Well as the title says.. Im gonna vent some I have posted some of my previous situation but ill preface it i (55m). Her (50F) have been in in the middle of a div since july 2024 we were co-living until feb 25 she had spent 6 months turning my 2 sons against me. She got both of them high for their first time when then visited family in another state. I have nothing against except i am in construction so cant even if i wanted to. And when i am gone 10 hrs a day working it was easy for her any way. In feb I left the house because she convinced them i was going to do something to hurt her when I was simply asking for a package i wad waiting for that was delivered by mail and my youngest was threating yo whoop my ass yelling at me (i had no idea why ay the time) (she was in her bedroom behind her door i was in hallway asking her about it so my son was wanting to fight and my oldest came out of his room with a rifle and fired into the feeling towards me , i called the cops he got arrested .so i left thr house 13 feb 25 with a backpack of clothes that was it.

well i have only went back 2 time to get some of my thing that she put in the garage in june. Well went thru meditation in nov and feel i got screwed, we sale the house with 3 acres split it

1 had to give her 5k just to move out so i can list it 50% of my retirement. 900 a month in alimony and have to keep both my sons on my health ins. at my expence buy the date for her to be out of the house was today. And I have to have it on the market by 1 feb while still paying for my apt. The mortgage elect. Both places .. But i went out This morning first time in side the house in 11 months and holy hell the house id destroyed she haunted mowed outside in a year she left a dog that was mine inside that has shut all over the place and left barn cats in side with no litter box trash all over in every room ill have to replace the carpets sliding shower doors broken corners of drywall tore, up holes in the deck 2500 sq ft house took anything worth $ sold my tools and workbenchs weddings leads table saw material saw. And said she didn't want me to know her forwarding address so i couldnt talk to the kids i gad cameras set up in the hallways she tore them all down claiming privacy now she was able to say she was scared in feb i had them up to protect me . Didnt wPro Anyways im angry and extreamly overwhelmedhow to have it listed in 30 days while i still have a job and have to come up with at least $5-10,000 to repair everything.all after being alone literally for the entire holiday season all my is in another state and she was controlling to the point i don't have many friends she would make them uncomfortable and yeah .. Well there is my rant sorry yall