I know a lot of men here are feeling lonely this Thanksgiving. It’s usually a time when you’re supposed to be with your family, feasting on some good food. But because of divorce proceedings, you might not have anyone to celebrate it with. Worse, you’ve drained your finances.

But try not to beat yourself up! (I said try because it’s easier said than done.) If there’s anything you can be thankful for, it’s that you’ll be out of an exhausting relationship.

Also, just for this one day, let yourself rest. Sleep in, order some good food, watch your favorite movies, or take a long walk with your dog. If neighbors or friends invite you to celebrate with them, I say go for it. It helps to surround yourself with things or people that can make you happy.