Hi,
My wife and i are in our early 40’s.
We have been in a relationship now for 25 years, and I need some advice from any men or women, that have been in long term relationships, and decided to leave, or stay? What did you do? What would you have done differently ?

We have 3 kids (all living at home) a house, pets, the whole 9…… but we are in more of an arrangement than a marriage. We haven’t been intimate in over 5 years, We sleep in different rooms (my choice, and not forced), and conversations between us are pretty bland, neither of us wanting to admit there’s a problem, or address it.

But we are still together, for all intents and purposes. We share bills, co-parent, run the house and duties, ect….. but it’s a sterile relationship, and I don’t know if this is as bad as it will get, and I just need to suck it up. Or if it can get much worse, and I should get out now.

I am unhappy in my current predicament, but I can’t decide if I should leave or not, as I’m not sure if things would be better or worse.

Any of your advice is appreciated