My head is scrambled

FUMoney · 2021-02-26T18:02:58+00:00

Your marriage is over. Begin the process. Stand up for yourself; don’t model victimhood behavior in front of your sons.

sicrm · 2021-02-26T18:07:05+00:00

she said “ do what you have to, can’t you just use your hand like everyone else?”

does this sound like someone who loves their husband?

forget counseling unless your lawyer says it will help your case. look for a lawyer ASAP and consider getting STD and DNA tests.

CHEPO1966 · 2021-02-26T18:34:28+00:00

I am sorry for the unworthy of your wife, and the damage caused to you and your children, in short to your family, look brother, sex in these moments of your life, should not be so essential, worry about doing things right, and start With your divorce, your ex will never regret the damage caused to your family, you know that she left, to be able to live another life with her AP, if you did not know, find out, you cannot bring her home again, she will not you care less about your children, at the moment, she is having her option B, like a life saver,

For the love of her to your children and yourself, do not bring her back, she will go back to fucking other guys, and she will continue to hurt your children.

I think that, both for your self-esteem, and the physical and psychological security of your children, it is better that you do not let that shit of a woman return to your family bosom, and you can reactivate your life, it is the healthiest thing, also your wife does not mistress, you can't live without love, and don't say she hasn't had sex, hee he left and left you for another guy, open your eyes brother, I don't see what's wrong if you have sex with this other woman, but I wouldn't be morally anyway Well, it is your decision, I believe for the good of you and your children, begin, to remove your ex from their lives, try to have as little contact as possible, and only speak if necessary, do not seek reconciliation, do not do yourself and don't do this to your family,

You are a good man and a great father, you deserve better than your ex,

I would recommend that you enroll in a gym and that you start doing physical activity, that will do you very well both physically and mentally. increase your self-esteem.

dday_throwaway3 · 2021-02-26T16:30:03+00:00

First, think with your big head instead of your little head. After divorce, there will be plenty of time for sex. Right now sex is a huge distraction.

She only agreed to marriage counseling because it's an industry that caters to women. Your wife will participate for as long as the counselor agrees with her. Because your wife doesn't think anything is wrong with her; you are the problem and you need to change. The last part is just gaslighting on her part, because she's unwilling to take accountability for her actions.

> I know for a fact she doesn’t have anyone else

For now. She moved out in Nov because there was someone else. Right now you are her Plan B because Mr. Wonderful dumped her. This isn't some opportunity for you to reclaim her love for you. That and her respect for you diminished quite some time ago. Women do not respect weak men, and men begging for a second chance are weak.

> she obviously isn’t missing sex

With you. That's the hard truth.

When I divorced, I had a dead bedroom for several years.

Bipolar_investor · 2021-02-27T07:48:59+00:00

A woman that says such thing to you, isn't worth wasting time trying to recollect the pieces. I have been there, heard the same shit, and made the mistake to fight for her. For a family she had already killed long before I was blindsided.

TastyWheat67 · 2021-02-27T15:13:24+00:00

There was a time when I didn't think that I could live without sex from my wife. I didn't want to be with anyone but her and if I went a week without it, I was hurt and upset. What a little bitch I was. Eventually she became repulsive to me. We men give away all our power because of sex. I'm in the middle of a very ugly divorce and to be honest, women look repulsive to me right now. My need for it, was my biggest weakness.
Now that it's under control, I can focus on what's more important. Just my opinion.

teej2017 · 2021-02-27T15:44:58+00:00

She left = she didn't care about you or your child. Look after your child, your future and your happiness. Forget about your ex, don't bother to fantasize about being back together with her. You're getting a second chance.

mnomoto · 2021-02-26T23:56:02+00:00

If she’s fine with going 6 months without sex, she is 100% fucking someone.

Jonger1150 · 2021-02-27T13:40:25+00:00

Women move on much quicker than men. It can be shocking how emotionless they can be, but the relationship for many is just about business. Just another reason why I lost my religion and don't prize the union of marriage like previous generations did.

capn_KC · 2021-02-27T14:02:03+00:00

Take a gander at this sermon. Anyone who doesn’t understand the importance of sex in marriage should watch it.

https://subsplash.com/cedarcreek/message-archive/mi/+bp2nfg9

Cusetown11 · 2021-03-01T00:27:19+00:00

Well we have our first counseling session this week. I’m excited to start.. I still want to have the marriage both of us deserve.. she also agreed to go out on a date with me. So things are looking good right now

Title	My head is scrambled
Author	Cusetown11
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	February 26, 2021 3:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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