Currently separated, almost at the end of the divorce. Marital settlement signed and she won’t sign the parenting plan and child support. Kids are complaining that they want to live here with me. I keep telling them there mother is just going through a hard time and things will get better. She’s put herself in a hole financially that I don’t believe she’s can get out of. I could probably fix it like I fixed it so many times over the last decade. I feel like I’m watching a drowning person taking her last breath metaphorically. I know deep down I have to just let go. I’m more concerned that a person in this predicament will do anything and everything to keep their head above water. I’m worried she will pull me in the water with her. She may just drag me down to the bottom. I feel like I’m dealing with a meth addict and I’m at the point where I just have to kick them out, or its going to tear mine apart. She’s not paying her rent at her apartment. Kids are not happy situation.