One year ago my now ex wife shoved me down the stairs in front of our two year old son. She jumped on my back and tried to choke me. I got away and she ran off with our son. She went to the police station and tried to have me arrested. She spent the night in jail. I learned later that she had been planning my murder for months, and she intended to do it by shoving me down the stairs and saying I fell (I've seen text messages detailing her plan). She had been conspiring to relocate my son to another state. She used my son to manipulate me into cosigning on a new car, which she wanted as part of her plan, unknown to me. For months I came home to my home a fucking mess, and she'd accuse me of trashing the house (I was working 80 hr weeks so she could stay home, not sure when I had the time to trash the house). She withheld intimacy from me, usually using health problems as her excuse, but it turns out she was on tinder. I'm stuck in a town where I don't have anyone, and I can't leave because my son is here. There is so much more to say about my situation, but I just wanted to introduce myself.