To begin with, I stay out his marriage and business but it’s not fair what she doing to us. She smearing our reputation and etc. now her drama is towards me because I’m his sister and the closest to him. I wished I would have joined this forum sooner.

My brother is seeking a divorce and he’s in the military. Nevertheless he got his dream job and military called him away. He had always been active duty I tried to tell him that his soon to be ex wife was only a lesson. She wants to control everything of his and wants all his money. She treats my brother like build a bear. Always say “he didn’t say this” “he didn’t say that”, “I know him”, “that don’t sound like him” She wants the house, car, and every damn dime he has. He was just home over the weekend and had to miss his son birthday party. He had to leave out Sunday morning. She didn’t wanna schedule the party when he return home. She don’t mention him when sending birthday pictures or even add his picture.

She always throw a celebration especially the children birthday on days he can’t come home. Our family isn’t invited to the house or parties because we never know when.

He doesn’t want his kids feel that he abandoned them and things have changed. He’s a damn good dad to the kids. He gives those kids the damn world. She makes it feel like it’s her doing everything and he’s just not coming home.

Before he got this job me and her relationship was cordial. The more he climbed the ladder in his career, the worser she got. Previously he was coming home every night before he got his dream job.

She thinks she can treat people any kind of way especially those that try to help her. Now anybody who is associated with my brother gets treated like trash by her. She makes our family especially my brother look bad to the world especially on social media. She won’t support him but brag about spending his money,

The crazy part is she has people in the military who teaches her things she shouldn’t be knowing. He hate to come home because his marriage has become a competition.

He’s about to retire and he wants to protect his money. She always throw threats of leaving him in his face. She is waiting until he retires to do anything.

Now she’s turning the kids against him. He missed the programs at schools and etc. She never tells him anything about this. She wants to make it seem like she’s doing all the work and keeping the house up while he is away too. this was his dream job and his contract is nearly ending. He spent more than 10 years active duty military. Now he’s scared of losing everything he ever worked for.

He been with her since 2011 and this is what it has come too. I’m just trying to help him because it’s stressing him out.

Now that access has been cut off to him, now we are bad people. she don’t even want him to come home. All she wanna do is keep treating everyone like crap