So after going back and forth with my stbxw for what seems like an eternity, we have come to an agreement on all terms. We've both had consultations aplenty and think we don't officially need to retain a lawyer/neduator,and can just do the petitioner/respondent fees and be done with it.

I'm not going to get any help from most of my legal resources because, well that should be obvious, so any advice one way itlr the other appreciated.