I am not near home or family.
I am not near a support system of any kind.
I am not near more career options, very rural and industry is dead.
Moreover, my work is niche/unique and options very limited.
I work 70+ hours a week.
She is near home, in fact, living with her parents, and works from home. Very high conflict as well, and not at all cooperative. Its a lot to deal with. Got blindsided.
We have a kid. Very young kid.
I get 76 days a year currently. Standard dad visitation.
She takes every chance to screw me.
Perspective on moving for seasonal custody??
It would give me quality time because I could get other jobs and have actual options. Huge improvement in job options.
Family and friends which I can have my kid bond with too for normalcy and I can not feel alone.
Stability of employment and dating pool, just having a life with time in it.
Longer blocks of time with my kid with real memories, not 3 days every 2 weeks.
The ability to get remarried at some point and have family and friends around when I do for support system.
Normalcy, which seems like a pipe dream right now, in essence, not feeling like I have to suck up the next 17 years.
Thoughts??
Screwed where I am. Do I suck it up and stay miserable, or change my environment?? For a long time since this began my heart has told me the answer is to go, but I want the opinion of divorced men...
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