Hey fellas I have posted before so kinda an update when we went through divorce mediation and we are decided to sell the house and she has been living in it with my two adult sons for the last year the mediation stated that I had to have the house on the market by February 1st she had to be out of the house by January 1st I had to pay her $5,000 just to move out of the house 3000 when she signed a lease agreement 2000 on the day that she moved out unless she wasn't moved out by that date but she was gone but the house was just left in shambles she hasn't done any work outside in the last year there was trash all over the house s*** was broken I probably got $10,000 worth of work to do to the house I'm supposed to pay half of it but not until the house sells I get reimbursed but I got to come up with the money too for the repairs and I just got laid off today so when it rains it pours right I am still making the mortgage payment my apartment payment and trying to survive it looks like she rated Intel December 30th to start packing because nothing like there's stuff everywhere oh and she when I showed up January 1st she left my dog that I hadn't seen in a year and five cats in the house and they went everywhere sold all of my tools anything that I had that was able to get money even stuff that was listed in the in the paperwork as my personal stuff that I want back gone oh yeah and alimony starts on February 1st at $900 a month I'm so overwhelmed I'm sitting here at the house trying to clean up picking through 20 years of my life with my family that she just left trashed and all over the place disregarded it's so difficult emotional and angry sad show me emotions .....its ...God ..fuck