bucks are available now, but once competition increases, the profit will decrease.
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 08:33 PM
1

I like this. Make sure everyone associates Onlyfans and other similar websites as SEX WORK. You sell a scantily clad pic of yourself online -- you're a SEX WORKER.
/r/MGTOW15/05/20 08:58 PM
4

Wait till she's 35. (I'm 41 and I look better than ever) /shameful gloat.
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 12:39 AM
5

Women are big into supporting each other, so if you get downvoted by one, you'll get downvoted by all of them. Imagine a man actually downvoting that comment, because I can bet at least 1 did.
/r/MGTOW09/05/20 01:48 PM
1

At least she's honest.
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 06:23 PM
7

"The regulars aren't doing it" That's because you screened the "regulars" with your ban hammer. Liberals do this shit all the time. Ban every right leaning person and then gang up on the remaining moderates.
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 03:27 AM
3

No real man votes for democrats. Betas, pussies and other castoff miscreants -- that's the democratic base.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 07:48 PM
1

Women are only funny when men write good jokes for them to tell. Even then the delivery usually sucks.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 07:54 PM
1

I'm sure the site has thresholds that require IRS reporting. I own a small seafood business and we ship to all 48 states. When we crossed a certain threshold, the hosting platform alerted us that special verification was required due to IRS requirements. Basically, they needed to make sure uncle sam knew the kind of cash we were generating.
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 08:18 PM
81

Make a fake dating profile with an average to slightly below average women -- inbox overload. Make a profile with a 9/10 dude.... maybe 10 messages.
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 06:25 PM
1

The fat beta in the bottom right had me in tears.
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 03:48 PM
5

Yup. I stopped right about that time too.
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 05:08 AM
2

This guy is joking BTW. One peek at his twitter page clears things up.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 06:33 PM
6

He thinks it will pay off for him in the end. He's fishing for attention from his female followers. Hoping that at least one wants to talk about their problems with him. Then, he'll try and make a move.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 06:30 PM
17

They get duped into overestimating their value because most guys will fuck anything. Now, those same guys might not want anymore than a single pump and dump -- but they'll now assume they appraise for a higher value due to this encounter or 20.
/r/MGTOW19/04/20 07:37 PM
2

Don't get me started on filters.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 11:48 PM
8

Women have no self control.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 02:41 PM
7

Reddit is run by liberals.... they quarantine all right-leaning forums. I'm a member here and The_Donald. The_Donald shifted to another domain.
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 01:21 PM
1

I think it's just a goof troll profile. The pic was probably lifted from a Google Search.
/r/MGTOW17/04/20 01:57 AM
7

But muh hair fell out because I'm a loser scrote. All in seriousness, how can you control hair loss?
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 05:29 PM
27

The video game concern is odd.... Having a woman with an actual hobby is rare as hell.
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 05:14 PM
10

7 Billion, but who's counting?
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 05:12 PM
3

Good for him.
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 12:28 PM
14

Everyone in that house votes democratic.
/r/MGTOW10/04/20 10:01 PM
5

I'm on the plantation.
/r/MGTOW09/04/20 04:03 AM
16

My cousin took his own life after a breakup.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 06:59 PM
3

This would all but end fat chicks getting men these days. Why waste your time with Miss Fat ass when you can drop $100 on an hour with a hot female.
/r/MGTOW30/03/20 02:11 AM
6

Paying for pussy is/has been a part of human civilization for eons. And it will be legal everywhere again.... We're basically living in a short period of history where sex prohibition is the rule of the land. Weed used to be a big deal, now we have billboard along all major freeways advertising where to get the best bud. There's nothing wrong with wanting to pay for pleasure and nothing beyond that. No prostitute ever pitched a complaint when her john wants to hang out with the guys instead of w…
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 10:59 PM
11

Depp always came off as someone who didn't get wrapped up in himself, even though he was a #1 A lister for years.
/r/MGTOW26/03/20 11:10 PM
22

Expensive pussy right there.
/r/MGTOW26/03/20 10:52 PM
12

I'm skeptical of this being actual "dogs". I think she's talking about her kids.
/r/MGTOW22/03/20 02:08 AM
0

Joke or not..... women are total babies about their birthdays.
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 02:27 AM
28

Hey look, a Democrat
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 02:38 AM
1

Not necessarily Chads. This chick could be fat as fuck.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 02:02 AM
3

I do like her shirt.... that's about it though. I'm from the area.
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:49 PM
4

Banned I see. Liberals always run these subreddits and they LOOOVE to stifle a voice they don't want to hear from. Fucking betas.
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 08:46 PM
3

Yes it is.
/r/MGTOW15/02/20 03:46 PM
7

This is the entire planet.
/r/MGTOW04/01/20 04:58 AM
19

Type 2 diabetes isn't random, it is a result of obesity.
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:11 PM
2

Being fat takes zero effort. There's nothing impressive about being flippant toward living unhealthy and letting yourself go.
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 08:43 PM
3

I hate the holidays. Was fun as a kid, now it's more headache than it's worth. I make sure my kids are taken care of and beyond that -- just get them over with.
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 08:42 PM
2

laughing
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 08:40 PM
66

I found this place after hearing a woman bitch about MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW23/12/19 03:05 PM
3

I peeked at her Instagram account.... as others suspected, she's nowhere near as attractive as this pic would lead you to believe.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 03:58 PM
6

Pull your pants down... Take a hammer and smash your nuts with them... and again, and again, and again, and again. Now, cut them off and call yourself Shirley for now on.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 10:02 PM
1

100 in a row! Nice..... I just started amping up my pushups... I'm at 30 in a row.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 09:45 PM
5

I'm 40 years old... lift weights, in the best shape of my life (tall too). I don't expect to hit my wall for another 20 years, maybe 25.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 07:36 PM
2

I think you have a point, but the root cause is that so many women are fat, there are very few options for men.... so fat chicks are in demand and they don't feel like they need to be nicer than a fit girl. Fit women just marry for money, looks really don't matter after you hit 30 years old.
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 09:49 PM
1

I argued with my wife about 10 years ago about why women can't be "players". She now agrees with me, they can't be. (I joined this subreddit while going through a divorce) my wife made all the concessions to improve herself, while I gave in to NOTHING. So, just dragging this along right now.
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 09:34 PM
2

Why is there a "max"? If you can do 100 of the things, all the power to ya.
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 09:14 PM
3

No American posting on this subreddit should be voting democratic. In fact, no man should be voting democratic. Unless you're a ball-less loser.
/r/MGTOW17/12/19 08:00 PM
3

My mom nags my father like any woman. That said, she's extremely loyal and never cared about money. Oddly, since she was a popular cheerleader type.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 06:01 PM
3

Cheating is NEVER right... but, screwing around with a married woman who's husband is a deployed soldier should result in jail time.
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 08:00 PM
14

Went through this myself once. My wife lost weight and so went went the ED problems. Told her to lose weight or we're done. She used to tell me how my looks weren't important and that she loved me either way. So, I lost weight and lifted a shit ton of weights.... she's chasing me around the house now. Funny how that worked out. I joined this subreddit during a divorse process... TBD how this plays out long term. I have a child with special needs, so I don't take bailing on the family lightly.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 09:13 PM
4

Women will honk and yell obscenities at men while in traffic knowing zero consequences will come of it. The guy will take it and that's the end of it.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 08:51 PM
3

People that look like her have commited zero terrorism. We just had 2 Islamic attacks in like 4 days in the U.S by people that are from the middle east. That's your answer.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 06:48 PM
1

It would be nice if apps capped the amount of concurrent chats. Second, you have to tell a woman you want to meet or quit talking in a set amount of time. No long duration chatathons, that's what they're after.
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 02:33 AM
7

Funny you say this.... There was another black man that said that BBC porn was highly offensive to him. His reasoning -- "we're not supposed to be a BDSM/fetish". He made a good point. Too often white girls will latch onto a black guy to piss off dad or an ex-boyfriend, not because they just happened to find a man they liked. I'm also going to follow that up by saying that all types of situations exist and many/most times they do find the person they love.
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 08:26 PM
8

Once they start working out or losing weight, it's not to cut down on the food budget -- it's to improve their resume. The gym is where women prepare for someone "better" than you.
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 07:20 PM
2

Big time sledder here.
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 09:46 AM
3

I know, but I don't want that customer.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:13 AM
2

I run a business and we advertise on Facebook.... I refuse to put a nickle into Instagram.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 03:18 AM
3

The moment I saw the blond I knew the movie was shit. Way too many women in this movie. I want muscular terminators in Arnold's class. It worked with Robert Patrick, but that was enough.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 12:51 AM
20

That's pretty much where I was. I'm 6' 5" 225 and muscular. She was 5' 9" 250 and fat as fuck.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 12:44 AM
5

Dealt with a similar thing myself. Told her i was gone if she didn't lose weight. So I left and she decided to take action and lost weight. She weaponized the topic like all women do, but I had enough. You have to leave, don't just threaten.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 12:43 AM
29

Thd ACLU is a troll organization.
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 01:14 AM
1

Of course. It's like paying to watch the WNBA while the NBA is around. Why would I watch a lesser product.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 01:39 PM
20

I can't imagine being trapped overseas and having no way to return home to sort out any bullshit that might be happening. He was probably tortured by the thought of her being plowed by another guy and snapped.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 07:39 PM
26

She's well known for having aged terribly.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 05:29 AM
12

You'll never hear about the lack of white inclusion in any country on earth -- even countries with ZERO white representation.
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 07:56 PM
-1

I'd rather see the Terminator use T-800's only.... and a lot of them. Skinned and un-skinned. We know females in the future are good fighters, Kyle mentioned this in the 1984 movie -- so I'm fine with female supporting cast, but not as the main character.
/r/MGTOW12/11/19 08:46 PM
5

Once they establish a spiritual connection during the seance, I wonder if she'll start asking about where he hid the cash? Or maybe just general bickering. The dude is dead and he'll still not be able to be free.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 05:15 PM
5

Men CAN peak in their 40's. When I was 25 years old, I was probably a 6. I'm 40 now and probably an 8 right now. I'm on the plantation, but -- I don't put up with the same shit I used to. The wife knows she's walking on eggshells. One more wrong move and I'm gone.
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 05:34 PM
11

This is where the .72 cents on the dollar myth comes from. They choose careers that simply don't pay.
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 05:32 PM
1

Those are urban American male democratic voters. The same kind that have never touched a fishing pole or gun in their lives.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 01:58 PM
9

She had a horrible attitude problem to go with it.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 07:56 PM
12

I told my wife to lose weight or I'm divorcing her. It was that simple. 2 months later, she's down 27 lbs. I know being married isn't popular here -- but I have two kids and my son has type 1 diabetes. I had 1 foot out the door, but that keeps me where I am.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 07:15 PM
9

Awareness is a given..... if you want to raise money for cancer research, just raise the fucking money for cancer research. Specifically targeting breast cancer is soy boy virtue signaling.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 07:13 PM
1

I smoke weed, but it's 100% legal in Michigan.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 07:08 PM
4

That slap was heard around the world. Celebrated by 50% of the population.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 04:07 PM
3

I don't drink. Solves all that right there.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 03:58 PM
116

Jeesh... this is too common. The perks of being a man, I probably look better at 40 than I did at 25. Just cut back on the calorie intake and do regular pushups, situps and dumbbell curls.
/r/MGTOW31/10/19 08:32 PM
2

How do people live near this kind of shit? I'm in Michigan -- we don't deal with this kind of shit here.
/r/MGTOW31/10/19 07:54 PM
7

Prostitution is illegal in most of the world because it would severely impact a woman's chances to date or marry.
/r/MGTOW31/10/19 05:43 PM
3

My mother does this to me all the time.
/r/MGTOW31/10/19 05:34 PM
2

Direct repercussion to online dating.
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 03:23 AM
11

She's too unattractive to think this is going to work.
/r/MGTOW25/10/19 05:38 PM
1

Pretty true. Unless you're on the cusp of a major medical breakthrough, we're all going through the motions. Just do your best and see what joy you can squeeze out of this short insignificant ride.
/r/MGTOW25/10/19 03:22 PM
4

Everybody loves Raymond is the worst.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 10:42 PM
5

Most women are fat after a certain age. Men thirst after female bodies that were average at one point. Typical women 50 years ago were not overweight. Now days, normal weight women are so rare that men are in heavy competition for the few thin ones. Unless you're sexually active as a teenager, it's likely you'll never sleep with a normal BMI female.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 02:09 PM
9

Yup.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 01:42 AM
3

Because they are scoring with married men. Online hookup sites have given rise to men in sexless marriages scoring with ANYTHING they can to get off. Go make a fake female profile on Ashley Madison with a landwhale and watch the phony profile pull down Chads like a highschool cheerleader.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 01:06 AM
120

Fat chicks often fuck far far far more men too. Guys don't churn through good looking women at the rate they'll churn through fat chicks.
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 07:24 PM
10

Not Thailand.
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 11:57 PM
3

Exactly. He went as far as hyping anti-vax for pussy. He embraced that movement to get into Jenny McCarthy's moist hole.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 03:02 PM
-12

Jim Carry is a leftist.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 03:23 AM
15

Some of my best memories were when I left my wife behind and rode my motorcycle into the middle of nowhere.... or when I snowmobile alone. Being by yourself is very relaxing.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 07:39 PM
2

6' 6'' 240 here. Keeping it real.
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