I've been part of this sub and reading through your heartfelt posts for the past 5 months. My time has finally come where the separation is going to happen, most likely followed by divorce. My wife suffers from anxiety, depression, and is an alcoholic and gambling addict(pull tabs of all things). It started when I got COVID 4 months ago and I swear she'd rather I died than lived because I didn't get vaccinated. We've got 2 young kids, 1 boy at 5, 1 girl at 9. She's fallen off the rails. My mother and law and I have offered her to get help and go to rehab. She's been through rehab once before, but she's much worse now than when she went to rehab the first time. I won't go into the details, but the posts about documenting everything have been so helpful. I've been doing that and am hopeful it helps as I endeavor into this shit the next year I'm going to have to deal with. This sub has helped me and your stories and posts have, so thank you. Wish me luck.