Process Start

BlackFire68 · 2026-06-02T20:40:30+00:00

You don’t “want one” and you don’t “ask for one”, you explain to the other person that there will be one.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T17:44:45+00:00

We had been fighting more and more often for years. During one of our last, I told her that I thought we should spend some time apart. She said, "Understand that if you leave, I will not be faithful. I need a man in my bed". Things got worse, I ran out the door to a safe place, and got an attorney. STBX changed all the locks. The attorney sent letters to negotiate our separation and divorce and the retrieval of my stuff. It's still in progress.

So, for me, it was a combination of the types of actions you're asking about.

Best wishes. Be strong.

EmbarrassedAge7612 · 2026-06-02T15:04:59+00:00

When we separated I told her I was moving to a different part of the house and we needed time to figure things out.

Divorce I had the paperwork waiting for her to get back from a trip with her affair partner. I also had a protection order for her to move out within 24 hours of her return.

Title	Process Start
Author	Cap10BlackSparrow
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 2, 2026 2:35 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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