Nothing seems to shock me anymore fellas, I’m on AD divorced in CA now stationed in NC had an agreement to see my daughters 4x a year but judge ruled since the x didn’t make enough I had to pay all ticket fees to and from….meanwhile not even a year later x wife moves to ID. She has a cosmetology license and an associates degree but refuses to work…..talking with lawyers from ID sounds like not much will change as far as support goes even if she works and she won’t be held accountable for a move I didn’t know about because the visitation can still be done as ordered since neither of us live in CA…..dumbest thing I’m still paying CA support until she becomes a permanent resident of ID which takes at least 6 months then however long it takes in ID court. Gents I don’t deal with the woman on a regular basis thank god and as time passes life is better and better but it never completely goes away if you have kids with a crappy human. Keep your heads up whatever stage of it you’re in.